Women and masterbation

[a 1 player]

I was just thinking of a previous GF I had...

One day she asked me if I masterbate, and I told her that of course I do. She got really upset and asked how often I did it, so I told her. For the life of her, she could not figure out why someone would want to take matters into their own hands while in a relationship. I tried to explain but to no avail. It ended up causing a huge argument between us, and eventually our break up. She was certainly not repressed in the bedroom, so I can't figure this out for the life of me.

Any thoughts?

 

[stinkynuts]

She was upset because she thought she couldn't fulfill you sexually (completely), and thought of herself as a failure. It was almost as if you were cheating on her (looking at girls in porn).

Perhaps she was the rare woman who doesn't masturbate if she does have sex, but even most women in relationships do.

Seems like a pretty trivial thing to end a relationship over.

 

[luv4lust]

maybe she wanted to watch lol

i'd be pissed if my so didn't masturbate either with me or on me lol

 

[a 1 player]

Seems like a pretty trivial thing to end a relationship over.

Not at all, if one can't be trusted even while alone, or if one somehow feels this is cheating I want no part of it.

 

[tboy]

I was just thinking of a previous GF I had...

One day she asked me if I masterbate, and I told her that of course I do. She got really upset and asked how often I did it, so I told her. For the life of her, she could not figure out why someone would want to take matters into their own hands while in a relationship. I tried to explain but to no avail. It ended up causing a huge argument between us, and eventually our break up. She was certainly not repressed in the bedroom, so I can't figure this out for the life of me.

Any thoughts?

Yup, good riddance! She sounds extremely insecure......

 

[Miss Maya Blue]

i agree she sounds insecure, but maybe she equated you masterbating with you fantasizing about other women, (as some men do when they masterbate)

or you watching porn?? (which equates to looking at other women in a jealous lovers mind)

 

[21pro]

she equated you masterbating with you fantasizing about other women, or watching porn?? (which equates to looking at other women in a jealous lovers mind)

that's me. but, my wife don't mind. it's my way of justifying her spending time with her latin dance instructor in a motel room at this very moment.

 

[superman]

i know a few girls that dont masterbate, and a few guys that hardly masterbate

it varies on the person and culture

 

[Miss Maya Blue]

i dont generally masterbate often. 3 times a month is typical. but learned today that masterbating helps me think straight

i don't know bout you, but sometimes im in a tizzy cause my mind keeps creeping back to one thing

 

[Esco!]

Every time you masturbate God kills a kitten

 

[MuffinMuncher]

Every time you masturbate God kills a kitten

So please, flog the bishop and save a kitten.

 

[gibsomstreet]

To repeat, "masterbate" should be either standard spelling or an acceptable alternative within this environment

 

[jbar]

Every time you masturbate God kills a kitten

Why? Was that kitten masturbating too?

 

[james t kirk]

To repeat, "masterbate" should be either standard spelling or an acceptable alternative within this environment

I was thinking the same thing.

Perhaps we could take a poll to rename "Masturbate" to "Masterbate" in keeping with the spelling in this thread.

To the original poster.....

Next time just tell her that you have an enlarged prostate gland and that you need to ejaculate at least twice a day for your health. (This is the truth by the way - it's good for you.)

 

[Berlin]

She got really upset and asked how often I did it, so I told her.

She ain't alone.

Most of my LF's do not accept their SO's spanking monkeys and they consider themselves sexually open minded. LOL !


Never tell your GF/LF about your relationship with your one eye snake. NEVER.

 

[Mongrel4u]

Any thoughts?

Yeah... next time, you lie.

Dont tell them about stuff that is sex related if it doesnt/didnt involve them...most women cant handle it. They say they can, but they cant.

 

[red]

it sounds like he rubbed her the wrong way

 

[Mongrel4u]

I masterbate pretty much every night before bed. Sure I would prefer a guy to have sex with before bed every night, but then he will be there in the morning and well...... who needs that right! LOL

If you want I can tuck you in at night

 

[East York Melissa]

I would have no problem with my SO masterbating as I masterbate pretty much every night before bed to porn. I would get upset if he wouldn't let me watch once in a while though. KWI I love your slide show of hot hot men

 

[Mongrel4u]

Just helping the women of this board with some masterbation material. All in the love of self pleasure!!!



As long as you are gone before the morning......... you gotta deal, LOL.

woo hoo no charge right?