opinions/advice....

[shadokhan]

So here it is, i'm a young guy, i have a girl friend i love, but i can't stop looking/thinking/fantasizing about women.
I admit, i part take in the hobby sometimes,
but what i want to know is... do i have a problem or am i just like everyone else?
Why do i love women so much????
I come on here when i'm at work and read reviews and dream of women.
Is that so bad?

 

[revolver]

Sounds pretty normal to me...

 

[elmo]

Me too...

elmo

 

[shiftee]

It is not bad.

 

[wrong hole]

Is that so bad?

...it's not bad to fantasize about hot women..

...but if you truly love your girlfriend...keep it in the realm of fantasy then.....

 

[hedway]

Just a suggestion if you;re considering getting more or less hitched to her permanently. Get out there and bang as many other woman as you can beforehand. If she;s still the best after that, at least it won't leave you wondering.

 

[shadokhan]

Thanks for the comments, nice to know ii'm not alone.
hedway, i like your idea, i think thats a good plan!
I need to bang many chicks!

 

[homonger]

I gravitated to this hobby because I was single, not getting laid on a regular basis, and I figured, why the hell not? Now that I have been partaking for some time, I occasionally think that it would be good for me to find a girlfriend and stop this nonsense. But then I realize that I am having too good a time.

If you are in a relationship, shadokhan, but still feel the urge to bang other ladies, then I think the obvious thing to say would be that maybe she is not giving you all you need and you require getting it elsewhere.

But I think that might be too pat an answer. Is it possible to be totally in love with someone, have no sexual wants or needs that are not being satisfied, but still want to see other women on the side? I always tell myself that someday I will meet a nice girl, settle down, and then that will be that. But I also think that even if she makes me the happiest guy in the world, I will still eventually find myself, at some point, sitting in a hotel room in a strange city, calling up for an escort. I don't know if I could ever not partake.

 

[shadokhan]

Thanx Leggss,
Winston, i will watch out for the clap.....and the shotgun!

 

[ohioguy]

Yup, Normal

When I was engaged a few years back, I never cheated on her, but I looked at other women and went to strip clubs with the boys from time to time. I got a little flak for my behavior, but nothing major.

I didn't see my first SP until a few months after everything fell apart. I'd like to think that I would be able to be faithful in my next serious relationship, but hobbying is so damn fun, it'll be hard to give it up.

 

[MrEasy]

it all sounds perfectly heterosexual to me. Keep dreaming.

Remember, a dirty mind is a joy forever!