Wondering what the hell to do since I believe the mrs. suspects me being into some other activities other than golf!? I've taken all the regular precautions - major showering afterwards, politely requesting no perfume on the sp etc. Maybe my"more happy than usual" attitude is tipping her off! I don't intend to give up this hobby but can't afford it if the mrs. takes me to the cleaners!!!
What to do???
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You're absolutely right! After 20 years of marriage though, one tends to be a little untruthful at times. Although this hobby is not a little white lie I know. I care greatly about the mrs. just want some icing on the cake from time to time. And lately I guess I've been eating too much! hehehWhOiSyOdAdDy? said:
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It seems like your marriage is fine with the exception of being "physical". I would suggest a couples therapist or even a sex therapist where you both could open up to what your current levels of desire are, and maybe with a bit of work the sexual spark could be re-ignited between the two of you.
The thing that tips off a woman is any perceived change in behavior. If you are usually inattentive to her at home, and suddenly start to shower her with gifts and attention, she will be suspicious. Its not always the physical clues like perfume, lipstick, bank receipts, or late nights at the office.
Fortunately, I can hobby in relative safety since I'm off on "business trips" when I come to Toronto, and I do not partake in my home town under any circumstances.
However, when I did, I simply made sure to do it at time when it did not conflict with my normal life. Lunch hour appointments, Saturday daytime when I was "running errands", and I never ever left a paper trail of information to find.
You might also consider the safety of any e-mail correspondence, particularly if you are careless about clearing passwords and cookies on your computer.
Fortunately, I can hobby in relative safety since I'm off on "business trips" when I come to Toronto, and I do not partake in my home town under any circumstances.
However, when I did, I simply made sure to do it at time when it did not conflict with my normal life. Lunch hour appointments, Saturday daytime when I was "running errands", and I never ever left a paper trail of information to find.
You might also consider the safety of any e-mail correspondence, particularly if you are careless about clearing passwords and cookies on your computer.
Try this
Don't shower, and eat garlic after sex with SP. After you go home start bitching about your job, and how much money Mrs. is spending. Once you do that you mrs will never suspect. This way your Mrs will think that the 20 year marriage is pretty much normal
Don't shower, and eat garlic after sex with SP. After you go home start bitching about your job, and how much money Mrs. is spending. Once you do that you mrs will never suspect. This way your Mrs will think that the 20 year marriage is pretty much normal
