Question For Handsome Men That See Escorts.

[Sa10]

By no means am I implying that the most prominent reason leading to men seeking companionship of SPs is: being unattractive.

However…

If you’re a Zayn Malik, Robert Pattinson level of pretty face & build & you choose to see escorts when civis are throwing themselves at you all the time

Why do you make the choice & what’s the biggest distinction that you find in the experience with an SP(s) (that you see often) & a civi.

Also, are you able to have better experience with civis, since you’ve had considerable practice with professionals ?(hope this question makes sense, basically I’m asking, if civis tell you that you’re great in the act, compared to others the civi might have engaged with before you)

 

[xmontrealer]

Imho, and never having been Brad Pitt, I assume that handsome men hire sex workers because of the lack of complications involved, the more likelihood of getting sexual value for the money and little amount of effort invested, and the classic saying "you don't pay them for the sex, you pay them to leave after the sex"...

 

[jalimon]

Because handsome men are like us, who look more like Danny DeVito than Brad Pitt. They want sex and none of the shit involved with hooking up a civic girl.. You know, going out, restaurant, drinks... And all that shit.

Younger, the thrill is all about chasing and scoring. As you get older this is the shitty part.

Older... When you want to zing, you zing

 

[Mr.Gr33k]

By no means am I implying that the most prominent reason leading to men seeking companionship of SPs is: being unattractive.

However…

If you’re a Zayn Malik, Robert Pattinson level of pretty face & build & you choose to see escorts when civis are throwing themselves at you all the time

Why do you make the choice & what’s the biggest distinction that you find in the experience with an SP(s) (that you see often) & a civi.

Also, are you able to have better experience with civis, since you’ve had considerable practice with professionals ?(hope this question makes sense, basically I’m asking, if civis tell you that you’re great in the act, compared to others the civi might have engaged with before you)

It's funny you chose Zayn Malik and Robert Pattinson as a benchmark for pretty. I would consider either one of them a basic average. Waaay better specimen out there to be called pretty.

Seeing SPs is a freedom of choice with very little consequences. There are many civvies who will put most prominent SPs to shame in terms of looks and skills, but very few would settle for open relationships. With sex workers it's usually no strings attached and one can meet as many new faces as one wants without hurt feelings or the blame. In civvie life intimacy comes with strings, obligations etc... Unless we are talking about a Rockstar with thousands of groupies.

 

[xmontrealer]

EDIT

Also, are you able to have better experience with civis, since you’ve had considerable practice with professionals ?(hope this question makes sense, basically I’m asking, if civis tell you that you’re great in the act, compared to others the civi might have engaged with before you)

Btw part of a professional's job is to flatter your sexual prowess. Maybe you're great, or maybe you're not, but usually an escort's praise is only another feature you just paid for. They may also be fibbing when they tell you that you have a really big dick, or that you're very handsome although you've seen yourself in a mirror and civvies have not been throwing themselves at you all your life....

That said, I'm pretty sure mpa's and escorts have fine-tuned my daty abilities over the years through verbal tips. Mostly re: starting off super gently, then getting more aggressive according to the lady's response, and learning to read that response. I often joke that my tongue is now the best conditioned muscle in my body.

But it is true that I have gotten a lot of tips from pros over the years that certainly improved my oral skills with pros as time went on. I don't know if that improved me with civvies, cuz I stopped seeing civvies even though I got divorced, and wasn't having sex with my wife for the latter half of my marriage, with no sex outside the marriage other than pros.

 

[LP191]

I get hit on a lot with social media and at bars etc.. but sometimes I just don’t want the relationship / working for it

I just wanna find my type and pay for it

$150 isn’t a lot when it saves a whole night for you and a bunch of time, work, emotions, dates, etc

sex workers are the greatest thing to ever happen

 

[Ol' Dirty Bastard]

or that you're very handsome although you've seen yourself in a mirror and civvies have not been throwing themselves at you all your life....

Personally I think it's the civvies loss. All those SPs can't be lying.

 

[Pijazo]

What about variety? The ability to choose at will is higher with escorts than civis. it does not matter how attractive you are (or were when younger) Variety and diversity are important in everyone’s life. You can learn some new tricks -yes. But is not about doing crazy stuff, you can also have wild rides with civis. And perhaps the most important is privacy, you can find a crazy civi and she can turn into a crazy stalker, with a pro, risk is somehow lower (though not zero). Hope this helps.

 

[GeeBee]

Every SP I’ve ever seen has called me handsome sometimes before we even meet!! They wouldn’t lie would they?

TBH seeing SP’s has been fantastic for my self esteem.

 

[LilTomislav]

Because escorts give an experience that a large majority of civies don't. The right escorts are charming, friendly, take good care of themselves, and enjoy what they do and get into it, and I personally try to reflect that back to them as a client. You get a safe environment to explore and indulge in each other. Overall it's a positive experience in that it makes for great practice in communication and technique.

 

[speakercontrols]

I'm not paying for sex, I'm paying for when, where, how and who I want sex with. Thinking it's just about sex is dumb.

 

[Fun For All]

I get hit on a lot with social media and at bars etc.. but sometimes I just don’t want the relationship / working for it

I just wanna find my type and pay for it

$150 isn’t a lot when it saves a whole night for you and a bunch of time, work, emotions, dates, etc

sex workers are the greatest thing to ever happen

$150? You never go longer than 30 minutes?

 

[John_duet_16]

$150? You never go longer than 30 minutes?

Unless he has been hit on at the bars, social media,etc.

 

[John_duet_16]

With the exception of soldiers taking a break from the war or sailors months on the boat. Almost no one would pay to get laid if they were able to score for free. Especially members of this forum. And yes that includes myself....

 

[jalimon]

With the exception of soldiers taking a break from the war or sailors months on the boat. Almost no one would pay to get laid if they were able to score for free. Especially members of this forum. And yes that includes myself....

Perhaps, but it would never work. Girls would soon realize that if they are to provide for everyone, they might as well get something out of it!

 

[John_duet_16]

Perhaps, but it would never work. Girls would soon realize that if they are to provide for everyone, they might as well get something out of it!

I somewhat understand your point. I would add "some" girls to your above statement.
I personally would not pay for a blow job if I could get it for free...

 

[Robert Mugabe]

$150? You never go longer than 30 minutes?

That would get me 2 hours including a $10.00 tip with my regular Asian gilf.

 

[Robert Mugabe]

Somebody had to say it.

 

[The Options Menu]

I somewhat understand your point. I would add "some" girls to your above statement.
I personally would not pay for a blow job if I could get it for free...

Time and effort aren't free. I'm not rich, and not a stud, but historically I always dated, had girlfriends, and even managed the odd pickup here and there. At this point in my life I love women, but I just don't have the bandwidth to try to date (and my pickup game would be old, rusty, and sad). So if I want sexy fun, and sexy fun doesn't just fall in my lap (sometimes it does), then escorts are great.

 

[SexB]

I'm a definite Buthisbody, everything is fine but my body, I've had a few ladies, both civvie and provider, tell me that I'm handsome.

For me, I just lost interest in dating a few years ago. A few attempts at starting something didn't go anywhere and it felt like the universe was trying to tell me something. Escorts are called "companions" and for me, they provide just that, companionship, even if it's just for a short time. Basically, it's the ultimate NSA sex.