The Prick Hobbiest

[bigguy2004]

I have a friend who works in the business. She is a very sweet and nice person and has a boyfriend who loves and cares about her very much. He knows about the business but does not want to know about it or hear details.

So, my friend has an item she is selling and a well known hobbiest is going to buy it. He comes to her house to pick it up and says to the boyfriend....

"Don't take this the wrong way, but I gotta call her up and get one good fuk b4 she leaves"

I am LIVID. This guy is a PIG.......

The girls that work in this business are women - they have "private" lives and they have people who love them for who they are as people. They do not want to hear that crap and don't deserve to have that kind of talk in their lives. Would this clown go up to a coworkers husband, his father in law, any other couple, and say that crap? NO.....then why would he think that it is ok to say to the boyfriend of one of the girls who work in this business??? Why should the girls have to put up with that in their off time - its hard enough for them to see clowns like him on the job.

Sorry for venting but this really gets under my skin. I have NEVER looked down on anyone for what they do. I have the utmost RESPECT for all women - especially the ones that are doing this because they have to deal with some assclowns, and do it with a smile on their face. We do not need these pricks acting like clowns....no one does!!!

 

[Terminator2000]

Because these are the same guys that beat up their girlfriends, use abusive language, treat girls like shit...

Think about it.

If they can't invest enough brainwork to consider giving this girl a little respect enough not to say shit like that, to her boyfriend...maybe its cause they're just too stupid to think about the consequences of their words/actions...

if you work in any industry, any business....not every person is going to be nice. There's jerks in every job environment that are stupid, inconsiderate, rude...

 

[dreamblade]

I wouldn't worry too much, the idiot will get what's coming to him sooner or later. Remember, as much as a jerk you can be, there's always a bigger jerk you will run into. Then, because you're too much of a social retard to shut up, you get your jaw broken, your business destroyed, your life ruined.

Karma's real, and it IS a bitch.

 

[RTRD]

Why are you surprised?

While I am sure many hobbyist are perfectly nice guys who just have a weakness for pussy...I am VERY confident there is also a significant percentage...beyond what can be found in the general population...that are total misogynistic pricks who "hobby" because it gives them the opportunity to do what they wish they could in their civilian lives - reduce a woman to nothing but her vagina, which exists only for him to use.

For these guys, escorts aren't actually people anymore any other object they enjoy in their life is. So, naturally, he would talk about her like she were an amusement park ride...it would never occur to him that anyone would actually think of an escort as anything more than a piece of ass. I am sure he assumed the BF would respond with "yeah man, I know...she is a fucking hot piece of ass!!" And then they would high five.

If I were an SP I'd be REAL careful about keeping my personal and business life separate...and if I ever met someone who I thought I might want to have in my personal life...any chance at all...they couldn't be a client. At whatever point I thought to myself..."hey...I like this guy"...he couldn't come back...at least not as a client. And we would be dating for a wee bit before we fucked again, or he actually saw my home, etc.

Since this gal obviously has a BF...that wasn't the case here. She just made the mistake of thinking someone she saw on a regular basis was a good person just because he was familiar. The thing is...how much time had she spent with him when he wasn't being nice in order to get his dick wet?

 

[Classy Angel]

The hobbyist was definatley out of line. However, your ladyfriend should have been a little more careful about giving out her home address to somebody who knows her as a courtesan. As disrespectful as he was to both her and her boyfriend - she was also somewhat disrespectful in letting a known hobbiest meet with her partner. Discretion works in all directions (which means protecting the privacy of all those involved in the industry, as well as those in our personal lives).

Most escorts in Vancouver have a seperate incall from their residence. Perhaps allowing future transactions to take place there would be more appropriate.

Please don't get me wrong. I think the hobbiest was an absolute piece of work. I just think that the lady needs to take a little responsibility in maintaining higher standards of discretion as well.

 

[King Midas]

Would this clown go up to a coworkers husband, his father in law, any other couple, and say that crap? NO.....then why would he think that it is ok to say to the boyfriend of one of the girls who work in this business???

Keyword: Business. He was complimenting her work.

 

[Questor]

I agree with most posters on this one. The guy is/was an ass*. And she made an error in inviting him to her home, especially when her bf was there, even if it was only for a few minutes.