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So I'm coming to my fellow terbites, hopefully to shed some light and share my embarrassment as well as confusion.
The other night I was with my wife and she went down to give me a bj. Well! To her surprise and my horror, I went limp basically 5 secs as she went down. Minds you, she doesn't do it much and I remember when she did, I did enjoy it. I'm trying to think back to the last sp I was with, months ago and I don't think I had an issue. In any case, after I went down on her, I was back in action. Thankfully! My mind was racing and I thought for a few minutes that I possibly couldn't do that either!!
I guess I came to ask here rather to going down the dr. Google rabbit hole as I was wondering... 1. Has anyone had problems like this? 2. Is hobbying doing this to me? Mind you, I only hobby like 1-2 times a year! Is this a psychological block? Can it be fixed?
 
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1. Has anyone had problems like this? 2. Is hobbying doing this to me? Mind you, I only hobby like 1-2 times a year! Is this a psychological block? Can it be fixed?
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There are over 23,000,000 people using Viagra type prescriptions so I suggest your experience is not unique.

You have satisfied your urges with the same meal for years on end and you really think that one day you experience something different would lead to your ruin ? I think you are looking at the wrong end of the cause. Maybe a little more dining out will let you help you appreciate home cooking more.

BTW - I am the last guy to listen to marriage advice. I will suggest that visit your doctor. There is nothing wrong with using a little Viagra help to get laid - how many times did you use alcohol when you were a teen ? Don't let pleasure for you and your partner be denied because of a misplaced male ego.
 
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Sorry to hear
Wouldn’t feel embarrassed myself as more annoyed as time and money wasted
 
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Tell your Dr and they might give you a low dose...and, sometimes knowing you have it gives you the confidence to let the normal function flow...without taking the pill.
 
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Your place!!
Not meaning to knock your wife, but maybe it’s her technique that’s the problem.
I know personally that the same thing every time can cause the goalies stick to not react the way it should sometime!
 
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If it's the only time it's happened then you had an oops moment. Always happens when you least expect it and has happened to most guys at one time or another. But if it's happening on a more regular basis then talk to your doctor. There could also be other contributing factors such as stress (work, home, finances) and lack of sleep. Otherwise, don't sweat the small stuff if it's the only time it's happened.

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efil said:
So I'm coming to my fellow terbites, hopefully to shed some light and share my embarrassment as well as confusion.
The other night I was with my wife and she went down to give me a bj. Well! To her surprise and my horror, I went limp basically 5 secs as she went down. Minds you, she doesn't do it much and I remember when she did, I did enjoy it. I'm trying to think back to the last sp I was with, months ago and I don't think I had an issue. In any case, after I went down on her, I was back in action. Thankfully! My mind was racing and I thought for a few minutes that I possibly couldn't do that either!!
I guess I came to ask here rather to going down the dr. Google rabbit hole as I was wondering... 1. Has anyone had problems like this? 2. Is hobbying doing this to me? Mind you, I only hobby like 1-2 times a year! Is this a psychological block? Can it be fixed?
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I went limp right when my wife was in the middle of an orgasm. She pushed me out about 1/2 through and it looked like it was going to be a really good one for her. Shit happens (likely guilt on my part) and boy was she SO pissed at me. :ROFLMAO::ROFLMAO:
 
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efil said:
So I'm coming to my fellow terbites, hopefully to shed some light and share my embarrassment as well as confusion.
The other night I was with my wife and she went down to give me a bj. Well! To her surprise and my horror, I went limp basically 5 secs as she went down. Minds you, she doesn't do it much and I remember when she did, I did enjoy it. I'm trying to think back to the last sp I was with, months ago and I don't think I had an issue. In any case, after I went down on her, I was back in action. Thankfully! My mind was racing and I thought for a few minutes that I possibly couldn't do that either!!
I guess I came to ask here rather to going down the dr. Google rabbit hole as I was wondering... 1. Has anyone had problems like this? 2. Is hobbying doing this to me? Mind you, I only hobby like 1-2 times a year! Is this a psychological block? Can it be fixed?
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Relax. It's your wife.
 
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Life happens mate - maybe you had so much on your mind - but it seems you recovered.
 
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Yup this happens, even with Viagra or Cialis. Several reasons for going limp includes not being attracted (or no longer attracted) to the person you are with, the technique including lack of lube or natural wetness being used, room temperature (too cold will make it difficult for me), surrounding noise, other things on your mind and too much pressure from the other person. Medications and alcohol can also cause this.

If you still get nocturnal erections then at least you know that your erection ability is okay. It's likely one or more of the other psychological factors.
 
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efil said:
So I'm coming to my fellow terbites, hopefully to shed some light and share my embarrassment as well as confusion.
The other night I was with my wife and she went down to give me a bj. Well! To her surprise and my horror, I went limp basically 5 secs as she went down. Minds you, she doesn't do it much and I remember when she did, I did enjoy it. I'm trying to think back to the last sp I was with, months ago and I don't think I had an issue. In any case, after I went down on her, I was back in action. Thankfully! My mind was racing and I thought for a few minutes that I possibly couldn't do that either!!
I guess I came to ask here rather to going down the dr. Google rabbit hole as I was wondering... 1. Has anyone had problems like this? 2. Is hobbying doing this to me? Mind you, I only hobby like 1-2 times a year! Is this a psychological block? Can it be fixed?
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My wife has entirely way too much confidence to the point where it can be an issue and not a turn on. She’s always had this idea that she’s some kind of sex freak, a self-described nympho dynamo who had an enormous body count before we got married. But she doesn’t know about the unbelievable roster of talent i have to compare. The reality is she’s not a top shelf performer in the bedroom at all. Blowjobs are shallow, teethy, full of excuses about why she can’t do it better (she just ate, her stomach is upset, etc), and basically is always reluctant and never has any enthusiasm. I’m always meticulously groomer and hygiene is 10/10 because I expect her to enjoy going down on me. Nevertheless, she doesn’t let me eat her ass or go down on her, only wants to fuck laying on her back, never wants to change positions, never wants to use the furniture, never lets me fuck her on the couch or in the kitchen or in the backyard. I’ve tried fucking my Wife everywhere and anywhere, even in public places just to try to keep the kink alive. But my wife has basically given up on me. Last time we were intimate I just realized I was using my wife’s body to masturbate inside her, I wasn’t even enjoying it, I was thinking about it escorts while fucking my wife. It’s depressing and kind of fucked up but my wife is a cruel, cruel woman who is likely getting hers elsewhere as well. Life’s a bitch but so is my wife lol
 
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GTA & Thereabouts...
I've only had this happen three times in my life... Once with the wife when she was honestly not even trying, another with a SP with a bad attitude and the last with an SP who was getting careless and almost broke my dick... I soldiered through with the SPs, but couldn't get it back up for the wife. I just didn't like her at the time.
 
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