Curious! now Just curious since I am new here. What is it that tickles your fancy. That is that most of you men want and looking for from an sp?
Don't be shy! be open and honest.
Don't be shy! be open and honest.
O.k. BOys. Share with me
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She has to know how to make sushi... and not talk with her mouth full. 
I think many of the things mentioned in this previous MP thread would also apply to SP experiences...
https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=75465
I think many of the things mentioned in this previous MP thread would also apply to SP experiences...
https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=75465
Hmmm...what do I look for in a SP
This is an interesting question. I have met gorgeous women who've turned me off. I've seen average looking women who are extremely hot. What does it for me? Body types do enter into it. I personally don't care for large women or skinny rake types...so that's a factor. But I think the women I've always repeated with are the ones who are really into it. Is that a GFE? Maybe and that certainly helps. But if she looks like she's really getting off and can carry a conversation then that really turns me on too. I have never understood how some women can really be into it 4 or 5 times a day...I know I couldn't fake it....maybe they can or maybe they are just total sluts at heart.
Somehow reading back at this it sounds like I'm looking for a girlfriend but that's not the case. But I would like to be with someone who could be called a friend...in spite of the retail aspect of it all.
This is an interesting question. I have met gorgeous women who've turned me off. I've seen average looking women who are extremely hot. What does it for me? Body types do enter into it. I personally don't care for large women or skinny rake types...so that's a factor. But I think the women I've always repeated with are the ones who are really into it. Is that a GFE? Maybe and that certainly helps. But if she looks like she's really getting off and can carry a conversation then that really turns me on too. I have never understood how some women can really be into it 4 or 5 times a day...I know I couldn't fake it....maybe they can or maybe they are just total sluts at heart
. Somehow reading back at this it sounds like I'm looking for a girlfriend but that's not the case. But I would like to be with someone who could be called a friend...in spite of the retail aspect of it all.
I think Joej summed it up perfectly. The most amazing experiences happen when she is genuinely wet, horny and thoroughly enjoying the pleasure as much as I am. There's nothing as erotic as a woman who really loves her job!
...on the flip side there's nothing as depressing as one who is obviously just going through the motions and only wants to get it over with, take the $ and move on.
My .02 worth.
Milly
...on the flip side there's nothing as depressing as one who is obviously just going through the motions and only wants to get it over with, take the $ and move on.
My .02 worth.
Milly
Simple...
When it feels like you are just visiting your mistress (but without the other baggages) and not going through a transaction.
It is true, however, that the body type (and sometimes the face) has to appeal to you. Everyone has a different taste and preference.
When it feels like you are just visiting your mistress (but without the other baggages) and not going through a transaction.
It is true, however, that the body type (and sometimes the face) has to appeal to you. Everyone has a different taste and preference.
Since you asked I will tell you
mmmm For me it also has to be someone I can have fun with. I love what I do. I love sex and I love the motions everything, the senses and all. I also what the men that I am with are honest with what they want and need and not afraid to ask about it. The way I see it I off a service and how can I provide that unless I trully know what is needed and wanted.
Also if I am not into it then what fun is it. I do this for work and also because I can never seem to find one single man who can handle my cravings. Kinky or otherwise!
I am not big and I am not skinny I consider myself to be a sensual curvy girl.
That is one of the main reason I was asking. As I might have had some thoughts that most of you would want the large breasted kinny beautiful women... also I like some but I like my girl to have meat on them. gotta be able to sink into them.
The men I like to be with must have a sense of humour! I love to laugh in and out of the bedroom. I can be a little spunky at time, naughty at others but also the perfect lady if it calls for it.
There is my blip
mmmm For me it also has to be someone I can have fun with. I love what I do. I love sex and I love the motions everything, the senses and all. I also what the men that I am with are honest with what they want and need and not afraid to ask about it. The way I see it I off a service and how can I provide that unless I trully know what is needed and wanted.
Also if I am not into it then what fun is it. I do this for work and also because I can never seem to find one single man who can handle my cravings. Kinky or otherwise!
I am not big and I am not skinny I consider myself to be a sensual curvy girl.
That is one of the main reason I was asking. As I might have had some thoughts that most of you would want the large breasted kinny beautiful women... also I like some but I like my girl to have meat on them. gotta be able to sink into them.
The men I like to be with must have a sense of humour! I love to laugh in and out of the bedroom. I can be a little spunky at time, naughty at others but also the perfect lady if it calls for it.
There is my blip
I look for a woman who I can relate to and enjoy her company first. For me a session does not work if I'm not comfortable with her personality. Straight to it makes me nervous and not at all in the mood. i am a gentleman and like to get a little raport going first, I enjoy a woman who is easy going and not rushed in her approach. I guess the GFE works for me.
If We don't click personality wise it doesn't matter how hot she is , I don't repeat.
Violette I sent you a E-mail as well.
If We don't click personality wise it doesn't matter how hot she is , I don't repeat.
Violette I sent you a E-mail as well.
Taking notes
don't mind me just taking notes. lol.
I am so happy that so many of you are so happy to share.
don't mind me just taking notes. lol.
I am so happy that so many of you are so happy to share.
If there is aconnection then the session seems to last, if not then you just want to get it over and out the door. It's like someone already posted, a visit to your mistress, Dangerous but Exciting.
Hi Violette,
I think many of the points I would bring up have already been said. But to show that many of us seem to be looking for something similar is important so I will restate some of them.
For me, height, weight, hair colour and such are just the giftwrapping. What is important to me is the present on the inside of the colourful box! A woman's attitude and service is always more of a turn on for me than her looks.
I agree with you that it is important for us to communicate our wants & desires, but I find that often, even if communicated, they are not always acted upon and this can lead to not wanting to communicate as openly as we should.
For me, when a lady has a good time, it adds something to the encounter that is almost magical. On the oposite side, obvious faking is a huge turnoff.
Someone else posted that when its like seing a mistress and not just a transaction. This can really set the mood of the entire encounter.
On the service side, every person will like things a different way, so its important to pay attention what your partner likes and resospond accordingly. For example, some men like a soft and sensuas BJ... others prefer deep and hard.. you have to see what works for each individual... This is just as important for the men when we return the favor!
If I think of anything else, I'll post more later.
I think many of the points I would bring up have already been said. But to show that many of us seem to be looking for something similar is important so I will restate some of them.
For me, height, weight, hair colour and such are just the giftwrapping. What is important to me is the present on the inside of the colourful box! A woman's attitude and service is always more of a turn on for me than her looks.
I agree with you that it is important for us to communicate our wants & desires, but I find that often, even if communicated, they are not always acted upon and this can lead to not wanting to communicate as openly as we should.
For me, when a lady has a good time, it adds something to the encounter that is almost magical. On the oposite side, obvious faking is a huge turnoff.
Someone else posted that when its like seing a mistress and not just a transaction. This can really set the mood of the entire encounter.
On the service side, every person will like things a different way, so its important to pay attention what your partner likes and resospond accordingly. For example, some men like a soft and sensuas BJ... others prefer deep and hard.. you have to see what works for each individual... This is just as important for the men when we return the favor!
If I think of anything else, I'll post more later.
