Why did you stop seeing your regular

[pussyluver]

Been reading a few threads that got me thinking about some regulars I have seen over the years and why I stopped.

There have been a number of reasons... She retired, I met someone new, naturally drifted apart, felt under appreciated etc.

What causes you to move on from a regular?

 

[bazokajoe]

Pretty much the same reasons you stated.

 

[The "Bone" Ranger]

so far only two reasons, either she retired (75% in my case) and the other is she starts taking me for granted and the service goes downhill (this happened with one of my all time favourites)

 

[blueline]

I was becoming a regular with Chloe Croft until I moved out of the province several years ago. I look forward to my return and a very happy reunion with this cutie.

 

[Mr Deeds]

If I wanted to have sex with the same woman all the time Id still be married

 

[legmann]

In most cases, retirement; in one or two others, over-familiarity.

A lot of the ladies I've tended to see long-term are ones that had officially 'retired', but sometimes maintained a small handful of client(s) afterward. (I still see a long-retired Select SP three years after-the-fact, but relationships with others haven't always been as long lived.)

 

[AkaCasey]

Retired or they changed location

 

[rhuarc29]

Retired or no longer getting what made me a regular.

The latter can be due to a lot of reasons:
1) She started taking me for granted.
2) The novelty factor has worn off and there was less underneath that sheen than I thought.
3) She became burnt out.

It could also be I found someone(s) I'm more interested in at the moment. I never stay exclusive to one lady, though I may heavily favour one over a period of time. The reason I always see new ladies is both because I think the point of this hobby is variety, and to protect myself against the lady in question retiring or taking me for granted.

 

[TFZL1]

I’ve cut off two regulars, not only did service go downhill, over familiarity, but for taking advantage of my generosity.

 

[squeezer]

I’ve cut off two regulars, not only did service go downhill, over familiarity, but for taking advantage of my generosity.

This I find is the biggest problem with regulars and when one allows himself to fall into the trap of paying for social time it never ends well.

Many ladies won't admit this but really they look at most of us as ATM machines.

 

[Samranchoi]

Mostly due to the women leaving the business, never to return. Many times I have stayed exclusive with one women as I have never had a problem of the client/provider relationship becoming "stale" or "predictable". And I have never felt being taking advantage of. Having variety is not important to me especially when the one you are seeing is perfect in every way. My current Favorite is absolutely amazing. She treats me very good and I look forward to seeing her each week. Last week was the first time ever of introducing a toy into the session. I must say, it was the most enjoyable session I have ever had. It will be a sad day when she decides to move onto the next stage of her life. I know it is coming but I will always be grateful to her for the great times we have had together but sad gfor how much she will be missed.

 

[bebe]

She left the business. Shit happened in her real life and she had to go.

 

[Jasmine Raine]

This I find is the biggest problem with regulars and when one allows himself to fall into the trap of paying for social time it never ends well.

Many ladies won't admit this but really they look at most of us as ATM machines.

I would disagree with your assessment of all of our opinions on men, however, I will agree that when one allows herself to be taken for granted with men pushing for free time, it is time to them go. Even if they are regular cash.

 

[Robert Mugabe]

Last week was the first time ever of introducing a toy into the session. I must say, it was the most enjoyable session I have ever had. It will be a sad day when she decides to move onto the next stage of her life.

Entering dangerous water there. Just hope the next stage of her life doesn't mean she finds the toy more enjoyable than you.

 

[Robert Mugabe]

been seeing my regular for over a year now. I pointed that out to her last time and she said, "did you see me at my old place?" I guess the significance isn't etched as clearly in her mind.
quit seeing a couple because they kind of let themselves go. hygiene and aesthetic wise. Got kicked to the curb by my ATF before

 

[Samranchoi]

Entering dangerous water there. Just hope the next stage of her life doesn't mean she finds the toy more enjoyable than you.

Funny that you should mention that. I had asked a friend in the business what she thought about me buying a specific toy for my session with my favorite. I showed her a picture of it and her first reaction was that she thought it was beautiful and that she would really like it. She also gave me pointers on how to use it effectively. Her advice came in handy. I told my friend that I hope my favorite didn't like the toy more than me. Her first words were girls like "treats" and "toys" are just an "add on" and not a substitute for the real thing. And that is exactly how my favorite treated me during the session.

 

[pokergod]

so far only two reasons, either she retired (75% in my case) and the other is she starts taking me for granted and the service goes downhill (this happened with one of my all time favourites)

Service goes way downhill. 1st time was great, non stop sex and went overtime. 2nd time, was ok. 3rd time, rush rush rush. No forth time for me.

 

[godfazha]

When I used to do the spa circuit I would find an MPA that I liked and continue to see her. I often noticed a pattern that after the 3rd session or so, the service would go down hill. I would take a break from seeing her for about 2months and then return, the service and enthusiasm was top notch again. Sometimes it's good to take a temporary break fro a regular.

 

[Jasmine Raine]

Ok. I was playing a bit before but is this a serious issue. Service going downhill on repeat visist?

I never would have thought this would be a thing. I would think it would go the other way. I know all sessions seems to get better with time or at the very least stay the same. I don't take away services. I don't get that

When you guys say services, do mean that something like DFK just stops being available or is it just the enthusiasm that we are talking about?

 

[Robert Mugabe]

Funny that you should mention that. I had asked a friend in the business what she thought about me buying a specific toy for my session with my favorite. I showed her a picture of it and her first reaction was that she thought it was beautiful and that she would really like it. She also gave me pointers on how to use it effectively. Her advice came in handy. I told my friend that I hope my favorite didn't like the toy more than me. Her first words were girls like "treats" and "toys" are just an "add on" and not a substitute for the real thing. And that is exactly how my favorite treated me during the session.

glad to hear it. there was another thread on the subject somewhere. might have been perb, but there was anecdotal stuff about girls having a hard time breaking themselves of the habit once they got hooked on their favourite toys.