Reasons for Hobbying

[Reflection23]

Hi All,
Getting your opinion ( I know this may be obvious but)

Do you find that with hobbying you find you are less attracted to your wife/gf?
Do you hobby because your wife/gf does not satisfy you?
or is it basically that we all want variety and younger hotter girls that we can't have because of marriage, relationships etc?

Thanks

 

[spacyfoil]

Don't have wife or girlfriend.

Happy ?

 

[GrandBlasterK]

I find with hobbying that I end up having sex with all the attractive women I want, without the headache of a wife/gf.
I would love to date or marry a younger hotter girl, but the problem is they are all discreet SPs (from Ryerson). lol

Happy?

 

[alb]

In answer to your questions:

1) No I don't find with hobbying I am less attractive to my significant other (SO)
2) Yes, I hobby because over the last number of years we rarely have sexual relations anymore and I like variety of women who are sexually uninhibited and fun in bed. Before hobbying I frequently went to MP's for sexual release now I tend to lean towards SP's.

 

[Zombie]

I'm horny as hell and my (now ex) gf was not a sexual person.

 

[eldoguy]

I love to hobby because no Wife, or So, swearing at me! Just my time to enjoy, I don't judge.

 

[JustSex]

I love beautiful women - I will not compromise just for a willing vagina. I also get bored very quickly no matter how beautiful they are. There is something about the first time with a beautiful women that I love. The only way of getting a continuous stream of beautiful women with out getting emotional or lying to the girl is to hobby.

I have a beautiful S.O. and get along quite well but it is full partnership and there is no overlap or confusion in my mind. I know my friends think that having a wife like mine - there is no reason to wander but that just isn't the case for me. I am not looking for love in SC, MP or SP - just a sweet sexual memory.

 

[Capoeira]

I hobby because there is no way an old fart like me could fuck so many hotties in the real world!

 

[The Options Menu]

A good SC crawl lets me 'get my seedy out' without inviting 'seedy' into my daily life.

 

[Hangman]

Here's a comment from a similar thread years ago.

"...my wife, while a great cook and wonderful life partner and mother to my children, isn't a 19 year-old Asian into mutual rimming."

 

[DocOdd]

Not in a long term relationship, and don't hobby when I am. Have found that the methods I've tried for getting casual sex in the civilian world take a lot of time and effort, don't work all that often, and usually end up with terrible sex even when they work. So hobbying is appealing as a quite reliable way to quickly get great sex when I get impatient waiting for the next good long term relationship to come along.

 

[bowser]

Dead on Doc.

 

[K Douglas]

Excitement, variety, no strings, lack of a significant other, don't go to bars/clubs much.......

 

[mickmasterson]

Not in a long term relationship, and don't hobby when I am. Have found that the methods I've tried for getting casual sex in the civilian world take a lot of time and effort, don't work all that often, and usually end up with terrible sex even when they work. So hobbying is appealing as a quite reliable way to quickly get great sex when I get impatient waiting for the next good long term relationship to come along.

I concur - that's my current situation and perspective as well.

 

[Thunderballs]

Ditto with Alb.

 

[DudleyDoRight]

Wife's in the loony bin. Not going to get divorced or bring another woman home to the kids. Seems like a decent enough solution.

 

[gentleman__jim]

Why do dogs lick their balls? Because they can. Why do I hobby? I can't lick my balls.