SP said she had never climaxed with a man

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Won't name names, but due to nerves I couldn't get it up (not her fault, she was very cute and doing her best), so we just spent the session talking.
I had told her I was a virgin and she said she had never cum with a man before, not even her boyfriends, only by herself. I'm not delusional enough to think her moans were real during foreplay, but to hear that no other guy has succeeded was surprising. How unusual is that?
 

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I know a lady who had her first orgasm at age 41. It resulted from a boyfriend after her marriage ended. (2 kids and 15 years of marriage, no orgasm).
She is very attractive.
 
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Won't name names, but due to nerves I couldn't get it up (not her fault, she was very cute and doing her best), so we just spent the session talking.
I had told her I was a virgin and she said she had never cum with a man before, not even her boyfriends, only by herself. I'm not delusional enough to think her moans were real during foreplay, but to hear that no other guy has succeeded was surprising. How unusual is that?
Maybe some pictures of handbags, shoes, and cash might help.
 

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From my conversations with many escorts and mpa's, many have said it's difficult to orgasm, especially from penetration only, and more than a few have said they have never cum, even when trying to masturbate.

And it's certainly not for lack of guys trying...

Kim Cattrall, of Sex & The City fame, who portrayed the most sexual character in the series, has stated she never came until her third marriage. It was to Mark Levinson, an audio engineer, equipment designer, and hi-end audio manufacturer. They wrote a book together in 2002 called "Satisfaction - The Art Of The Female Orgasm".
 
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I could believe it and I feel bad for many of the SPs who can't achieve a state of bliss, but I also read that many have mental health issues that prevent that from happening as well. Whether it be physiological, stress related or whatever (ie cultural, shame, feel that it is wrong, etc) - the body can't relax enough to enjoy the natural desires the human body is capable of achieving. All we can do is hope they can achieve that state where the body is totally relaxed to enjoy what feels so good.
 
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Humble bragging time here.
I used to see one who didn't do full service but was ok with DATY. She used to cum. Said I was only one in three who could make her do it every time. Complained that she couldn't work for an hour . Or at least didn't want to work. She dumped me.
Had another that complained that she needed an hour or so to recover . Not her job to cum. She dumped me.
 

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I'd believe it. At some point, the woman has to take responsibility to advise/direct the guy on what works for her. If she doesn't really know, he won't either. Get a few years under your belt, and you'll realize that women will have to do more to get you to climax too.
 

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One of my favorite MPAs was a little hottie who immigrated from Africa. She said that before she moved to Canada she didn't know that women could orgasm.
 

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There are a lot women who don’t climax from intercourse, in fact it’s probably less than 20% who do. More will be able to with oral, or manual stimulation, and some only on their own, either unaided, or with toys. I’ve been with some women who cum within minutes with penetration, some who need gentle oral for an extended period of time, some who cum from anal, or even from nipple stimulation alone. Others need a really intense vibrator to get them over the top. One woman I was with more than a decade ago (non SW) we were having sex for the first time and she came, and she burst into tears, as she’d never been able to do it before, and she was almost 40, and pretty experienced in bed. (Not bragging about my sexual prowess lol, it was more likely the sexy/ naughty situation and the built up sexual tension between us).
All this to say, is that women are way different than us, and very different from each other. Their ability to orgasm depends way more on psychological factors. Can’t make any generalizations about them at all, in contrast to most dudes who can cum any way at all 🤚 👄 🍑🏵 🍒. 😂
 
If I ever climaxed with someone its because I got myself off. You have to think that you chose them, they didnt choose you. Meeting a strange man to get paid for sex isn't sexy unless your brain is broken.

I cum now with someone experienced. But its not lost on me how pathetic it is that I spent so much time having shitty sex with people that had no idea what they were doing.

So many people were convinced they were studs from seeing prostitutes all the time I wondered how regular women even tolerated them. I guess if regular women could tolerate them they wouldn't have to pay for it. So in essence the worse someone is at sex the more likely they would be a long term customer. You can pretty much count on their money every week or every month.

Won't name names, but due to nerves I couldn't get it up (not her fault, she was very cute and doing her best), so we just spent the session talking.
I had told her I was a virgin and she said she had never cum with a man before, not even her boyfriends, only by herself. I'm not delusional enough to think her moans were real during foreplay, but to hear that no other guy has succeeded was surprising. How unusual is that?
 

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If I ever climaxed with someone its because I got myself off. You have to think that you chose them, they didnt choose you. Meeting a strange man to get paid for sex isn't sexy unless your brain is broken.

I cum now with someone experienced. But its not lost on me how pathetic it is that I spent so much time having shitty sex with people that had no idea what they were doing.

So many people were convinced they were studs from seeing prostitutes all the time I wondered how regular women even tolerated them. I guess if regular women could tolerate them they wouldn't have to pay for it. So in essence the worse someone is at sex the more likely they would be a long term customer. You can pretty much count on their money every week or every month.
This is the naked reality of the paid for sex fantasy.
 
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Won't name names, but due to nerves I couldn't get it up (not her fault, she was very cute and doing her best), so we just spent the session talking.
I had told her I was a virgin and she said she had never cum with a man before, not even her boyfriends, only by herself. I'm not delusional enough to think her moans were real during foreplay, but to hear that no other guy has succeeded was surprising. How unusual is that?
Maybe not with a man...... but with a mandrill? 🐵
 
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lomotil

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Won't name names, but due to nerves I couldn't get it up (not her fault, she was very cute and doing her best), so we just spent the session talking.
I had told her I was a virgin and she said she had never cum with a man before, not even her boyfriends, only by herself. I'm not delusional enough to think her moans were real during foreplay, but to hear that no other guy has succeeded was surprising. How unusual is that?
She might have had a traumatic past and or has put up barriers to keep herself intact. A smart SP would not tell a customer that, at least if they want repeat business. Maybe she thinks that you are a therapist.
 

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Won't name names, but due to nerves I couldn't get it up (not her fault, she was very cute and doing her best), so we just spent the session talking.
I had told her I was a virgin and she said she had never cum with a man before, not even her boyfriends, only by herself. I'm not delusional enough to think her moans were real during foreplay, but to hear that no other guy has succeeded was surprising. How unusual is that?
Some one needs to show her what a g spot orgasm is like. I bet she will love it.

CP
 
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If I ever climaxed with someone its because I got myself off. You have to think that you chose them, they didnt choose you. Meeting a strange man to get paid for sex isn't sexy unless your brain is broken.

I cum now with someone experienced. But its not lost on me how pathetic it is that I spent so much time having shitty sex with people that had no idea what they were doing.

So many people were convinced they were studs from seeing prostitutes all the time I wondered how regular women even tolerated them. I guess if regular women could tolerate them they wouldn't have to pay for it. So in essence the worse someone is at sex the more likely they would be a long term customer. You can pretty much count on their money every week or every month.
I’m sure the other women here appreciate you speaking on their behalf, and for those that may occasionally enjoy their work, your psychoanalysis.

I do appreciate your honesty tho. I’m not sure it is a great marketing strategy, the overt judgement and disdain for guys who see you for sex for money, and for clients of sex workers in general, but the honesty about your experiences is informative.
 

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Kim Cattrall, of Sex & The City fame, who portrayed the most sexual character in the series, has stated she never came until her third marriage. It was to Mark Levinson, an audio engineer, equipment designer, and hi-end audio manufacturer. They wrote a book together in 2002 called "Satisfaction - The Art Of The Female Orgasm".
I'll bet you that she convinced all of her previous partners that she climaxed though...
 
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