Renewed appreciation for the skills of SPs

kkelso

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Due to a shift in my client list I am not getting to Toronto to enjoy my favorite SPs nearly as much as I used to. For that and other reasons I decided to try my hand at on-line dating, and have been on dates with five women in the last couple of months.

All of the women were attractive, and in their mid-20s. Four of my dates eventually resulted in sex. As delighted as I was to get laid (and I was delighted) I have been stunned at the poor quality of the sex. It has dawned on me rather abruptly that the SPs of Toronto have spoiled me with their level of skill.

I have made the mistake of thinking that young horny women are just naturally good in the sack, because that's what our fine SPs have conditioned me to believe. That's not reality.

The next SP I can see that gives me a competent BBBJ, responds to my needs, and doesn't attempt to peel the enamel off my teeth during kissing is going to get a big tip :)

Here's to you ladies!

KK
 

oil&gas

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Those four out of five dates were not as good as
the SPs because they didn't need to have their
professional ethics to please us men.
 

Powpow

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Due to a shift in my client list I am not getting to Toronto to enjoy my favorite SPs nearly as much as I used to. For that and other reasons I decided to try my hand at on-line dating, and have been on dates with five women in the last couple of months.

All of the women were attractive, and in their mid-20s. Four of my dates eventually resulted in sex. As delighted as I was to get laid (and I was delighted) I have been stunned at the poor quality of the sex. It has dawned on me rather abruptly that the SPs of Toronto have spoiled me with their level of skill.

I have made the mistake of thinking that young horny women are just naturally good in the sack, because that's what our fine SPs have conditioned me to believe. That's not reality.

The next SP I can see that gives me a competent BBBJ, responds to my needs, and doesn't attempt to peel the enamel off my teeth during kissing is going to get a big tip :)

Here's to you ladies!

KK
I found myself laughing at this post. Your observations are spot on.

And yes... we should hand it to the ladies here that make this side of life so pleasurable.

Online dating (have you tried Tinder yet?) Can be a ton of fun. I always found the first few experiences with a new civilian to always be awkward. The issue is to get anyone comfortable with each other it takes a few more dates and then you have to start answering relationship related questions or worse yet, realize that civilians are really not that careful when it comes to dafe sex. The amount of non industry women who after the first few dates push for bareback or say run out of condoms at their home and say "fuck it, lets do it anyway" is shocking.

I have already told myself that the next civilian woman I meet that is open minded and somewhat skilled in bed, drama free, and has a good head on her shoulders about money, safe sex, and health I am going marry her.
 

MissCroft

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realize that civilians are really not that careful when it comes to safe sex. The amount of non industry women who after the first few dates push for bareback or say run out of condoms at their home and say "fuck it, lets do it anyway" is shocking.

This. I know for a fact that many 'civilian' women don't always care about using condoms. (I know one woman who is quite promiscuous and tells me she hates condoms.) So it's silly that a lot of people assume SPs are high risk and that civilian women are always safer.

At least with an SP, you already know she's had a lot of sexual partners. Not all civilian women will tell the truth.
 

Titalian

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I found myself laughing at this post. Your observations are spot on.

And yes... we should hand it to the ladies here that make this side of life so pleasurable.

Online dating (have you tried Tinder yet?) Can be a ton of fun. I always found the first few experiences with a new civilian to always be awkward. The issue is to get anyone comfortable with each other it takes a few more dates and then you have to start answering relationship related questions or worse yet, realize that civilians are really not that careful when it comes to dafe sex. The amount of non industry women who after the first few dates push for bareback or say run out of condoms at their home and say "fuck it, lets do it anyway" is shocking.

I have already told myself that the next civilian woman I meet that is open minded and somewhat skilled in bed, drama free, and has a good head on her shoulders about money, safe sex, and health I am going marry her.
Why Marry if you don't want children LOL
 

Powpow

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Titalian: Why get married again? Social/Cultural pressure. I want kids eventually. And I haven't given up on my dream that I can find a life long activity partner!

MissCroft: You're absolutely right. I think all the silly lies I told girls when I was a teen/early 20's to get laid s are coming back to bite me in the ass in my 40's. The crazy amount of 'untruths' or 'half-truths' that I've encountered in the last few year of dating makes me mental. Lies about finances, or who they're sleeping with. Lies about education level or where they've traveled. I get the odd fib here and there when you meet a stranger and don't want to disclose too much, but some of these are well concocted stories. I went on a date the other day with a woman that told me she didn't have children, only to find out on the 3rd date she has two sons and isn't exactly officially divorced yet, but didn't want to tell me that to scare me off. Sigh.
 

Capital Amatuer

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I have already told myself that the next civilian woman I meet that is open minded and somewhat skilled in bed, drama free, and has a good head on her shoulders about money, safe sex, and health I am going marry her.
This the Holy Grail.
 

Nad Smith

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I am in my sixties - a widower - grown children and grandchildren so I have family - a couple of good women friends - and I know it is terrible to say but I am not really interested in women my age...so this "hobby" is just much better for me.
 

Titalian

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Here's my take on this, and dating women, and bare back sex. (Which btw is the most natural and enjoyable way of having sex with someone you love)
When I was first introduced to my ex-wife WOW DDG. And yes the first thing that came to my mind was sex.
But then I got to know her. She was beautiful inside as well as out. from that point on I never pushed having sex. I just wanted to be with her.
We were seeing each other religiously, until four weeks later when it happened, in a very special way. And yes it was bareback.
From that point on we never looked back. Got married had a beautiful child together. We are still the best of friends to this day.
 

Chloë.

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Due to a shift in my client list I am not getting to Toronto to enjoy my favorite SPs nearly as much as I used to. For that and other reasons I decided to try my hand at on-line dating, and have been on dates with five women in the last couple of months.

All of the women were attractive, and in their mid-20s. Four of my dates eventually resulted in sex. As delighted as I was to get laid (and I was delighted) I have been stunned at the poor quality of the sex. It has dawned on me rather abruptly that the SPs of Toronto have spoiled me with their level of skill.

I have made the mistake of thinking that young horny women are just naturally good in the sack, because that's what our fine SPs have conditioned me to believe. That's not reality.

The next SP I can see that gives me a competent BBBJ, responds to my needs, and doesn't attempt to peel the enamel off my teeth during kissing is going to get a big tip :)

Here's to you ladies!

KK
Thanks for coming back to the dark side! We have better cookies anyway ;).
 

lomotil

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Every thing in moderation, a good sp can wipe out your pocket book but not wipe your ass.
 

kkelso

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Basically the definition of a well reviewed, retired sex worker lol.
Agreed fully. In my heart of hearts I would only marry a retired SP. They have the best and most realistic perspective on men.

KK
 

Powpow

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A mean civilian woman can do the same or worse. Ever wonder why some divorced men live in rooming houses?
Amen. If a man overspends his budget in this industry, that's his own damn fault for lack of control. A bad divorce might not even be the man's fault, he could still get screwed for years.
 

GPIDEAL

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Why Marry if you don't want children LOL
As you know, you don't have to be married to be considered married, if you co-habitate for a certain length of time.

I guess he means "commit to one woman". Nothing wrong with that. If you love each other and love spending time together having fun, then that's the holy grail someone else said.
 

SkyRider

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A bad divorce might not even be the man's fault, he could still get screwed for years.
And not screwed in a good way either. One of my friends is still paying alimony to a woman he is no longer allowed to fcuk.

Did I tell you about my former lesbian neighbors? They split. Now the younger woman who never had any visible means of support wants 1/2 the house that was bought with the older woman's money.
 
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