Question for the Women about Marriage/Long Term Relationship with Hobbiest/Male Slut

[PvtJoker]

Read the thread on SPs reintegrating to society (personally, I don’t really see them as being separate from society…but that’s another story). It got me thinking. How do women feel about men with a high body count?

Ladies, let’s say you meet a guy who is otherwise normal, but in the course of dating he reveals that he spent several years where he saw a prostitute once a week. How is that going to make you feel?

The second scenario, you meet a guy who is otherwise normal, but he has had sex with a lot of different women. Is that your question to bail out, or a non-issue?

 

[Ginomore]

A man with experience is attractive to most females.
A woman with little to no experience is attractive to most men.

 

[Shaquille Oatmeal]

Most people would react negatively to people who see sex workers in my opinion.
My sense is that people generally have negative opinions of a potential partner with a high body count, whether sex workers were involved or not.

 

[SinnamonFairbanks]

I personally dont think I would care as long as he was safe about it and was tested at least semi regularly. I hate hearing that someone had a lot of sex, especially unprotected sex and they never get tested.

I dont care if someone saw prostitutes morally but my concerns boil down to loyalty and whether or not he was cheating or using prostitutes as a crutch (ie. does he run to prostitutes the minute life gets hard or he can't deal with things)

My concerns would be that whenever life gets hard he would take family finances and steal them to satisfy his own needs like I read a lot about on here. Kind of like how a gambler or an alcoholic would steal from their family.

Body count doesnt matter to me. I'd honestly rather have sex with someone who knows what he's doing. It almost doesnt matter how many people they were with if they were totally safe about it.

I honestly love a good slut

Not a disgusting one that swaps fluids with everyone and doesnt care about themselves, but one that takes pride in their cock and treats it like his most valuable asset. They fancy themselves as woman pleasers. Like they just exist to make women moan. Making women cum is why they wake up in the morning and is their motivation behind everything. Those are my favorite lol.

 

[bazokajoe]

I think the OP's question can work both ways.

 

[Robert Mugabe]

A man with experience is attractive to most females.
A woman with little to no experience is attractive to most men.

Not paid for experience.

 

[kherg007]

Back in the old country it was not uncommon that folks would get themselves tested prior to engaging in an exclusive dating relationship. That kinda took the wind out of a lot of the body count discussion.

 

[The Options Menu]

Not paid for experience.

Beyond the stigma around seeing sex workers, with some / many guys that see sex workers I suspect it counts as anti-experience. Basically, if you're treating sex workers as a dehumanized collection of holes to take your pleasure with in whatever manner you see fit you're probably going to be a shitty lover.

 

[Robert Mugabe]

Beyond the stigma around seeing sex workers, with some / many guys that see sex workers I suspect it counts as anti-experience. Basically, if you're treating sex workers as a dehumanized collection of holes to take your pleasure with in whatever manner you see fit you're probably going to be a shitty lover.

"if you're treating sex workers as a dehumanized collection of holes to take your pleasure with in whatever manner you see fit you're probably going to be a shitty lover."

At least there is an options menu

Anyway, as Natasha Leggero pointed out. Bragging about numbers with hookers is like bragging about getting drinks from a vending machine.

 

[xix]

Read the thread on SPs reintegrating to society (personally, I don’t really see them as being separate from society…but that’s another story). It got me thinking. How do women feel about men with a high body count?

Ladies, let’s say you meet a guy who is otherwise normal, but in the course of dating he reveals that he spent several years where he saw a prostitute once a week. How is that going to make you feel?

The second scenario, you meet a guy who is otherwise normal, but he has had sex with a lot of different women. Is that your question to bail out, or a non-issue?

Pretty boys will never be short of women. No matter what age.

 

[Ginomore]

Not paid for experience.

It doesn’t matter whether it’s paid experience or not.
Women are attracted to men who know what they are doing in the bedroom period.

 

[Robert Mugabe]

It doesn’t matter whether it’s paid experience or not.
Women are attracted to men who know what they are doing in the bedroom period.

So by your standards, this should count.

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[IM469]

Why would I tell her ??? BTW: I am not going to ask about her experience either.

 

[The Options Menu]

Why would I tell her ??? BTW: I am not going to ask about her experience either.

After a certain point in life it's not about cataloguing all of your sexual experiences so much as establishing baselines for experience, preferences, and safety. A sexual history chat becomes more, "Here is where I'm at and what I like.", and less a grand confession. You might want to leave the sex workers out of that chat while making sure you're on top of your sexual health.

 

[Ginomore]

So by your standards, this should count.

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That’s a ridiculous argument.
I’m talking about experience with a human female.

 

[AnotherCamus94]

Not paid for experience.

As the old saying goes, "Every man pays for sex. Married men pay the most."

 

[Robert Mugabe]

That’s a ridiculous argument.
I’m talking about experience with a human female.

Once again to quote Natasha Leggero. Having sex with a prostitute is akin to buying a can of coke from a vending machine.

 

[Patron]

I think for relationship oriented women who expect men to be like the masses in the parable The Emperor’s New Clothes, being with a guy who is accustomed to choosing sex partners from an available menu would be extraordinarily difficult. The recent honest comments from men about Jennifer Love Hewitt are illustrative.

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I think Jennifer Love Hewitt is extremely attractive now as compared to the typical North American woman in her forties who has children.

I do not find her nearly as attractive as she was in her teens, twenties or even her thirties.

A man who married in his teens or twenties to a similarly aged woman and continued in that relationship monogamously picked up greater skills in not saying the sorts of things that pissed off the women in the first linked article. That silver-tongued fellow would have the sense to leave the sex workers out of the Body Count discussion during a relationship. But he might also recognize that a date that is too obsessed with the past is going to be a lifelong hassle.

I enjoyed both I Know What You Did Last Summer (sometimes called I know what your breasts did last summer in honor of Jennifer Love Hewitt), and I Still Know What You Did Last Summer. I look forward to seeing the sequel these two decades later that might feature Will’s Grandson, as well as the older and heavier Jennifer Love Hewitt. Perhaps the weight gain controversy will be a build-up to a surprise ending where she captures the killer in a remote area and kills him by sitting on him and smothering him before removing the mask from his dead body.

 

[Bucktee]

Men don't share their paid for experiences (which all men have had) with lovers, just like women never share their true body count with lovers.

Most women would be appalled knowing that their man was a john just like most men are appalled by women's body counts.

Most women find a man with many past partners endearing, but it's usually not something she has to guess at. First, if he's physically attractive, she knows the odds are high, and if he has a social personality on top of good looks, she knows it's practically a given.

Women also desire social validation for partners... she wants other women's approval of the guy she's dating, and having many past partnerships provides that confirmation. Men couldn't care less if the woman he's attracted to lacks friends, status, or is even deemed attractive by his peers. We like what we like and don't require anyone else's approval.

 

[Ginomore]

Once again to quote Natasha Leggero. Having sex with a prostitute is akin to buying a can of coke from a vending machine.

Who the hell is Natasha and what does a can of coke have to do with this discussion?