Another point of view
As a quadriplegic, with very little sexual experience, I lock onto the wonderful memory of experience of spending time with a lovely (usually younger) woman, just being touched and held, in a non-medical or non-care giving way. I am not the gregarious type, so meeting women is terribly difficult when you look so different. I need that memory to keep me going and give me hope. The only “emptiness” I feel afterwards (aside from my wallet) comes from the desire to find someone who might want me for me (not money) and have an ongoing LTR. Each experience with an SP provides me with a sorely needed confidence boost, because I can usually talk to her about things I could never discuss with a potential girlfriend. I always try to go through a thorough process of screening an SP, so she knows as much info as possible about my limitations, and me before we meet. The result is (usually) a level of comfort that facilitates a dialogue (about sex) that I can later apply to future relationships. I wouldn’t have a clue what I could or couldn’t do to give pleasure, if I didn’t have access to SPs. Everything my friends learned in High-School, I’m just discovering in my 30’s. This is just a different point of view about the industry that perhaps some haven’t considered. I guess it’s all in your perspective.
Thank you to all those SPs who can look past their trepidations and give those people with disabilities who might otherwise never meet anyone, the chance to experience some of the pleasures life has to offer.
Take care, guys and gals,
Jeff
