This is a difficult one for me to write because this person's behaviour skirts the line between eccentric and just plain disrespectful. I think he'd like to think it's the former. I get the feeling that he might read this but I've decided to go ahead with it anyway.
His quirky personality and interesting demeanour caused me to overlook some of his problematic behaviour during our first booking back in May, but when he repeated with me last week I came away from it feeling pretty frustrated and I was no longer impressed by his 'unique' character. He typically starts off by asking really 'deep' questions, and tries to gauge your intellect and originality in your responses. He tries to give you all kinds of wisdom, in particular, he likes to insinuate that you shouldn't be escorting because you should be enjoying your youth. He appears to mean well but it comes off as rather paternalistic. In this particular booking, he kept asking for me to tell him my real name and when I refused, he made a comment about how I'd already given up my anonymity when I posted a partial face photo in my ad. I told him that I appreciate being the sole agent in deciding my degree of anonymity and that my issue was that he was pressuring me to give up information that I hadn't volunteered on my own accord. It seems as though he feels that he's doing you a favour by offering a unique and engaging experience that you mustn't be accustomed to, being a prostitute and all. It's like he thought that offering him my real name would somehow liberate me and allow me to escape my role as an escort for a moment, as if I desperately craved to be a real person and to escape from the pain and frustration of servicing strange men. He also commented that he was turned on by my youth and the fact that I was intellectually undeveloped. Again, paternalistic and inappropriate.
Realize that he paid me for 15 minutes and chewed up about 17 minutes with his rhetoric. I implored us to get down to business, and we did, during which hie behaviour was fine. 35 minutes later, he was on his way out the door and said that he did not believe destiny would bring us together again (one of his big talking points is that he believes that everything is predestined). When I asked why, he said it was because I didn't give him my name, which made him disappointed, and when he's disappointed he doesn't want to see someone again. I said "Well, that's good for you I guess" and was polite to him as he made his exit. $60 lost and a lot of frustration having been patronized by someone who gets off on me being young and naive.
Ladies PM me for the digits.
His quirky personality and interesting demeanour caused me to overlook some of his problematic behaviour during our first booking back in May, but when he repeated with me last week I came away from it feeling pretty frustrated and I was no longer impressed by his 'unique' character. He typically starts off by asking really 'deep' questions, and tries to gauge your intellect and originality in your responses. He tries to give you all kinds of wisdom, in particular, he likes to insinuate that you shouldn't be escorting because you should be enjoying your youth. He appears to mean well but it comes off as rather paternalistic. In this particular booking, he kept asking for me to tell him my real name and when I refused, he made a comment about how I'd already given up my anonymity when I posted a partial face photo in my ad. I told him that I appreciate being the sole agent in deciding my degree of anonymity and that my issue was that he was pressuring me to give up information that I hadn't volunteered on my own accord. It seems as though he feels that he's doing you a favour by offering a unique and engaging experience that you mustn't be accustomed to, being a prostitute and all. It's like he thought that offering him my real name would somehow liberate me and allow me to escape my role as an escort for a moment, as if I desperately craved to be a real person and to escape from the pain and frustration of servicing strange men. He also commented that he was turned on by my youth and the fact that I was intellectually undeveloped. Again, paternalistic and inappropriate.
Realize that he paid me for 15 minutes and chewed up about 17 minutes with his rhetoric. I implored us to get down to business, and we did, during which hie behaviour was fine. 35 minutes later, he was on his way out the door and said that he did not believe destiny would bring us together again (one of his big talking points is that he believes that everything is predestined). When I asked why, he said it was because I didn't give him my name, which made him disappointed, and when he's disappointed he doesn't want to see someone again. I said "Well, that's good for you I guess" and was polite to him as he made his exit. $60 lost and a lot of frustration having been patronized by someone who gets off on me being young and naive.
Ladies PM me for the digits.
