no denial that we all hooked up to our own range of SPs and agencies and Indies and like the fact of drama free liability free enjoyment.
But tinder has it’s own flavour too, not for everyone though. those who r good in this game can share some experiences…
i had one recently…connected in afternoon…she was in her 40s..said she is just casually trying this app and have her family around. it’s hard to judge whts true and whts made up story…but i played along and kept texting next couple of hours. asked her if she can come out for sometime to which she agreed. she was a nice middle aged lady, well dressed…didn’t hesitate to introduce herself and real identity which i verified on linkedin. senior manager in a reputed IT firm. she said not draw any other meaning of this meeting as she just said yes for some chit chat and nothing more. i said i hv no such intentions either and a companion for a nice drive is perfect.
I intentionally drove in the direction of my home and surrounding. asked her if it’s ok we stop by my place and grab some beer, we can just stand outside door and drink. she took a pause and said ok. conversation is a key element…that should not have pauses i would say. once we inside home and finished one bear, all it took was to hold her hand and pull towards me and hold her tight to overcome the first 2 mins of resistance. once u r able to surpass that initial resistance you know that the battle in won.
for next 2 hour everything was in the menu whatever u wish for. we spent lot of time exploring each other under the shower too. by the time we finished it was close to midnight. dressed up and dropped her back.
had a good sleep that night
damage - negligible 10$ gas and a beer
But tinder has it’s own flavour too, not for everyone though. those who r good in this game can share some experiences…
i had one recently…connected in afternoon…she was in her 40s..said she is just casually trying this app and have her family around. it’s hard to judge whts true and whts made up story…but i played along and kept texting next couple of hours. asked her if she can come out for sometime to which she agreed. she was a nice middle aged lady, well dressed…didn’t hesitate to introduce herself and real identity which i verified on linkedin. senior manager in a reputed IT firm. she said not draw any other meaning of this meeting as she just said yes for some chit chat and nothing more. i said i hv no such intentions either and a companion for a nice drive is perfect.
I intentionally drove in the direction of my home and surrounding. asked her if it’s ok we stop by my place and grab some beer, we can just stand outside door and drink. she took a pause and said ok. conversation is a key element…that should not have pauses i would say. once we inside home and finished one bear, all it took was to hold her hand and pull towards me and hold her tight to overcome the first 2 mins of resistance. once u r able to surpass that initial resistance you know that the battle in won.
for next 2 hour everything was in the menu whatever u wish for. we spent lot of time exploring each other under the shower too. by the time we finished it was close to midnight. dressed up and dropped her back.
had a good sleep that night
damage - negligible 10$ gas and a beer
, cool.
