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WhaWhaWha

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I remember recently there was a post from a Terbite who was so attracted to a local cashier he was tempted to offer her money to sleep with him. a lot of responses came back that such an open attitude about the sex industry is fine here, but dangerous in the outside world.

Now, talk about being in a weird place. I currently work in the marketing department at a company that employs a large pool of of telemarketers. Heading for lunch today I met a co-worker in the elevator. She was crying and making it obvious. I asked her what was wrong and she said she had just been dismissed. The reason, "not meeting her minimum conversion requirements."

I offered to console her over a cup of coffee and she accepted. In our brief conversation, she revealed quite a bit about herself. She was not making it in the working world. She was tired and afraid of reverting to her former life of prostitution and softcore porn. It makes her sick to give BJs for pay, and so on. Keep in mind this is not an SP I met, or even a close friend who confides in me, but a near stranger who never shared more than a glance with me before we met.

My astonishment is that she was so freely ready to reveal this hidden side of her life, despite her regrets and shame. Perhaps it was because I resemble the age and demographic of her clientelle. She is 25, afro-carribean and dropdead gorgeous. I am 42 and resemble George Wendt -- the early years.

IMO if she had the fortitude for it she would succeed as a courtesan and rule the industry on her looks alone. In any case I did not judge her past negatively, but I did counsel her not to return to the business if she is reviled by it. My first instinct. So does this make me a hypocrite? After all, I subscribe to this hobby, so who am I to counsel someone I don't know to not work it? and how different has the world become that a conversation like this between to practical strangers is even possible?
 

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WhaWhaWha said:
In any case I did not judge her past negatively, but I did counsel her not to return to the business if she is reviled by it.
Your own statement answers your question. If she really doesn't like it she shouldn't do it. This goes for anything. You can tell the SPs who really don't like what they are doing. Unfortunately I met one recently. Don't get me wrong, I'm sure there are some really good actresses out there but when you really hate what you do it tends to show. I don't feel your advice was hypocritical, unless of course she said she loved prostitution so much, wished she never left it, and loved having sex day in, day out with anyone and everyone she could handle and you still told her not to do it. Sorry my friend, but yeah, that would be hypocritical. You gave good advice, IMHO.
 

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Kudos to you Wha for helping her out and giving her a shoulder to cry on. You are not a hypocrite, but a man that cares. SP's are women that have a tough job, tough past, tough life. They deserve a little tender care and lovin'. We gentlemen are a rare breed. You are not alone and you are not a hypocrite. Good advice.

And to answer your question...I don't know what world we live in. Maybe she saw the "john" in you and felt comfortbale enough to confide in you. Who knows.....
 

WhaWhaWha

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PHNINE said:
And to answer your question...I don't know what world we live in. Maybe she saw the "john" in you and felt comfortbale enough to confide in you.
That's what I was afraid of :( I mean i don't mind enjoying the hobby but is it written all over my face?
 

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WhaWhaWha said:
That's what I was afraid of :( I mean i don't mind enjoying the hobby but is it written all over my face?
I think that what was written on your face was that you are a caring human bein and not at all judgemental. It is great to have individuals such as yourself in the world. As a matter of fact, most of us on TERB, I have noticed, are nonjudgemental and caring, each in our own way.
 

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WhaWhaWha said:
That's what I was afraid of :( I mean i don't mind enjoying the hobby but is it written all over my face?
No man it isn't. I go through the same thing all the time. Whenever I see a pretty girl that you can tell isn't of the working class, or non-SP world, she gives me a funny look. I think it goes both ways. Can't you spot an SP out of a crowd? Not all the time, but sometimes? Same goes for them I guess.... LOL THey spot us....
 

WhaWhaWha

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Yes, I know what you mean. I see a girl with a business suit on. It's tight fitting and the skirt is slightly shorter than usual office attire. Her bag is more like a supplies bag than a briefcase. Her perfume and makeup are way overdone. She appears to be heading to work, but in mid day. All the signs are there. But if she were working in my workplace I wouldnt presume anything to be so bold as to talk about the SP world in the conventional workplace. That was thr astonishing thing with this girl. she just blurted out talk about blowjobs and softcore porno and being naked on film and so on without so much as a moments hesitation. For all she knows I could have been a bible thumping tight-assed patriarichal wacko. Now part of me wants to console her and part of me wants her number and rates :p
 
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WhaWhaWha said:
Yes, I know what you mean. I see a girl with a business suit on. It's tight fitting and the skirt is slightly shorter than usual office attire. Her bag is more like a supplies bag than a briefcase. Her perfume and makeup are way overdone. She appears to be heading to work, but in mid day.
Wow. I wish SPs would arrive in a business suit. From your area, it seems as if Sasha Belle is the only who would do so, and she's probably going to retire from what I read in the review section.

It's been my experience that most SPs arrive in casual dress, i.e. jeans, slacks, casual skirt at best. So a woman in a tight-fitting business suit is definitely a turn-on, but I wouldn't think she's an SP. There's really no way to tell.
 

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Sorry to tell you this, but I think she was propositioning you. You should have seen where it was leading if you were interested. That being said, if it was my daughter you were councilling, I would pay for your next 10 SP visits. You care, nice job.
 
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