I think the younger generation is realizing that car, homes, marriage, kids is all nice but if you need to work 6 days of 12 hours for it to make it... It's not worth it.
The same will happen here in America. The younger generation can't buy homes and have a regular life unless both in the couple work their ass off extra hours... Just to barely make it. You end up never having a life, never seeing your kids, just working and working... To end up at 65 with a retirement where you can't do much anyway. You are physically diminished and health cost a fucking fortune...
Who wants this life?
All of the points in your posts are damn good.
We make it way too difficult for young people to really make it.
With respect to both studying and working, there is a huge percentage of the population in the Western World, including Japan, who have time for little else than studying and working. Usually they pair off and create a high-income, wealthy household. They sometimes have to almost be told to spend some of the damn money. Redistribute it, please.
You and I sometimes disagree on this, but I see more restrictive corporate policies in the U.S. than you do in Canada. Companies protecting themselves against lawsuits discourage intraoffice dating, especially among unequals. So you get less marriages originating from relationships at work.
A not small percentage of the younger guys doing this activity fit the mold. Good money, but a lot of studying at school and a lot of hours at work. They buy themselves some good sex. Good for them, as far as I am concerned.
So we end up with this mismatch that has been present in Japan for a while. A group of upper-end workers who make damn good money, but have little time for anything, including buying stuff. That upper-end group is at least half, often more, female. There is no marrying-up since there aren’t enough males above them, and all they have done their whole lives is compete against their male peers.
And a huge group of people who find the rungs of the upward mobility ladder too high, and they get higher every year. They ain’t getting to the top. And they don’t have much money to buy stuff.
Japanese are terrible at accepting other cultures. Decades ago I went to a Japanese only erotic full-service massage parlor in Bangkok. I saw Japanese only and was like Fuck You. I am going to get the White Man’s version of Wilt Chamberlain just strolling through Whites Only stores in Kansas when he played ball there. God Bless him, he integrated the city as they took the signs down. I didn’t have that effect, obviously, but the nice Thai girl snuck me in and fucked me, giggling at how the slippers didn’t fit.
Pretty sure there is not a Canadian in the country that would contemplate a Canadians Only brothel. So I take with a grain of salt that Canada will ever become like Japan. I worry about that more with the U.S. and our current anti-immigration stance.