Thing About a Man That Turns You OFF

[Troops]

Ladies........us men, we have many faults and sometimes it needs to be brought to our attention so that we may better ourselves.

What are some of the things about us that turns you off? Please hold nothing back. The truth is always a good thing.

 

[Astra]

Bad manners and poor hygiene.

Ciao Astra

 

[Troops]

Yes........some of us men do stink don't we Astra. I smell them too. But i think alot of men are immune to their own b.o. and don't meet to many people like myself that will tell them that they stink.

 

[CyberGoth]

most of us guys are oblivious alot of the time and do silly foolish things without realising it.

 

[Troops]

most of us guys are oblivious alot of the time and do silly foolish things without realising it.

Give us an example Goth. I think the more we talk about our gender, i think some of us may be able to make some changes in our lives which will benefit the opposite sex.

 

[shiftee]

Guys that order coffee in a Tim Hortons like John Wayne in a saloon. " And I'll have a double double with a poppyseed bagel with strawberry creamcheese" FFS!

 

[Cardinal Fang]

most of us guys are oblivious alot of the time and do silly foolish things without realising it.

Story of my life at times....

 

[CyberGoth]

in the words of Elvis Costello...

"I'm just a soul who's intentions are good, oh lord please dont let me be misunderstood"

sometimes I "try too hard" and in turn alienate the subject of my interests in the process. [dumb thing]

 

[Troops]

Guys that order coffee in a Tim Hortons like John Wayne in a saloon. " And I'll have a double double with a poppyseed bagel with strawberry creamcheese" FFS!

How about those guys that go to starbucks and order a carramel orange latte mocha frappucino with a splash of vanilla and cinnamon. Who the hell invented designer coffee anyways?

Try ordering just a regular coffee at starbucks and watch the snooty looks they give you. Sometimes they don't even know what regular coffee is. They'll ask, "what flavour sir?"..........uhhhhh coffee flavour you dingbat.

 

[CyberGoth]

...what part of "JUMBO IRISH CREAM" does starbucks not understand???

[oh forgot, theyre brainwashed, erhm trained to be good starbucks agents with the starbucks ontology.]

 

[Troops]

...what part of "JUMBO IRISH CREAM" does starbucks not understand???

[oh forgot, theyre brainwashed, erhm trained to be good starbucks agents with the starbucks ontology.]

I think you mean a GRANDE irish cream Goth.

Grande=Jumbo.........lmfao. They have their own lingo like Licks Burgers.

 

[wrong hole]

...dudes with 'bitch' tits...

...wear a mansiere...or something....

 

[Troops]

Re: Re: Thing About a Man That Turns You OFF

...dudes with 'bitch' tits...

...wear a mansiere...or something....

lol...............don't you mean a Wonderbro?

 

[rdhaired_vixen]

things that turn me off

bad hygiene
bad manners
ignorance
crudeness
cheapness
obnoxious behaviour
arrogance

 

[shiftee]

How about those guys that go to starbucks and order a carramel orange latte mocha frappucino with a splash of vanilla and cinnamon. Who the hell invented designer coffee anyways?

Try ordering just a regular coffee at starbucks and watch the snooty looks they give you. Sometimes they don't even know what regular coffee is. They'll ask, "what flavour sir?"..........uhhhhh coffee flavour you dingbat.

What some guy orders is another story ( can I get AIDS from drinking an orange latte with vanilla & cinammon?) However, I cannot help but laff when I hear the "tough guy" voice bellow out some insanely feminine beverage.

 

[sara@select]

A few of my big turn offs here:

-poor manners
-foul mouths (both word and scent)
-smokers
-those that cannot control their alcohol intake
-men that grunt and slam weights in the gym for attention
-men that order light meals like a salad with dressing on the side (you are a man, eat like one)
-vanity cases

 

[Goober Mcfly]

A few of my big turn offs here:

-poor manners What the fuck is that supposed to mean?
-foul mouths (both word and scent) See above. *eats garlic*
-smokers *eye-shift*
-those that cannot control their alcohol intake I only drink when I smoke (see above)
-men that grunt and slam weights in the gym for attention What's this "gym" you speak of?
-men that order light meals like a salad with dressing on the side (you are a man, eat like one) Mmmmm. Raspberry Vinaigrette
-vanity cases Yay!

<sigh>

 

[Lady Sarah]

...what bothers me, is that WE as women historically give up so much of ourselves to be in relationships, while most of you sit back and absorb our gifts and love without so much a nod or a washed dish in our direction, meanwhile without us you'de be dead from apathy.
I personally am tired of your gender, as a collective, giving NOTHING, PRECIOUS FA back in terms of respect, time, and deference to what WE want to do every once in a while. Most men expect everything to be on YOUR time, at YOUR whim and costing nothing in return.
In short, AND NO-ONE YELL AT ME FOR THIS, BECAUSE YOU ASKED, and I have loved incredible men and will again...BUT WILL ALWAYS, ALWAYS LEAVE THEM EVENTUALLY...
Why?
Because you appear to be hard wired BIOLOGICALLY to be incredibly selfish. Like, above and beyond the call of self-centered. Ick. I'm having a blast being single, knowing what I know.
Don't even get me STARTED on musicians.

 

[HornyTime]

Sarah - I think you're going out with the wrong guys. We definately are not all like that.

Maybe you're one of those that goes for the "bad boy", but then expects them to be the "good boy" after hooking up. I know plenty of nice girls that go out with the worst guys, bitch about them, but aren't interested in any of the nice guys ("They're not man enough").

Girls shouldn't expect to be able to change a man (and vice-versa).

 

[wooly110]

Re: men......

On a more positive note turns on
Men that are affectionate
Men that can have a stimulating conversation
Men that have soft skin
Men that have enough belly for me to grab
Men that are open minded
Men that are happy to take directions

Hmm...I've got 5 of the 6 covered. But, if my father is any indication, I don't get a belly till I'm about 55 yrs. old