What do U do if an SP wrongs U

[roland51]

mad: What can you do if a SP wrongs you. Causes you pain and treats you like shit. What can a client do. It seems everyone one here sides with the SP. They take you for what ever they can get and then dump you like you don't matter. I know I'm putting myself out there for alot of abuse but compared to what has happened to me bring it on.

Just wondering what others think of this.

 

[roland51]

KWI you were right. MY hopes have just been dashed. You know this business very well and I should have listeded to you. She couldn't have picked a better day to do it. I have no family and maybe she thinks I'll just kill myself. No chance that will happen.

 

[S.C. Joe]

No I am not going to side with the SP, some are very mean, cold. In fact I found its best to stay away from the company she works for if 1 you say something and they just tell you "we make it up to you next time and then they don't or 2 she is still with them a month later. If thats the case don't see any girls from that agency again, even if you need to travel.

You need to understand thou, they see so many guy's they really can not care how everyone feels but they should act very nice to you while they see you. Most seem OK but there is a few who just need to understand this is not play money and guy's have feelings too.

Move on, you find a nice SP, she might not love you but she should get you to think she does while you are with her---till your time you paid for is up

 

[roland51]

Sorry SC this is not a client thing but someone I was seeing knowing she was an SP and telling me how she like me and trusted me but something went wrong.

 

[Bear669]

You are too vague.

mad: What can you do if a SP wrongs you. Causes you pain and treats you like shit. What can a client do. It seems everyone one here sides with the SP. They take you for what ever they can get and then dump you like you don't matter. I know I'm putting myself out there for alot of abuse but compared to what has happened to me bring it on.

Just wondering what others think of this.

Be clear about what you feel was done to 'wrong' you. Reasonable comments already posted, but there is NO way to answer your question without details.

 

[S.C. Joe]

Once they become a full time SP, every guy is a client, maybe you were just getting whats call a pro-bono rate--for free.



Oh oh, now the SP's are going to give me crap that they too can love a guy

 

[GRASSMAN]

Go on the Jerry Springer Show, this is a review board

 

[GRASSMAN]

I take that back, the Dr. Phil Show would be more appropirate.

 

[roland51]

Thank you KWI as usually you are a voice to be heard and listeded to. You are right and if I can live with what she did Grassman is just an asshole and like to make people feel bad. Yes I feel better and this is the season. I'm going to Vegas tonight with a friend who has his own jet. Maybe we will check out the Chickenranch or some other place and see what's happening there.

 

[GRASSMAN]

I'm not an asshole, I'm a prick, ya big baby.

 

[DirtyDave]

mad: What can you do if a SP wrongs you. Causes you pain and treats you like shit. What can a client do. It seems everyone one here sides with the SP. They take you for what ever they can get and then dump you like you don't matter. I know I'm putting myself out there for alot of abuse but compared to what has happened to me bring it on.

Just wondering what others think of this.

Perhaps you should marry here. Then nobody would think anything of the way she treats you.

 

[hunter001]

mad: What can you do if a SP wrongs you. Causes you pain and treats you like shit. What can a client do. It seems everyone one here sides with the SP. They take you for what ever they can get and then dump you like you don`t matter. I know I`m putting myself out there for alot of abuse but compared to what has happened to me bring it on.

Just wondering what others think of this.

Check out how to write a negative review correctly, don`t get carried away with your emotions. If she truly did some to "wrong you" most here on the board will appreciate a well written negative review.

If someone does dump on you, at least you have expressed your opinion and been able to extend a warning to others.

(The negative reviews that get usually get ripped start some "I f***ing got screwed by the useless b****. Right away the review losses it`s objectivity. )

Sorry to hear about your experience. Better luck next time.

Cheers

Newbies guide to posting a negative review

 

[roland51]

Hey Grassman you want to go to Vegas with us. I'm sure we can find room in cargo. I've woken up and saw the light and it's the lights of Vegas. She just contacted me and told me she's sorry and she would forgive me if I took her to Vegas. Nothing to forgive but I'm not taking her. I guess she just realized that her meal ticket is leaving. Got to go have a nice Christmas everyone I know I will.

 

[S.C. Joe]

Hell, take her to Vegas--its a long 4-5 hour flight --then afterwards if still feel like dumping her, leave her in Vegas--just kidding.

Really thou, I sure would take her, there is a ton a ladies there and 2/3 are good looking, she might help you meet more ladies too.

 

[GRASSMAN]

Hey, I'll go to Vegas in cargo, as long as I'm Ban#%ng your girl for the 4-5 hours it takes to get there

 

[DistantVoyeur]

Roland, sorry to hear things went bad. Maybe it's for the best to find out though. Ignore the ignorant, enjoy Vegas and let the healing process begin.
That which does not kill you, makes you stronger.

 

[LordLoki]

Ah Roland,

I do not know who your SP is, but I sort of feel sorry for her if she gets the same kind of mixed messages we do:

mad: What can you do if a SP wrongs you. ….. What can a client do. It seems everyone one here sides with the SP.

Sorry SC this is not a client thing but someone I was seeing knowing she was an SP

She just contacted me and told me she's sorry and she would forgive me if I took her to Vegas. Nothing to forgive but I'm not taking her. I guess she just realized that her meal ticket is leaving.

So is this a client/SP thing or not?

Sounds to me like you went from the hourly pay for play client arrangement to the Sugar Daddy client arrangement but then decided you were not a client anymore.

If you are not a client and it is a regular relationship…. Tough women and men have been dumping each other since Adam and Eve had kids.

If you are a client and feel you got ripped off….. Well the basic rules in any business transaction is understand the rules and the deals, make certain the other person understand the rules and the deal, and never assume renting something gives you proprietary rights. If the deal no longer satisfies both parties, be polite enough to walk away.

Simple.

Feeling hurt is normal, get over it. Next time remember that the pay for play world reflects business rules, not social rules. Also helps to know you are not only buying a fantasy, the Sps use fantasies to keep their hearts and souls and bodies safe.

By the way…. A great financial relationship can last for decades, be exclusive, be mutually rewarding, allow for things like saying “I love you” and satisfy all your needs. But the only works if both understand the rules and the deal.

 

[Moraff]

She just contacted me and told me she's sorry and she would forgive me if I took her to Vegas.

that's too funny; SHE'S sorry, but will forgive YOU.... IF you take her on vacation with you. Hope you laughed loud before hanging up on her.

Hope you have a great time in Vegas bud!

 

[ThePunkPanther]

humans are fickle and sometimes incredibly selfish.

write her off and move on.
[yes i am a little cynical in my old age]

 

[BallzDeep]

Hey Grassman you want to go to Vegas with us. I'm sure we can find room in cargo. I've woken up and saw the light and it's the lights of Vegas. She just contacted me and told me she's sorry and she would forgive me if I took her to Vegas. Nothing to forgive but I'm not taking her. I guess she just realized that her meal ticket is leaving. Got to go have a nice Christmas everyone I know I will.

Your story is too confusing, in your eyes it's her fault yet she's the one that has to forgive you for what you've done, give your head a shake, your paying someone to spend time with you, do I have to explain any more to you.........this is an imaginary relationship on your part.