What is it? Fantasy or Reality.....while working in this business-i have met some really great and interesting people. I started in this business for one thing-to make money-i'm not gonna lie....but i found that i really enjoyed meeting the people. The #1 priority on my list? To make that person feel great-and of course to pay the bills. I never revealed my 'true' identity (to a chosen few perhaps)....but as far as i was concerned...when i went to 'work' at night-thats what it was-and when i came home at night-that was my 'personal' life...one that did NOT intermingle with my sp job.....and i thought it would stay that way. I thought that working in this business...although crazy sometimes-would afford me the opportunity to get ahead-which it certainly did. And i'm proud of that. Someone made a comment once on these boards that he couldn't understand why sp's (some of us) didn't use our real names-were we ashamed....and my retort was-certainly not ashamed....but would like to keep that aspect of my life private-as i had intended in the beginning. I wasn't about to reveal any of the 'customers'....and i would hope the same for me with them.
I think its disgusting that some people find pleasure in hurting others-in small ways and in HUGE ways. Some people don't understand how important it is to do what ya gotta do-and not have to worry about looking over your shoulder.
I am simply saying that in this business there are good people-and there are not so good people. But we can certainly all get along-we each have something we need or want out of life-and we're all working towards that. But don't deliberately go out and hurt someone-don't go out of your way to reveal 'secrets' because you believe in your heart you will do the greater 'good'.
Life is too short my friend...too short. We all just want to live our lives-free to be all we want to be....without the pressure of worrying about crap....and that's really what it all comes down to. If you want to dig your grave....please do it without anyone else standing there....please have the decency to NOT involve others who really have no say in the outcome....think about it....Fantasy or Reality.....i'm thinking the reality sometimes far outweighs the fantasy....
I think its disgusting that some people find pleasure in hurting others-in small ways and in HUGE ways. Some people don't understand how important it is to do what ya gotta do-and not have to worry about looking over your shoulder.
I am simply saying that in this business there are good people-and there are not so good people. But we can certainly all get along-we each have something we need or want out of life-and we're all working towards that. But don't deliberately go out and hurt someone-don't go out of your way to reveal 'secrets' because you believe in your heart you will do the greater 'good'.
Life is too short my friend...too short. We all just want to live our lives-free to be all we want to be....without the pressure of worrying about crap....and that's really what it all comes down to. If you want to dig your grave....please do it without anyone else standing there....please have the decency to NOT involve others who really have no say in the outcome....think about it....Fantasy or Reality.....i'm thinking the reality sometimes far outweighs the fantasy....
