Let her do it..
lewd said:
What's your excuse for breaking up? And how do you make it less obvious that you were only there to score.
I usually try to let them break up with me...
If you begin calling less frequently, get busy a bit more and can't see her as often, "forget" a date or a holiday gift, eventually she will want to move on.
The key to success is to back off slowly, appologize for your mistakes, and continue to treat her well when you
do see her. This way, when the time comes, she thinks it's
her idea to break up. Remember to act all sad when she finallty mentions it and, if you play it right, you can go on being boink-buddies for a while (which is all you wanted anyway).
Of course, sometimes, this won't work and she'll cling on untill you cut her loose....but then you can blame her "clingyness" for the breakup. If you play
that right, you may be able to get
her to offer to keep it casual (so she can
prove to you that she isn't clingy); which is what you wanted in the first place.
It's a win-win proposition. In any relationship where one partner is more in love than the other, the less in-love member always has the tactical advantage.
It is, of course, much more complicated if you actually
care about hurting her feelings but then, if you
had cared, you never would have used her for sex...right?
Zog.
