when you go out with a girl, i tend to try to pay for everything. its the way i was thought and its just the way i've grown up to be....or at least i try to pay for everything.
today, woman are starting to make more money and are receiving most if not all the rights men have. so why should a man really pay for everything now a days? reason for me, its because its just the way things are done in my world.
but then...
i have this friend of mine who went out with this girl for many years. almost a decade. over the course of their relationship, unfortunately my friend has not had the best of luck with money and the girl tend to pay for more stuff. understand...my friend is someone who is more then happy to be at home and live within his means. but the girl is someone who like to go out and do stuff or get easily bored. she insist on going out...when he says.."i dont have money"...she says..i'll pay..lets go out. if he decides not to go out, she gets upset. the cycle goes on for many years. my buddy even considered marrying her because at the end of the day, she does take care of him pretty well...but she is...an emotional bitch on wheels. she's my friend too..but really..she is what she is. there were times when she was jobless...though it was a short time compared to the long relationship they were in...he paid for everything, without a peep. they recently broke up and she got all fixated on money. she basically complained how she pays for soo much over the years and they came to the agreement that he owed her $10K. I told him...FUCK IT...you dont owe her shit. I don't recall in my life time forking out a bill to the girl i end a relationship with. now that they arent officially together...they kinda still are. make no sense and yes...its retarded. they recently went to a concert and they're going away this weekend and she's paying for everything cause she insist...most likely...cause she's bored. she bugs me..and bugs him that...she just wants her money...but unfortunately...my buddy had lost his job 2 months ago. why would she pay for things for someone who she is trying to get to pay her back? and once again, its not like my friend is asking for this. she is the one pushing for it.
though they had agreed on the $10K total...i told him not to pay. its ridiculous. so the question is. do you pay? or not pay?
in my eyes, at the end of the day, i think people shouldnt have to pay for shit at the end of relationship unless it was like borrowed money. like if i were to ask my gf for $1000 to help with this months bill and i'll pay her back later. but things at accumulate through being together...that's "relationship casualty".
today, woman are starting to make more money and are receiving most if not all the rights men have. so why should a man really pay for everything now a days? reason for me, its because its just the way things are done in my world.
but then...
i have this friend of mine who went out with this girl for many years. almost a decade. over the course of their relationship, unfortunately my friend has not had the best of luck with money and the girl tend to pay for more stuff. understand...my friend is someone who is more then happy to be at home and live within his means. but the girl is someone who like to go out and do stuff or get easily bored. she insist on going out...when he says.."i dont have money"...she says..i'll pay..lets go out. if he decides not to go out, she gets upset. the cycle goes on for many years. my buddy even considered marrying her because at the end of the day, she does take care of him pretty well...but she is...an emotional bitch on wheels. she's my friend too..but really..she is what she is. there were times when she was jobless...though it was a short time compared to the long relationship they were in...he paid for everything, without a peep. they recently broke up and she got all fixated on money. she basically complained how she pays for soo much over the years and they came to the agreement that he owed her $10K. I told him...FUCK IT...you dont owe her shit. I don't recall in my life time forking out a bill to the girl i end a relationship with. now that they arent officially together...they kinda still are. make no sense and yes...its retarded. they recently went to a concert and they're going away this weekend and she's paying for everything cause she insist...most likely...cause she's bored. she bugs me..and bugs him that...she just wants her money...but unfortunately...my buddy had lost his job 2 months ago. why would she pay for things for someone who she is trying to get to pay her back? and once again, its not like my friend is asking for this. she is the one pushing for it.
though they had agreed on the $10K total...i told him not to pay. its ridiculous. so the question is. do you pay? or not pay?
in my eyes, at the end of the day, i think people shouldnt have to pay for shit at the end of relationship unless it was like borrowed money. like if i were to ask my gf for $1000 to help with this months bill and i'll pay her back later. but things at accumulate through being together...that's "relationship casualty".
