single guy at OASIS
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that is why i hesitate in going and becoming a wallflower and feeling creepy
the odds of meeting that girl u would love to have and having her want you above everyone else seems very slim, but I have not gone but I am considering it like the OP
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Unless you look like Brad Pitt nothing is going to happen. Maybe, hire a professional to go with you.
If your a handsome basturd you'll do okay. Remember, your not there to impress the other guys. Their wives are the goal. If you tickle their fancy you'll do okay. Helps to bullshit a bit about your lady friend cancelling after you get there.
Yes and no. Every time we've gone, seen everything from not very attractive BBWs to super fit 10/10 and everything in between. But your chances of getting some action on a single guy's evening, is slim to none. Better off to take a female friend who's into having sex in public.
In what sense? So, are you are saying if you do not look or act creepy you stand out from the other guys who actually are creepy?
Dress nice, act like a nice guy , are good looking (not Brad Pitt but at least above average) , do not seem desperate , have social skills, have confidence in you sex skills then you have a chance ?
I am assuming that , in large part, single men night is a $$$ grab from Oasis
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What have you got to lose by trying?
Clean up, dress well, be prepared to buy a few rounds and give it a shot.
You never know, there might be a couple looking for a 3 some with a second guy.
Clean up, dress well, be prepared to buy a few rounds and give it a shot.
You never know, there might be a couple looking for a 3 some with a second guy.
Why go when there are a couple of posts about how single guys are creepy?
But, if you think you got the looks and skills to do better then maybe give it a shot just be prepared to leave early if you start feeling like a creep
Actually, it is more of a social club than an orgy. On week days people lounge with little action according to the staff I met at the sex show. They also said the ratio of male to female on single guy days is not as lop sided as you would think
I mean, if you’re gonna be paying to get in, paying to buy some ladies drinks, and even then, you only have a (relatively slim) chance at getting laid, why not just book a session with a SP? You’re paying either way, why not just go for the sure thing?
It is not orgies hosting place and not swingers club, it is sort of adult social club with dress optional policy and open sexual behavior.
They have bar, sauna, hot tub. outdoor swimming pool, dungeon (not well equipped actually), one private room on 3rd floor, several public play areas/ rooms.
At prime time in the evening, there are usually one-two couples who prefer to have sex in public - some sort of show but actors are very far away from being porn stars.
You can socialize with other people but chances for single guy to be involved in any sex activity are very low. If you are alone, better go to OASIS when they hold some event - not so boring.
Actually, answer is NO!
More precisely, there are no good looking attractive girls without partners, they don't go to this place.
The best option - book OASIS session with some SP, some girls offer this. You will have fun for sure and will be at this lounge with attractive girl. In this case, your impression of this club will be much better
I’ve gone to oasis with a client before. It was an amazing experience. He didn’t want to go alone and loved watching me with other women. I would definitely do it again!
The place is nice and relaxed. I was there but as a guest of sort of a couple. Spent most time in the nice pool and was introduced to lots of folks. But just wandering around by myself in hotub etc felt out of place as a single and didn't even think of trying to hook up with anyone, just felt odd when most were couples.
Also, if you are use to SP, where there were good looking women (with their boyfriends it seemed) the average middle aged couple may not be that attractive compared to escorts. I led a Phoenix couples group with 350 folks for a few years (libchrist.com group) mostly with a female friend. But 90% of gals I just wasn't that attracted to physically - typical average middle aged overweight etc. Maybe I'm just not enough of a social butterfly but had the same odd single guy feeling at The Lifestyles convention about 3 years maybe 10 years ago when I was a conference speaker "Swinging Christians not a Biblical Conflict". They sold tapes of me for many years, may still have them available. After 3 years decided not to come again unless I had a partner to attend with me - which didn't happen.
Was at another swing convention in Florida but in private room of club hosts and had a great time, and had great friendship with another couple who I met on the Internet before party. Great time with wife and great friends with husband. BTW Ron Jeaamy (spelling? famous now old porn star), was alone with couple's wife in elevator going to room and tried to join her for sex - she said he was really creepy and was anxious to get out of elevator at her floor.
While Oasis is not really a swing club, swinging is 99% couples only for very good reasons. Our Phoenix group was featured on the front page of a local paper (New TImes) and we had like 200 calls from single guys we had nothing to offer since we were a couples group. This actually is what got me interested in escorts - what to do with all the single guys. Then my partner got together with a rock band star and would up marrying him!
Also, if you are use to SP, where there were good looking women (with their boyfriends it seemed) the average middle aged couple may not be that attractive compared to escorts. I led a Phoenix couples group with 350 folks for a few years (libchrist.com group) mostly with a female friend. But 90% of gals I just wasn't that attracted to physically - typical average middle aged overweight etc. Maybe I'm just not enough of a social butterfly but had the same odd single guy feeling at The Lifestyles convention about 3 years maybe 10 years ago when I was a conference speaker "Swinging Christians not a Biblical Conflict". They sold tapes of me for many years, may still have them available. After 3 years decided not to come again unless I had a partner to attend with me - which didn't happen.
Was at another swing convention in Florida but in private room of club hosts and had a great time, and had great friendship with another couple who I met on the Internet before party. Great time with wife and great friends with husband. BTW Ron Jeaamy (spelling? famous now old porn star), was alone with couple's wife in elevator going to room and tried to join her for sex - she said he was really creepy and was anxious to get out of elevator at her floor.
While Oasis is not really a swing club, swinging is 99% couples only for very good reasons. Our Phoenix group was featured on the front page of a local paper (New TImes) and we had like 200 calls from single guys we had nothing to offer since we were a couples group. This actually is what got me interested in escorts - what to do with all the single guys. Then my partner got together with a rock band star and would up marrying him!
Well now since the price increase after the minimum wage hike it's really not worth it. When it was cheaper you could go and play your odds. Now.....do you really want to pay that much just to sit there and look at girls who might get upset if you try and talk to them and thus try to get you kicked out? I have not been there in a long time but I am sure after the price increase that they are not getting the same amount of people like they used too.
A guys success there depends on looks and his race
are the girls attractive? well just like guys they come in all different sizes and looks. The really attractive ones tend to me very arrogant and just want free drinks.
A guys success there depends on looks and his race
are the girls attractive? well just like guys they come in all different sizes and looks. The really attractive ones tend to me very arrogant and just want free drinks.
