Orgy party
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YES,,,,several times...in our private lives..;-)
feel free to pm, we'd love to share our experiences with you..
amberjade / justin
xxx
feel free to pm, we'd love to share our experiences with you..
amberjade / justin
xxx
Brings lots and lots of condoms you can never have too many condoms.
don't jump into anything your not comfortable, avoid drinking to much a few drinks its ok but not soo much where you can't remember if you put on a condom or not.
did I mentioned condoms, condoms , condoms.
I remember those days in high school rainbow parties... now it's called work
don't jump into anything your not comfortable, avoid drinking to much a few drinks its ok but not soo much where you can't remember if you put on a condom or not.
did I mentioned condoms, condoms , condoms.
I remember those days in high school rainbow parties... now it's called work
I attended what you might describe as an orgy party on Friday night. For me, the highlight was being fellated by four different women within 20 minutes, all on the same bed. And no money changed hands, which is always a nice thing for a hobbiest. At one point there were eight of us on a gueen size bed. All in all, a good time.
The most important advice I could give would be to know what your limits and comforts are, and do not allow yourself to be pressured into anything you do not want to do. Being too wrecked is not a good idea either.And pick the right crowd, don't be the hottest or the ugliest in the room.
The most important advice I could give would be to know what your limits and comforts are, and do not allow yourself to be pressured into anything you do not want to do. Being too wrecked is not a good idea either.And pick the right crowd, don't be the hottest or the ugliest in the room.
Are you going as a single male or a couple? If you're a single male then you will quickly see that you are a pariah and that you have wasted your money. Next time show up with a girl. Now if you are a couple ...
You will definitely NOT have unrestrained access to every woman there! You have to get to know them first and show them that you are not a selfish asshole. Stick with your partner and move around the room being friendly and introducing yourselves to the other couples. Show no favoritism! Introduce yourselves and smile at everyone, make pleasant small talk.
DO NOT display any sort of intolerance! Don't put down gays, or immigrants or homeless people or single welfare moms or ANYBODY. Smile and look people right in the eye. Don't stick to one spot in the room or with any one couple. You only need 5 to 10 minutes per couple to show them how nice you are.
Display obvious affection and caring for your partner. Nothing turns a swinging woman on more that seeing you treat your wife like gold! Your wife has to be your equal partner. Out of balance power relationships within a couple are very obvious to swingers and they don't like it. In fact, swingers are far more intuitive observers than most of the people you have ever met. Don't try and con them for they will see right through you.
At a certain point couples will move to the bedroom areas and start to get naked. Don't be premature and go to the bedrooms too early to try and jump start things. Wait until the mood of the crowd all turns at around the same time and be part of the wave.
You start by making out with your wife. You did bring one didn't you? Now is when all your prep work earlier on will pay off. Proposition other couples very gently. Ask politely if it's okay to play with them. Often your wife will establish the first bridge with another wife, there will be tons of girl-girl action. Be VERY generous if you get a chance with another woman, go down on her and be really good at it.
DON'T stuff your fingers up her pussy! She will totally know you are an asshole if you do that. Devote your attention 100% to the woman you are with, don't be looking around or try to touch 4 different women at the same time.
Watch out for the "selfish woman". These will position themselves somewhere obvious like in the sex chair or someplace at the center of attention. They are there to take from everyone and give nothing in return. Their natural counterpart is the "bottom feeder": a guy so desperate for action they will service the selfish girl foolishly thinking they will get something in return. They do not.
If you've never had sex before with lots of other people watching you then your boner is going to have a tough time staying hard. Try hooking up with another couple for a foursome with you and your wife in a private room. Full swap is what you're looking for, don't be a selfish dominator jerk as the women there can easily replace you with another man or woman who treats them much better.
If things don't go your way and it becomes apparent you're not getting any action tonight then don't get pissed off and angry. That will only put you into a downward spin that you won't be able to escape. Instead switch into detached observer mode and remember how lucky you are just to be here in the first place. Watch and learn, it takes years to become a master at swinging. Good luck!
You will definitely NOT have unrestrained access to every woman there! You have to get to know them first and show them that you are not a selfish asshole. Stick with your partner and move around the room being friendly and introducing yourselves to the other couples. Show no favoritism! Introduce yourselves and smile at everyone, make pleasant small talk.
DO NOT display any sort of intolerance! Don't put down gays, or immigrants or homeless people or single welfare moms or ANYBODY. Smile and look people right in the eye. Don't stick to one spot in the room or with any one couple. You only need 5 to 10 minutes per couple to show them how nice you are.
Display obvious affection and caring for your partner. Nothing turns a swinging woman on more that seeing you treat your wife like gold! Your wife has to be your equal partner. Out of balance power relationships within a couple are very obvious to swingers and they don't like it. In fact, swingers are far more intuitive observers than most of the people you have ever met. Don't try and con them for they will see right through you.
At a certain point couples will move to the bedroom areas and start to get naked. Don't be premature and go to the bedrooms too early to try and jump start things. Wait until the mood of the crowd all turns at around the same time and be part of the wave.
You start by making out with your wife. You did bring one didn't you? Now is when all your prep work earlier on will pay off. Proposition other couples very gently. Ask politely if it's okay to play with them. Often your wife will establish the first bridge with another wife, there will be tons of girl-girl action. Be VERY generous if you get a chance with another woman, go down on her and be really good at it.
DON'T stuff your fingers up her pussy! She will totally know you are an asshole if you do that. Devote your attention 100% to the woman you are with, don't be looking around or try to touch 4 different women at the same time.
Watch out for the "selfish woman". These will position themselves somewhere obvious like in the sex chair or someplace at the center of attention. They are there to take from everyone and give nothing in return. Their natural counterpart is the "bottom feeder": a guy so desperate for action they will service the selfish girl foolishly thinking they will get something in return. They do not.
If you've never had sex before with lots of other people watching you then your boner is going to have a tough time staying hard. Try hooking up with another couple for a foursome with you and your wife in a private room. Full swap is what you're looking for, don't be a selfish dominator jerk as the women there can easily replace you with another man or woman who treats them much better.
If things don't go your way and it becomes apparent you're not getting any action tonight then don't get pissed off and angry. That will only put you into a downward spin that you won't be able to escape. Instead switch into detached observer mode and remember how lucky you are just to be here in the first place. Watch and learn, it takes years to become a master at swinging. Good luck!
Oh wait, are you a single woman? Then here is my advice for you:
Swingers have very hot /cold attitudes towards the single woman. Some couples are only looking for a single woman for a threesome and so they will be crazy about you. Other couples see the single woman as the lone wolf who can cause real trouble for their relationship and so they will avoid you.
Sometimes lesbians show up at swinging parties and are only there to eat some pussy. These girls are very unpopular since they unbalance the mix by removing other woman from the pool. So don't just think that because you are a hot single female that you'll be the belle of the ball. Show some humility and some cool poise.
As my advice before to men, move around the room early on and introduce yourself in as friendly and neutral manner as you can. DON'T GET DRUNK. I've seen nervous girls get drunk, get their pussies blasted by totally selfish and insensitive jerks, then run out of the party barfing on the ground outside. Wonder how their self esteem feels after that?
Don't be afraid of being pushed into something against your will. If this is a true swinger party then no-one will push you into anything. You are in the driver's seat. The only person who can do bad things to you is yourself, by making bad decisions. Everyone there at the party will support you if you want something to stop.
Don't be shallow. You will know in seconds who are the people you find physically attractive, but take the time to learn their personalities. Who's sexier? People with perfect bodies who don't give a damn about you or ordinary people with normal flaws who make you cum 7 times? Do your first go round and check everyone out, then spend some more time with the people who make it to your short list.
Don't be submissive and cower in a corner waiting for the perfect experience to seek you out. The most aggressive people at the party are usually not the best ones for you. So get proactive and move about.
So now you've picked out the couple or couples you want to play with. They may be newbies who are just there to watch, or get horny for each other, or do some crazy soft swinging nonsense. If they are newbies then that is a serious strike against them no matter how well you relate with them. Consider finding a couple with more experience.
So now you've found a couple and they are eager to negotiate some action with you. Don't be a tease! Swingers fuck, they fuck people they've just met. They spread their legs and allow tongues and covered cocks into their pussies. They have low opinions of girls who show up at private house parties encumbered by mental chastity belts. If you go off to a bedroom with a couple then be prepared to go all the way. You're not a teenage girl in a parked car, so don't make mistakes like one.
My partner's favorite swinging move is something we call the "lick and stick." That's where she has a cock in her pussy while a bi girl licks her clit. You should definitely go for the lick and stick. Also the one cock in the pussy and another in the mouth combo is a favorite with most swinging women, so try and give that one a try as well.
In summing up: the seeds of friendship you plant early in the evening will bear rich fruit later on. Be cool, be choosey, make a deal with your little head that your big head is in charge of the negotiating. Don't jump into something too fast that you will soon regret.
Look for people who are caring, sensitive and who can listen to your body. If you think rough aggression is sexy then find a partner to treat you that way in private. Because a woman being treated roughly in public is a very unpleasant thing to see. Be prepared to go all the way, you're at the steak house, don't be a vegetarian.
And of course good luck!
Swingers have very hot /cold attitudes towards the single woman. Some couples are only looking for a single woman for a threesome and so they will be crazy about you. Other couples see the single woman as the lone wolf who can cause real trouble for their relationship and so they will avoid you.
Sometimes lesbians show up at swinging parties and are only there to eat some pussy. These girls are very unpopular since they unbalance the mix by removing other woman from the pool. So don't just think that because you are a hot single female that you'll be the belle of the ball. Show some humility and some cool poise.
As my advice before to men, move around the room early on and introduce yourself in as friendly and neutral manner as you can. DON'T GET DRUNK. I've seen nervous girls get drunk, get their pussies blasted by totally selfish and insensitive jerks, then run out of the party barfing on the ground outside. Wonder how their self esteem feels after that?
Don't be afraid of being pushed into something against your will. If this is a true swinger party then no-one will push you into anything. You are in the driver's seat. The only person who can do bad things to you is yourself, by making bad decisions. Everyone there at the party will support you if you want something to stop.
Don't be shallow. You will know in seconds who are the people you find physically attractive, but take the time to learn their personalities. Who's sexier? People with perfect bodies who don't give a damn about you or ordinary people with normal flaws who make you cum 7 times? Do your first go round and check everyone out, then spend some more time with the people who make it to your short list.
Don't be submissive and cower in a corner waiting for the perfect experience to seek you out. The most aggressive people at the party are usually not the best ones for you. So get proactive and move about.
So now you've picked out the couple or couples you want to play with. They may be newbies who are just there to watch, or get horny for each other, or do some crazy soft swinging nonsense. If they are newbies then that is a serious strike against them no matter how well you relate with them. Consider finding a couple with more experience.
So now you've found a couple and they are eager to negotiate some action with you. Don't be a tease! Swingers fuck, they fuck people they've just met. They spread their legs and allow tongues and covered cocks into their pussies. They have low opinions of girls who show up at private house parties encumbered by mental chastity belts. If you go off to a bedroom with a couple then be prepared to go all the way. You're not a teenage girl in a parked car, so don't make mistakes like one.
My partner's favorite swinging move is something we call the "lick and stick." That's where she has a cock in her pussy while a bi girl licks her clit. You should definitely go for the lick and stick. Also the one cock in the pussy and another in the mouth combo is a favorite with most swinging women, so try and give that one a try as well.
In summing up: the seeds of friendship you plant early in the evening will bear rich fruit later on. Be cool, be choosey, make a deal with your little head that your big head is in charge of the negotiating. Don't jump into something too fast that you will soon regret.
Look for people who are caring, sensitive and who can listen to your body. If you think rough aggression is sexy then find a partner to treat you that way in private. Because a woman being treated roughly in public is a very unpleasant thing to see. Be prepared to go all the way, you're at the steak house, don't be a vegetarian.
And of course good luck!
The most convenient swinger parties are Wicked Club, it is an on-premises club, you can meet a couple and pretty much immediately have sex with them. They have been changing around their operation to address any legal issues, but the concept remains the same. www.wickedclub.com.
Lover's Lounge puts on house parties, it is run by the people that used to run Xtabi, they are good people. The crowd is older than the Wicked crowd, but consequently more experienced and mature, Wicked has more poseurs. www.loverslounge.com (I think).
Prive is now called Happy Hedonist. It is an older crowd still, their parties have a little harder edge to them, perhaps not for the first time visitor. www.happyhedonist.com.
For you first time, I suggest Wicked, you can always just watch until you are comfortable.
Lover's Lounge puts on house parties, it is run by the people that used to run Xtabi, they are good people. The crowd is older than the Wicked crowd, but consequently more experienced and mature, Wicked has more poseurs. www.loverslounge.com (I think).
Prive is now called Happy Hedonist. It is an older crowd still, their parties have a little harder edge to them, perhaps not for the first time visitor. www.happyhedonist.com.
For you first time, I suggest Wicked, you can always just watch until you are comfortable.
I would stay away from Wicked. You're right about the poseurs, and the couples there are obviously not communicating very well. With other couples and with each other. I can see a lot of intense arguments between those Barbie and Ken couples after they misbehave at Wicked. It also pisses me off that most reviews of Wicked have been done by shills or by Shlomo or Aurora outright.
I think Misty should go to some dances first, at Prive', Xtabi, Abstract or Close Encounters. Why go to an on-premise event first? Oh and just for future reference, the word "orgy" is never spoken by swingers, the term is "private house party."
I think Misty should go to some dances first, at Prive', Xtabi, Abstract or Close Encounters. Why go to an on-premise event first? Oh and just for future reference, the word "orgy" is never spoken by swingers, the term is "private house party."
Upstairs at Wicked is nice, at the $20 special price it is a real deal. Sometimes we'll take a couple there that we're already familiar with, but we sure don't count on connecting with anyone new there. We will try Wicked 2 though as it is conveniently located. I suppose I should write a review!
The BEST times we have had are in Quebec swing clubs. Experience is number 1 in swinging!
The BEST times we have had are in Quebec swing clubs. Experience is number 1 in swinging!
I got to wicked sometimes, its fun there since they have thier fuck rooms on site. makes it easier then runing around for a last minute hotel.
We went to X since the new owners took over. It is very much like Xtabi, same people and everything. They seem to be putting more effort into themes. Tonight is ladies-only pole dancing, I know a lady who is there, I am looking forward to her review.
