in regards to running into other terbees....I guess the only way we would recognize one another is via attending the terb parties...I've bump into a few terbees now since I attended the party...well here's a specific scenario...
I recently went to a SC with some friends and I saw 2 terbees at the SC that I recognized from the party...one was a dancer and the other a patron. I was nervous b/c none of my friends know I hobby besides occasionally going to a SC for a beer. I was envisioning the other terbees coming by to say 'hey wrong hole, how's it going?'.....I did not want to explain to my friends what Terb was and that I am a member. Luckily they didn't...I just smiled at them and cheered on the dancer(terbee) when she was performing her stage show. Then one of my friends asked the dancer(terbee) for a vip dance....I was thinking....Oh shit!!! In my mind, she would say..'so you are a friend of wrong hole'....and my bud would be puzzled and the dancer would explain Terb....so I'm a little bit freaked out....but what ended up happening is....
...my friend walked out of the vip with a big ass grin and said he had the most fantastic dances....he wouldn't shut up the whole night about how fantastic the dancer was even after we left the SC and gone to a bar to meet other friends....so obviously the scenario in my head never happened which is a relief....
But for the future....this is my thoughts on it...I would say hi to all terb members if I saw that they were by themselves and I was by myself....otherwise I prefer and I would think other terbees feel the same way that we don't acknowledge each other if we are with other people(not just in SC's....restaurants, bars...anywhere)....
I just want to know the opinion of other members and how they feel about it....
I recently went to a SC with some friends and I saw 2 terbees at the SC that I recognized from the party...one was a dancer and the other a patron. I was nervous b/c none of my friends know I hobby besides occasionally going to a SC for a beer. I was envisioning the other terbees coming by to say 'hey wrong hole, how's it going?'.....I did not want to explain to my friends what Terb was and that I am a member. Luckily they didn't...I just smiled at them and cheered on the dancer(terbee) when she was performing her stage show. Then one of my friends asked the dancer(terbee) for a vip dance....I was thinking....Oh shit!!! In my mind, she would say..'so you are a friend of wrong hole'....and my bud would be puzzled and the dancer would explain Terb....so I'm a little bit freaked out....but what ended up happening is....
...my friend walked out of the vip with a big ass grin and said he had the most fantastic dances....he wouldn't shut up the whole night about how fantastic the dancer was even after we left the SC and gone to a bar to meet other friends....so obviously the scenario in my head never happened which is a relief....
But for the future....this is my thoughts on it...I would say hi to all terb members if I saw that they were by themselves and I was by myself....otherwise I prefer and I would think other terbees feel the same way that we don't acknowledge each other if we are with other people(not just in SC's....restaurants, bars...anywhere)....
I just want to know the opinion of other members and how they feel about it....