Phone etiquette during call

[hofanatic]

I had an SP do a 12 hour overnight for the first time, never did anything longer than 2 hours before.

What is everyone's thoughts on phone etiquette and usage by both parties during that time.

Now I do understand that during the time there are breaks and rejuvenating time which they will likely check their phone, but how much is too much. Should they be texting and possibly scheduling their next appointment during that time?

As I said I have never did a call this long before so I don't know what is usually accepted.

 

[L2R2mero]

I think many of us actively do try to be away from our phones, but just lack imagination to do anything fun or creative.

That said, my expectation during the few overnights I have done has been that that time is really used to focus on the person I’m with and not “doom scroll” the apps on my phone. We’ll need to check for messages every now and then, but preferably if they’re trying to book appointments, to do it during breaks.

It can also be a YMMV thing with an SP you’ve seen for so long and so often that your time spent feels like a FWB situation. That freedom to do whatever makes the experience more loose but also much more comfortable IMO, as I’ve done.

 

[squeezer]

I'd stick to the 2 hours. I would never do an all-nighter with someone who is not into me. I would find it awkward, and I'd probably be the one on my phone, but that's just me. LOL

 

[Jenesis]

It should be saved for the breaks. Not answered right away.

I try to avoid my phone and usually turn it off during appointments. That is my work phone for escorting. My work phone for my business which is forwarded, I will answer if something is urgent. My personal phone is the same. Or I will quickly answer on my watch, say I’m in an appointment and hang up.

There are times we have to answer both client and SP but you do your best not to and if you have to, you keep it short. On an overnight, you can keep to break times as much as possible .

 

[RebelinBed]

I've never intentionally done an overnight. I have had 2 or 3 overnights happen on accident but that's a different story lol I've only done 2-3 hours max.

I would say that phones should be kept to breaks and at minimum but it really depends on your relationship with the SP. I would also add that you may want to communicate your expectations of phone use during the time to the SP when planning because it doesn't sound like you did.

 

[billa84]

Hey is there any suggestions for overnight Sp ??

 

[RebelinBed]

Hey is there any suggestions for overnight Sp ??

From what I understand, overnights are best had with regular women you feel comfortable with and vibe with. I wouldn't recommend that kind of time and money on someone you've never seen in case you don't vibe or the session doesn't go well.

 

[hofanatic]

I would also add that you may want to communicate your expectations of phone use during the time to the SP when planning because it doesn't sound like you did.

Yes I definitely will be if I ever do an overnight again in the future. I didn't communicate the expectations before as you mention, as I didn't know what to expect and never had an issue before as the longest session I had before was 2-3 hours.

I likely will just go back and stick to that length going forward.