I wanted to throw this topic at the board to see how every one feels about it. A while back, I went to see an SP in Scarborough. The whole session was pleasant for the most part. But soon after the session ended and we sat on the bed to talk a bit, she mentioned that she had a son in elementary school. I am still thinking about why this information put a damper in the end for me. I like kids, and no, I am not a pedophile. Knowing this piece of information however, ruined it for me. I started imagining her kids and for some reason I felt like an asshole. There are so many theories that have gone through my head to expalin the reason why this is something that ruined the experience for me and that made me feel a bit bad about the whole sitaution. I wonder what everyone thinks about this.
SP's with children
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I agree. I dont like hearing about an SP's personal life either. There have been times when thats happened to me be it a dancer/SP/MPA and it does ruin things to a degree. Yes i know of course they are people with lives and I respect that but as so many ladies have pointed out here, their job is a job and all about the fantasy. Id hazard a guess that most of our fantasies dont involve the ladies boyfriends or knowing they have children. I like personal touches to a degree but this is about fantasy to me too and it does take a bit off the experience. Just my opinion
It happened to me!
And, the net result was that, being the soft sort of guy that I am, and got emotionally involved with her problems. The result was that I neglected my own family, which suffered for it. NEVER AGAIN! Although we should care about one another's well being, immediate family comes first!
Sheik, you are so right.Sheik said:
And, the net result was that, being the soft sort of guy that I am, and got emotionally involved with her problems. The result was that I neglected my own family, which suffered for it. NEVER AGAIN! Although we should care about one another's well being, immediate family comes first!
I heard a weird story from an SP a few weeks back. One other SP she worked with didn't use a condom with a customer, got pregnant, and had the baby. She had no idea how to contact the guy. Eventually a few years later she went back to work with a different name. One day a new customer shows up for the appt and guess who it is?
Bet he didn't have the nice relaxing time he expected that day.
Bet he didn't have the nice relaxing time he expected that day.
KW, I am glad that you like my signature. The reality is that I love it when an SP feels comfortable enough with me to give me a little glimpse into her live. I always look at their lives with the eye of a writer or a filmmaker and I start to imagine how their lives have developed up to that point. There are two reasons that I have found so far for feeling like this. One of them is that knowing that an SP has a child would in a way take away any depravity involved in the actKWI said:
. It is similar to that episode of Seinfeld. The other is that I start to imagine that the child probably doesn't know that his mother is an SP, which would probably traumatise him if/when he found out and that if this in turn screws up his life, I would be contributing to it along the way.I prefer it when I learn that an SP (dancers in my case) has kids, because it means we have a lot more in common to talk about. The always horny single slut fantasy does not really do anything for me. I prefer to get to know the real person before the physical fun starts, which is one reason why I prefer dancers to other SPs.
