Stopped Seeing Escorts
- Thread starter milehigh
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Sorry to hear that milehigh! I recall you being a really nice guy so I hope all works out well for you.
Why is this being discussed as bad news?
congrats? Hope you're happy and fulfilled through other activities!
congrats? Hope you're happy and fulfilled through other activities!
I think this is something many do from time to time. Some will do it intentionally, and some just let it slide for a bit. I think it is often a really good thing to do as it makes us appreciate the hobby better. Goodness knows I take mini-hiatuses myself.
I hope you make great use of the summer milehigh! Surround yourself with beautiful women, and spend plenty of time outdoors! BBQ season and walks through the park or along the beach should just about do it!
I hope you make great use of the summer milehigh! Surround yourself with beautiful women, and spend plenty of time outdoors! BBQ season and walks through the park or along the beach should just about do it!
I stopped hobbying 6 months ago but did 'fall off the wagon' a couple of months ago with Big-titted Angela at Don Mills and Sheppard - couldn't resist her pics!
Watching porn and jerking off keep me in check and other than that one time, I'm good.
I used to hobby at least twice a month and at my peak years ago 1 to 2 times a week.
A couple of bad experiences, some outings on other boards and a bunch of STD outbreaks, real or not a few months ago spooked me.
I don't know when I'll be back but for now I'm enjoying the 'break'.
CB
Watching porn and jerking off keep me in check and other than that one time, I'm good.
I used to hobby at least twice a month and at my peak years ago 1 to 2 times a week.
A couple of bad experiences, some outings on other boards and a bunch of STD outbreaks, real or not a few months ago spooked me.
I don't know when I'll be back but for now I'm enjoying the 'break'.
CB
I'm also waiting to see what the Feds do with the laws.
If they go that Nordic route which would be bad for Johns (Deal with the demand) I think I'm done. Don't need one more risk factor to worry about.
I've been at this since mid to late 90s. Been with several hundred ladies dancers, MPAs and escorts. Including my repeats I would put my number of encounters over the last 18 years at well over 500 most of that happening between 2000 and 2003 (I was a fucking MANIAC!).
I've had a great run. Now that I'm well into my 50s I think a steady fuck buddy/friend may be next.
An average looking, attractive lady in her 50s who like me is trapped in their marriage but not looking to leave. No strings whatsoever.
Time will tell.
CB
If they go that Nordic route which would be bad for Johns (Deal with the demand) I think I'm done. Don't need one more risk factor to worry about.
I've been at this since mid to late 90s. Been with several hundred ladies dancers, MPAs and escorts. Including my repeats I would put my number of encounters over the last 18 years at well over 500 most of that happening between 2000 and 2003 (I was a fucking MANIAC!).
I've had a great run. Now that I'm well into my 50s I think a steady fuck buddy/friend may be next.
An average looking, attractive lady in her 50s who like me is trapped in their marriage but not looking to leave. No strings whatsoever.
Time will tell.
CB
The last girl I seen was probably becky for some quick head and that was 3 months ago.. i havnt had a full session for almost a year. This industry really fucks up a mans "game", in my opinion that is.
I agree. If you have game to begin with. I'm just an average looking guy (in decent shape now - again) but I was always a bit shy initially when around women. The money allowed me access and the opportunity to really flex my sexual muscles if you know what I mean. I was able to express myself sexually with total strangers in ways I could never with my wife and only with some women when I was younger.
I was able to get REALLY good at being with a woman because I paid for their time, etc. No bullshit or head games.
I've always envied the guys that had a lady at home whom they love that was really into sex and having fun. Unfortunately that's not the hand I was dealt. Now I know things in life could always be worse but sex is/was important and given my situation, I started to hobby.
While the hobby hasn't helped my 'game' it has made me a better fuck IMO.
Also, my wife has rarely commented on my dick (size, shape, etc) or how I pleased her. It took me fucking SPs to realize that I was somewhat blessed with a good sized cock. I never asked but would always get a comment. Not a big deal but one of those ego boosters. I couldn't even get that from her!
Anyway, it is what it is and I seriously see a change for me when it comes to hobbying.
CB
The women of my dreams is what the $100K was for. Like most of the guys here I wouldn't be able to get the attention of some of the women i paid to fuck me even if I set my hair on fire - and again, I'm an average (not bad) looking guy.
The money is the equalizer. I/We get access to the most incredible pussy money can buy.
Was the $100K (probably more) worth it. Damn straight. I make a good living and if you take 18 years and $100K that's just over $100 a week for pussy. I couldn't get any of it without the $$.
I don't golf, don't drink or do drugs. Let's see that could be close to $100/week. That was then.
Now it's no longer about any of that. I still want pussy but I just want it to be under different circumstances.
CB
Maybe you should consider doing all 3 at once, before you die. As a bucket list material, sounds like you're missing out my friend.
I only got into hobbying because I was very busy with my schedule of working, working out, doing my daily business and squeezing in time to spend with a female companion as well as getting to know her and then somehow making it clear its only sex. Too young for real relationship. Sex is good, though one party always catches feelings. It's a very sacred art/ritual of delicate intimacy. Finding love in this industry is like looking for a needle inside a loofah while using it, it could fuck you if you don't be careful. During my time of hobbying (which wasn't that long)[thank god]), I realized that sex is more than just you busting a nut inside a new asian hottie from overseas, its about trust and power. After months of seeing regulars and weekly visits to my fav incall's, the difference in my attitude would make me change my behavior. I started to notice that instead of actually making an effort to get to know more females (even with a busy schedule I like to keep things open and abundant), I would just ignore my instincts even if I get a sign shes interested. Like my mind is saying *forget about wasting your time with her* you could just spend ### at @@@ and get it in 10 mins. That right there is how it began to change my game and eventually lead to me quitting this industry.
Life is too short brother. I rather die than not feed my hedonistic urges. Good for you if seeing escorts was effecting your quality of life.
I on the otherhand cannot survive without escorts. An essential part of managing my stress level.
Um. Just so you know there are a lot of dancers that are being pimped as well. Just hang outside your local strip joint a closing time and you will see the "boyfriends" coming to get them. Some actually hang inside the club to keep an eye on them.
Don't get me wrong; I do have other interests but I only share my hobbying life on this board.
As for golf, tried it several times over the years and its just not for me.
Did plenty of drugs in my teens and drank quite a bit in my 20s. But got tired of that, too Been there done that.
I just chose those three to show how $100 a week can be spent on hobbies/vices. I chose to spend my $100 on pussy.
For Ben Poon, I don't consider hobbying in my case an addiction. If 2 grand over a couple of years is all you need - great. I had a couple of years like that but then I had few that were much more prolific, shall we say.
I never got hooked on booze and drugs and like seeing hookers, when I was into it I was really into it. But I got what I did out of those vices years ago and like I said before I think I'm at the end of my hobby of 'Hobbying'.
Like everything else, been there done that. Time to move on.
I've read many posts and threads over the years about quitting and never understood it or was really 'there'. Now I do.
CB
I'm different than some of you older married/divorced guys who see this as an escape from your reality.
I'm single and I do this only for physical release or if I'm sometime really lonely....any human company helps.
But I do not see this as a viable lifestyle. Quantity of pussy doesn't matter to me, I'm not a fuckbot even though when I workout, I have a high sex drive.
But then again, when I'm 50 and hopefully happily married, things might be different. Right now, I crave that closeness and high of a relationship with a caring woman that I do not have.
I'm single and I do this only for physical release or if I'm sometime really lonely....any human company helps.
But I do not see this as a viable lifestyle. Quantity of pussy doesn't matter to me, I'm not a fuckbot even though when I workout, I have a high sex drive.
But then again, when I'm 50 and hopefully happily married, things might be different. Right now, I crave that closeness and high of a relationship with a caring woman that I do not have.
Ain't that the truth. And Capital Hunter, the same is true of many girls in porn, so that's out too.
I started out in the sex trade as a dancer. The ladies you know aren't being pimped, but you're kidding yourself if you think none of them are. You can easily tell the difference between the true boyfriend picking up his girlfriend for safety reasons and the pimp picking up his girl(s.)
