What's the most you'll spend on an encounter?

[TheRiddlerMan]

I'll start with a few notes:

• "Encounter" means whatever you want it to, from a 30 minute session at CMJ to a night with your favorite elite courtesan.
• Before anyone says it - of course providers can charge what they want, it's capitalism in action.
• Please don't make any comments about specific provider rates, as that would go against site rules.

For myself, the monthly budget is pretty tight these days so I couldn't go over $250.

 

[frankprobst]

I'll start with a few notes:

• "Encounter" means whatever you want it to, from a 30 minute session at CMJ to a night with your favorite elite courtesan.
• Before anyone says it - of course providers can charge what they want, it's capitalism in action.
• Please don't make any comments about specific provider rates, as that would go against site rules.

For myself, the monthly budget is pretty tight these days so I couldn't go over $250.

Personally, I prefer quality over quantity so I'll go up to 400 all-in for a really good experience, but I will stop immediately if the quality of the experience declines.
I was seeing a "SUPER-ULTRA-VIP" lady for a bit there because it was just amazing, but then a couple of sessions kinda felt more like she was phoning it in so I found another main.

I completely understand if you're between favourites and you're budget-conscious... I've taken months at a time off to avoid the spend unnecessarily. Either because of budget or because nobody was really "calling" to me.

EDIT: I should add, I only book hours. Not enough time otherwise for me, it's not like I'll drop 400 on a 30-minute wham-bam, but I don't like those in the first place so salt the statements above appropriately.

 

[dynomyte]

Hmmmm quality over quantity? I suggest that these are jot mutually exclusive. When I find something I really like (quality) I want more of it (quantity). If I connect with a lady, I will spend more to see her more often. Thus, when I find that someone I connect with my quantity goes way up.

I have done weekend getaways etc that cost quite a bit and would certainly continue to do so if I feel that there is a good connection. However, in terms of a one hour session, I rarely spend more than $350 but have spent as much as $500.

 

[bushido_99]

For me it entirely depends on the services provided and the interaction ahead of time.
I have gone as high as 1250.. but that was a rare one. And average I rarely will spend more than 300-350

 

[superspunky]

$500/hour is about as high as I will go, personally.

And it's not that I can't afford it or don't want to spend more than that. It's because experience has taught me that the girls looking for more than that are often not worth it at all, and borderline scam artists and bait and switchers.

Girls providing services at $250-$500/hour are always cut and dry and what you can expect, very clear about boundaries and etiquette, etc.

The few times I have gone in the $700+ range, I have deeply regretted it every time. More than once I have left without even getting to cum.

 

[FLaPenna]

$300-$500.

 

[Bradder780]

Hourly lets say 300-500$ would be max I’d try to spend.
Encounter is a loose word, I’ve dropped thousands on longer bookings going from over nights to 7/8 days.
I dropped a 1000$ yesterday for something I went in thinking it would cost 300-400$( although it was worth every dollar).
So every encounter can be very different and can also change in a flash

 

[TauCeti]

$220 hr

 

[Assblaster]

Spent $600 /HR on a duo once and only got service from one of the ladies. Other than that the most I've spent is 300/HR

Right now 300/HR is my limit or 300/HH if that includes anal lol

 

[DillBest]

Reading these numbers is quite surprising to me and I have to ask why at that price point are you choosing escorts over sugar babies?

For $300-500 in Ottawa, it's quite easy to find a normal 20 something girl who is happy to date older men.

 

[BlissinOT]

Reading these numbers is quite surprising to me and I have to ask why at that price point are you choosing escorts over sugar babies?

For $300-500 in Ottawa, it's quite easy to find a normal 20 something girl who is happy to date older men.

SBs , escorts,Cam girls etc are SW .It is all SW.
It is just funny to see some mental gymnastics.
Theses rates don’t cover their rent , big expenses like tuition , groceries even investing in the future etc . I am sorry but 300-500$ in SDing is exploitative considering the cost of living in Ottawa is x 10 this rate for an average person !

 

[dynomyte]

It's pretty presumptuous to jump to exploitation from this. You have no idea what the situation is. It could be a 1 to 2 hour date at 300 to 500. Or even a 5 hour date is still 100 per hour. If that is explotation then you would have to argue that the vast majority of Canadians are being exploited. If sugar dating is not something you would do, then fine but to leap to exploitation seems farfetched unless you are of the opinion that all sex work is exploitation. It is possible that there are sugar babies who are very comfortable in their various sugar relationships even at 300 to 500 per relationship. Don't wanna be a sugar baby? No problem. I am sure you will find something that makes you happy. But to shame those who are or those looking to find someone willing to be one seems incredibly arrogant.

 

[SSCarver]

Once spent $700 at a 5 star hotel in Shanghai for the most beautiful women I had ever seen. Stellar body and incredible sex. An encounter I will never forget.

 

[BlissinOT]

It's pretty presumptuous to jump to exploitation from this. You have no idea what the situation is. It could be a 1 to 2 hour date at 300 to 500. Or even a 5 hour date is still 100 per hour. If that is explotation then you would have to argue that the vast majority of Canadians are being exploited. If sugar dating is not something you would do, then fine but to leap to exploitation seems farfetched unless you are of the opinion that all sex work is exploitation. It is possible that there are sugar babies who are very comfortable in their various sugar relationships even at 300 to 500 per relationship. Don't wanna be a sugar baby? No problem. I am sure you will find something that makes you happy. But to shame those who are or those looking to find someone willing to be one seems incredibly arrogant.

It's pretty presumptuous to jump to exploitation from this. You have no idea what the situation is. It could be a 1 to 2 hour date at 300 to 500. Or even a 5 hour date is still 100 per hour. If that is explotation then you would have to argue that the vast majority of Canadians are being exploited. If sugar dating is not something you would do, then fine but to leap to exploitation seems farfetched unless you are of the opinion that all sex work is exploitation. It is possible that there are sugar babies who are very comfortable in their various sugar relationships even at 300 to 500 per relationship. Don't wanna be a sugar baby? No problem. I am sure you will find something that makes you happy. But to shame those who are or those looking to find someone willing to be one seems incredibly arrogant.

The vast majority of Canadians are not SW . They are working hard to get paid .
SW is considered as a job by some people , an hobby by some , a fantasy by some etc . I have a different perspective from that . Everyone viewpoint is different .
He doesn’t specify . There is a big difference between PPM , allowances , gifts etc .
I am telling the truth . It is exploiting a young woman . Why would someone spend 2-5 hours for 300-500$ in sugar dating while someone can get that in just one hour of session ?
Everyone situation is different ! They do what makes them happy.
The persons who are paid 100+ per hours from
Their civvie jobs are doing different tasks then the supposed 20 something who you want to hang out for 300-500 per date . Plus most of them have a work schedule , specific hours of work hours , breaks etc . They have a clear idea about their paycheck .

I really hope it a platonic hang out at this rate .

I remember that there were a thread about sugar dating and some pointed out how some offers were laughable.
There is a big difference between a real SD and a John (client ) .

 

[superspunky]

The vast majority of Canadians are not SW . They are working hard to get paid .
SW is considered as a job by some people , an hobby by some , a fantasy by some etc . I have a different perspective from that . Everyone viewpoint is different .
He doesn’t specify . There is a big difference between PPM , allowances , gifts etc .
I am telling the truth . It is exploiting a young woman . Why would someone spend 2-5 hours for 300-500$ in sugar dating while someone can get that in just one hour of session ?
Everyone situation is different ! They do what makes them happy.
The persons who are paid 100+ per hours from
Their civvie jobs are doing different tasks then the supposed 20 something who you want to hang out for 300-500 per date . Plus most of them have a work schedule , specific hours of work hours , breaks etc . They have a clear idea about their paycheck .

I really hope it a platonic hang out at this rate .

I remember that there were a thread about sugar dating and some pointed out how some offers were laughable.
There is a big difference between a real SD and a John (client ) .

They are free to say "no" to the offer of 300-500.

I have been a sugar daddy in the past and one of the best experiences I have ever had was with a married woman who just wanted $150 per meeting regardless of length of time spent. Because for her it was about the fantasy and "kink" of being paid for sex - the amount did not matter. We saw each other for nearly 5 years.

While I understand the point you are trying to make, I think you're being very presumptuous about the intentions of both the SD and SB in these scenarios.

If I am engaging with SBs and *their offer* is "500 for an afternoon with me", I am not exploiting them.

 

[BlissinOT]

They are free to say "no" to the offer of 300-500.

I have been a sugar daddy in the past and one of the best experiences I have ever had was with a married woman who just wanted $150 per meeting regardless of length of time spent. Because for her it was about the fantasy and "kink" of being paid for sex - the amount did not matter. We saw each other for nearly 5 years.

While I understand the point you are trying to make, I think you're being very presumptuous about the intentions of both the SD and SB in these scenarios.

If I am engaging with SBs and *their offer* is "500 for an afternoon with me", I am not exploiting them.

That’s why I said everyone does what makes them happy. Meaning they have the freedom to say yes or no ( consent) .
In your last scenario it is their offers in your example .
Everyone situation is different !
Congratulations on your 5 years + SR . It is very rare in the bowl .

 

[DillBest]

He doesn’t specify . There is a big difference between PPM , allowances , gifts etc .
I am telling the truth . It is exploiting a young woman . Why would someone spend 2-5 hours for 300-500$ in sugar dating while someone can get that in just one hour of session ?

Sorry, I should have been more clear, I am referring to PPM. $300-500 for an intimate date (which can vary from lunch and a nooner to drinks and dinner) is the going rate I have been offered in Ottawa. Single or divorced men might prefer an allowance or a different arrangement.

My question is why would anyone pay the same rate for an hour of sex with an escort (who as you point out might have multiple clients in a day) when they can instead engage an SB, with whom you can experience a genuine connection along with the sex.

 

[BlissinOT]

Sorry, I should have been more clear, I am referring to PPM. $300-500 for an intimate date (which can vary from lunch and a nooner to drinks and dinner) is the going rate I have been offered in Ottawa. Single or divorced men might prefer an allowance or a different arrangement.

My question is why would anyone pay the same rate for an hour of sex with an escort (who as you point out might have multiple clients in a day) when they can instead engage an SB, with whom you can experience a genuine connection along with the sex.

It shows you don’t know me . I don’t escort every day and I don’t see multiple men on a daily basis. Some do see multiples . It is their choices .
I will answer as an escort and tell you , that even in escorting sometimes we develop some meaningful long term relationships with some men .
Also as an escort I don’t have to deal with emotional labor of sugar dating .

And nothing proves that your SB doesn’t have multiple SDs .

Even 300-500$ ppm seems very low to me .

 

[Daddy2021]

They are free to say "no" to the offer of 300-500.

I have been a sugar daddy in the past and one of the best experiences I have ever had was with a married woman who just wanted $150 per meeting regardless of length of time spent. Because for her it was about the fantasy and "kink" of being paid for sex - the amount did not matter. We saw each other for nearly 5 years.

While I understand the point you are trying to make, I think you're being very presumptuous about the intentions of both the SD and SB in these scenarios.

If I am engaging with SBs and *their offer* is "500 for an afternoon with me", I am not exploiting them.

Generally from my experience with SBs is that sure they can say no. But they don’t because they don’t know better. They are just tipping their toe in the industry and for the most part don’t even realize they are getting ripped off. Most fellow SDs (and yes I read the commentary so it’s fair to say most) take this route because they know they can squeeze more out of the girl than you can being charged by the hour with an sp. it can be exploitative when you consider the mindset and not just the actions. Alas at the end of the day it’s still consenting adults.

 

[dynomyte]

The vast majority of Canadians are not SW . They are working hard to get paid .
SW is considered as a job by some people , an hobby by some , a fantasy by some etc . I have a different perspective from that . Everyone viewpoint is different .
He doesn’t specify . There is a big difference between PPM , allowances , gifts etc .
I am telling the truth . It is exploiting a young woman . Why would someone spend 2-5 hours for 300-500$ in sugar dating while someone can get that in just one hour of session ?
Everyone situation is different ! They do what makes them happy.
The persons who are paid 100+ per hours from
Their civvie jobs are doing different tasks then the supposed 20 something who you want to hang out for 300-500 per date . Plus most of them have a work schedule , specific hours of work hours , breaks etc . They have a clear idea about their paycheck .

I really hope it a platonic hang out at this rate .

I remember that there were a thread about sugar dating and some pointed out how some offers were laughable.
There is a big difference between a real SD and a John (client ) .

The assumptions you are making about people who choose to engage in sugar dating are incredibly judgemental. What the financial arrangements are between two consenting adults is for them to decide and no one else's business. You seem to really look down at other SWers who have set their own rates if the rates are lower than those you might set for yourself. It is sad to see and does way more harm that good for the industry as a whole.