Variety Is The Spice Of Life or..............

[Samranchoi]

.....when you meet that seemingly perfect woman you devote all of your hobby time and money to her.

In the past I used to like visiting many different women as I wanted to experience a variety of women, searching for one that could top all others. More times than not however, I found that 8 times out of 10, expectations fell short and I left the session thinking I should have just visited the one or two who were head and shoulders above the rest. Eventually, that is what I did. I would limit my time and money to the one or two who gave me the most satisfaction on all levels. However, as time passed so did their time in the business. The cycle would start all over again but luckily I have always been able to find that at least one special woman who was able to provide everything that I wanted in a client/provider relationship. Eventually she will also leave the business and I will be back in the same boat again. But for the time being, I will just enjoy the time that I am spending with my current favorite. Unless of course, the one who I consider to be the best of the best returns to the business, which I highly doubt, then I will have to split my time and money between two women again.

I know I am in the minority of most men as variety appears to override the "same old" experience but personally, I am no longer interested in variety as opposed to seeing someone that I thoroughly "click" with. Mind you, if I end up winning the lottery my opinion may change but I would like to think it wouldn't, lol.

 

[bazokajoe]

I am happy finding 1 or 2 ladies I "click" with. Not interested in variety.

 

[FearlessFreep]

I too have gone through the variety phase and am still searching for the one or two to become a regular. Never have found that heads above the rest SP, but here's hoping.

 

[The "Bone" Ranger]

I am actually "faithful" and stick with a regular as long as she doesn't retire or stop providing the service she initially used to.

 

[Jasmina]

I think it is probably totally normal for men newer to the hobby to be excited by the idea of being able to access different flavours so easily, but human nature is to seek contact and connection and over time I think most men mature into just wanting 1 or favorites who they know they will have a good time with without any question of what they are walking into.

 

[skidor]

I too used to see different SP"S and MA'S and had 1 or 2 regulars.

But with some disappointing sessions I find myself now sticking with one regular I have who is an MA but comes to my place in the SP capacity.

So I don't seem to be trying new ladies of late.

Although I still want have an SP do a solo show for me with then joining in - and a duo.

Guess those are the only things on my bucket list

 

[jcpro]

You should always take advantage of variety because you never know what you may discover. Even after a lifetime, I keep finding new ways of amusing myself outside of my comfort zone and well established "types" and routines. Sex for the sake of sex holds no interest to me and, besides, it can be had for nothing. The greatest advantage of pay for play is variety.

 

[Johnny Utah]

Variety is key in the beginning to understand more about them and yourself.

I finally have found some favourites after nearly a year. It’s much better knowing what experience you will get and that connection is intoxicating.

 

[boomboom]

I am happy finding 1 or 2 ladies I "click" with. Not interested in variety.

agree 100 %

 

[renuck]

.....when you meet that seemingly perfect woman you devote all of your hobby time and money to her.

In the past I used to like visiting many different women as I wanted to experience a variety of women, searching for one that could top all others. More times than not however, I found that 8 times out of 10, expectations fell short and I left the session thinking I should have just visited the one or two who were head and shoulders above the rest. Eventually, that is what I did. I would limit my time and money to the one or two who gave me the most satisfaction on all levels. However, as time passed so did their time in the business. The cycle would start all over again but luckily I have always been able to find that at least one special woman who was able to provide everything that I wanted in a client/provider relationship. Eventually she will also leave the business and I will be back in the same boat again. But for the time being, I will just enjoy the time that I am spending with my current favorite. Unless of course, the one who I consider to be the best of the best returns to the business, which I highly doubt, then I will have to split my time and money between two women again.

I know I am in the minority of most men as variety appears to override the "same old" experience but personally, I am no longer interested in variety as opposed to seeing someone that I thoroughly "click" with. Mind you, if I end up winning the lottery my opinion may change but I would like to think it wouldn't, lol.

I think I'm pretty much in the same mind set as you. I have a regular that I see because we get along, communicate well and have some laughs, try new things, and the sex is awesome. In short she's a great person, I enjoy spending time with her, and we have a lot of fun together. I have seen other women the odd time but I see her at least 80%(+) of the time. I like variety too but I certainly don't see her as the "same old" experience. TBH it always seems to keep getting better.

 

[Samranchoi]

I think I'm pretty much in the same mind set as you. I have a regular that I see because we get along, communicate well and have some laughs, try new things, and the sex is awesome. In short she's a great person, I enjoy spending time with her, and we have a lot of fun together. I have seen other women the odd time but I see her at least 80%(+) of the time. I like variety too but I certainly don't see her as the "same old" experience. TBH it always seems to keep getting better.

Just last night I saw my favorite again and from the moment I enter it is like the start of a perfect evening together. The smile on her face, but especially her eyes, is what truly makes her one of a kind. The fact that when she says all the right things is just a bonus. It is extremely difficult to fake genuine and sincere happiness especially when it comes to emotions. If it were only about sex, there is no question that the skills of some I have been with are superior. However, pure skill is not everything. Last night, she proved that once again. I only see her once a week (sometimes twice but that is rare) but the time spent with her is enough to hold me till the next time which cannot come soon enough. Absolutely no need to see anyone else. Variety is great but it is not the best thing, at least for me.

 

[JordanR]

I am the kind of person that when I find what I am looking for, I don't try others very soon. And I think it's wise too. I like Anna and Crystal at Pickering Angels, and for the past 3 months, I have not tried a new girl.

 

[shack]

You should always .

There is no "always". sometimes you want something that is new and is exciting for nothing more than their newness and uncertainty. Sometimes you want a guaranteed good time. Keep your options and connections open.

 

[Occasionally]

When I find that awesome lady, I stick with her.

When she retires, then it's variety time.

Then when I find a new SP that is awesome, she's my new regular call.

I have no interest risking time and money on a random SP who will likely not be better than my regular call.