There's a Girl in Trouble

[Oogabooga]

This thread is not meant for jokes/dumb comments, I'm asking any SPs or MPs out there who have a heart and are willing to help to hear me out.

There's a girl brought in with nothing but a change of clothes in her backpack from Toronto by a rough, mean female dealer/pimp. She's totally new @ dancing, has no idea what to do, and her pimp wants her SP-ing - another thing she's never done until recently.

This girl is made to sleep on the floor, unless she finds a bed overnight with someone (the pimptress allows for $200 without giving the girl a cent of it, although she will give the girl drugs)
It gets worse, and it's all real - I know first-hand, not though heresay.

This girl has no idea where she is, and her pimp is quite mean (I have no idea how she brought her from Toronto to the sticks outside of Ottawa.

Is there any safe haven a MP or SP can provide for this girl? I've been worried sick, but I have a family. Please PM me, and again, no jokes or nonsense in this thread please.

 

[Oogabooga]

I also have to add... this girl seems very panicked, sad and hungry. It just didn't feel right at all.

 

[Eric_TL]

Oogabooga,

If you honestly feel this girl is in REAL danger, notify the police or a child welfare agency immediately. That's the best way you can help.
They won't judge YOU harshly for caring about another person.

Eric

 

[Garden of Eden Ladies]

Oogabooga,

If you honestly feel this girl is in REAL danger, notify the police or a child welfare agency immediately. That's the best way you can help.
They won't judge YOU harshly for caring about another person.

Eric

I would have to agree with Eric. She needs to find a safe haven, as it appears that she is not SPing by choice. I would recommend you contact a group like SPOC or maggie's place.

I would also try to get her reconnected with her family. I am sure they worried sick about her. I also consider getting LE involved, because this lady needs to be separated from this 'pimp/punk' lady. The fact that she is making her sleep on the floor and feeding her drugs is enough to make me want to call them myself.


I don't want to come across as a cop caller but this lady pimp is the reason why this business is looked upon so negatively. We all need to weed out these bad apples..

I really hate hear stories like this..


Thanks



Nicole

 

[Oogabooga]

Eric,

She's 22 years old, and we know that the police will do nothing. This thread is directed at the ladies who post here, the ones who know where I'm coming from.

Thanks, but I'm hoping for some concrete help in the form of a PM.

 

[Garden of Eden Ladies]

Eric,

She's 22 years old, and we know that the police will do nothing. This thread is directed at the ladies who post here, the ones who know where I'm coming from.

Thanks, but I'm hoping for some concrete help in the form of a PM.

Why do you need it in the form of a PM. Any help offered should be posted so anyone else having the same problem will know what to do.

But your statement about the police doing nothing is false. I know lots of stories where the police have been helpful. I would recomend you contact Wendy Lever, do a search and you will find her. She works in Toronto but I am sure she can put you in touch with someone who can help in Ottawa.


Thanks


Nicole

 

[Oogabooga]

Yes, a safe haven, exactly!

I can't provide one for her. I'm hoping to find someone out there who can. All I can provide to someone who can help NOW is her dancer name and where she dances. There's an adjacent hotel where I stayed and ended up bringing to as I was in 'the doghouse' (she slept w/ her clothes on). I bought her breakfast as her stomach was hurting. She cried when I had to leave her there. I can't get that image out of my head.

 

[Oogabooga]

Why do you need it in the form of a PM. Any help offered should be posted so anyone else having the same problem will know what to do.

But your statement about the police doing nothing is false. I know lots of stories where the police have been helpful. I would recomend you contact Wendy Lever, do a search and you will find her. She works in Toronto but I am sure she can put you in touch with someone who can help in Ottawa.


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Nicole

Well this girl is from Toronto, actually. Maybe she's 'missing' there?
Why PM? I didn't want this thread to be turned upside-down by moralists or veered off-topic like it does so often. And I wasn't sure if putting her dancer name and the bar name here is a good idea, I was only going to discuss that to serious people who can help. "Why can't I"? Well my resources and time is so limited, plus I risk more of myself the more I get invovled.

I can't do much, but I didn't wan't to do nothing, that's why I put the thread here and at cerb.

 

[Garden of Eden Ladies]

Well this girl is from Toronto, actually. Maybe she's 'missing' there?
Why PM? I didn't want this thread to be turned upside-down by moralists or veered off-topic like it does so often. And I wasn't sure if putting her dancer name and the bar name here is a good idea, I was only going to discuss that to serious people who can help. "Why can't I"? Well my resources and time is so limited, plus I risk more of myself the more I get invovled.

I can't do much, but I didn't wan't to do nothing, that's why I put the thread here and at cerb.

I was just curious, but your response is correct. I don't think you should post her name her in case one of the pimp lady's friends read this board.

Think that posting suggestion publicly is a good idea, but it is also important for her safety to keep some information private.


Thanks



Nicole

 

[Oogabooga]

I removed it Nicole.

Still, I guess I was hoping for an MP or SP w/ a heart of gold and means to step in and help this girl, even if only to get her away from the bad scene in to a decent one. I've met many women in the city who I consider decent people (although the moral wankers look down on them).

I am hoping there's someone who can offer some real help here. My hands are tied - I don't know what to do.

 

[Oogabooga]

okay, I just finished MSNing with someone who said they can help - they wanted a list of escorts I've seen (?).

While he didn't tell me who he was or what he can do to ACTUALLY HELP, he did offer his opinion on other things.

He said he was in "alternate identity" and has helped 100s of women. He said to check with Gab Luv and lurker to see if he's "for real" (I real 'what', I still don't know).

Long story short - a lot of hoops to jump through to end up with "if she's in trouble, call the cops".

While I'm thankful for him coming forward, I am wondering if anyone knows 'Chad' and can vouche for him for me. Either he's very meticulous with his endeavors, or he's a delusional knob who's jerked me around for no reason.

I still don't know how ANY of it will help this girl, but I'm feeling kind of desperate, so if anyone can vouche for him, or do anything else, please let me know ASAP.

 

[gabrielle_luvxxx]

Chad

okay, I just finished MSNing with someone who said they can help - they wanted a list of escorts I've seen (?).

While he didn't tell me who he was or what he can do to ACTUALLY HELP, he did offer his opinion on other things.

He said he was in "alternate identity" and has helped 100s of women. He said to check with Gab Luv and lurker to see if he's "for real" (I real 'what', I still don't know).

Long story short - a lot of hoops to jump through to end up with "if she's in trouble, call the cops".

While I'm thankful for him coming forward, I am wondering if anyone knows 'Chad' and can vouche for him for me. Either he's very meticulous with his endeavors, or he's a delusional knob who's jerked me around for no reason.

I still don't know how ANY of it will help this girl, but I'm feeling kind of desperate, so if anyone can vouche for him, or do anything else, please let me know ASAP.

I know Chad VERY WELL. He is a very good friend of mine and he has a heart of gold. If he sais he can help you, it is true. You can trust him.

I'm very sorry to hear about this sad story. I wish I could do something to help this girl but I'm in Montreal and I'm on my way to London England. But as I said, if anyone can help this young lady in Ottawa other than what Nicole King wisely suggested, I'm sure Chad can. Best of luck to you and your friend.

Luv,

Gab,xxx

 

[Oogabooga]

Thank you Gabrielle.

 

[Ladyluvr69]

mmmm this pimp would not be a small lady called Mel or Montana? She may have a BF/pimp also called Brian. If yes be careful as they are crazy.

 

[TheNiteHwk]

You have to be very carefull in this kind of situation. I'm sure that's why Chad wanted try and check that the story is legit. I hate to say it but this girl could be setting you up. Albeit she may be doing it unwillingly. That or three four days after you get her away... she will go back to pimp/mama who probley works for pimp/daddy. I've had that happen to me before myself when I was a driver in Ottawa and tried to help a couple of girls. I drove one girl all the way to NF from Ottawa for example to help her escape and four days later she was not only back with her pimp but told him who helped her. Also btw the little info you give on here tells me exactly what club she is at.

I suggest to you that the only way to help this girl is to convince her to leave and seek professional help. If she is taking the drugs they give her (let me guess... crack right?) then chances are she has a drug problem. That may be in large part a factor as to why she got in this situation to start with. So no matter what happens she will end up back in same or similar situation so long as she does not reconize and admit her problem. There must be some sort of outreach program in Ottawa that will help her. In GTA here I know we have SOS... but have not been in touch with Ottawa market for long time so do not know what they have there. Maybe if we call SOS though here in GTA... they will have a good contact in Ottawa. No disrespect to Maggies or SPOC... but I don't think they are the ones to call in this situation. SOS is.

I don't have the contact info for SOS here at my finger tips right now but when I find it I'll let you know. In the mean time if anybody else has it please post.

Good luck. My prayers are with you both.

 

[Cute In A Kilt]

My initial response is Street Outreach Services (SOS) she certainly fits their mandate.... but that's not in ottawa/kingston....

http://www.actoronto.org/website/referrals.nsf/agencylisting/Street+Outreach+Services+(S.O.S.)
http://www.loftcs.org/program-street.htm

But I found this on google

http://www.operationgohome.ca/frame.html
Location:
We're located in downtown Ottawa, where we can offer the services that are most needed to assist today's street-involved youth.
What to do if your child has just run away?

176 Rideau Street
Second Floor
Ottawa ON K1N 5X6

Crisis-Support Line 1.800.668.4663
Our Crisis-Support line is staffed 24 hours a day and 7 days a week with experienced and empathetic volunteers.

Call us anytime if you need help getting home or just need somebody to talk to.


Our hours:
Monday - Friday:
8:00 am – 1:00 pm (drop in hours)
8:00 am - 4:30 pm
Summer hours: (June - August)
8:00 am - 4:00 pm
Saturday - Sunday and Holidays: Closed

 

[TheNiteHwk]

Thanks Cute.

I agree. Use this info. Get this girl some help before she is in too deep.