This is my first - and likely only, at least in the short term - post here and I’m afraid I may come off sounding like a shill. That definitely isn’t the case. I’ve been ‘hobbying’ - I hate that term, it’s dismissive of both providers and us as clients, do you guys have something different/better you use up here? - off and on for about 15 years, more ‘seriously’ for the past 5-6. Up until this visit with Aeris (sobriquet recently changed to Katrinna Blue), all of my exploits have been in the US, scattered between boston and DC, a few on the west coast, but primarily in and around Manhattan. I’m happy to offer recommendations for anyone heading that way - especially in this post-FOSTA/SESTA world. But I felt compelled to leave a review of my date with Aeris, partially because we had such a spectactular time, but also because I’d seen comments specifically mentioning her lack of reviews. So lets rectify that situation.
I discovered Aeris via a hashtag, probably #ottawaescort or #ottawakink. Her web persona is definitely iconoclastic - the betty page curves and suicide girl tattoos vs posts about vegan cuisine and catmomming - but also felt immediately welcoming and even familiar. Those impressions were amplified when we met in person.
Before contacting her, I quickly did my research. Read the reviews I could find, watched her videos (sadly, it looks like most of those are casualties of the new legislatively reality), devoured as much of her twitter feed as possible, and felt positive that Aeris and I would have a good time together. I’ve always been appreciative of providers that are open and active on the web, in whatever form that may take, even more so now. Advertising or no, it can offer a glimpse of who you’re going to meet and often paint a better and/or more intriguing picture than reviews or photoshopped pics. But the one thing I always look for when searching for a provider - and I won’t see providers that don’t meet this standard - is a great smile. I’m amazed at how many providers will post countless pics without including a single one featuring an honest to goodness smile. Aeris had plenty of pics of her fabulous smile, framed by those rapturous eyes - not to mention the rest of her body - so I had to reach out.
Aeris was great at communication, before and after the session. Everything was done by email. She responded promptly and completely when she had the time, and made a point of letting me know when she wouldn’t be available or there might be a delay in her response. Professional and friendly - but also flirting and outright teasing once the formalities of screening were out of the way. Helpful as well - offering recs on parking and transit since I didn’t know the area, and helping me navigate some of the differences between how things work in CA vs the US.
Outcall and a number of different incall options were offered. Since I don’t know the area, didn’t have any neighborhood preference, and didn't know anyone to worry about seeing me, I told Aeris to choose her favorite incall spot. I was directed to a neighborhood outside of the city center. Nice. Upper middle class. Quiet but not desolate. Entirely inconspicuous. The apartment was in a modern high rise with floor to ceiling windows and views of the city. (Supposedly. I was too busy looking at Aeris all night to care about anything going on outside of our bubble, but the ambiance was nice.) All-around swanky set up - as nice, nicer really, than most of the incalls I’ve visited in some of the poshest parts of NYC.
I’m always nervous when I see a provider, doesn’t matter who they are, the service(s) they provide, even whether or not I’ve seen them before. That’s just me, not exactly a people person. Aeris was able to put me at ease almost right away. Before we’d even made it to the couch we were joking with each other, she seemed genuinely touched by my impromptu birthday gift, and had obviously spent time, thought, and energy preparing for our evening together. Of course, she looked incredible - if you’ve read this much of my ramblings, I’m sure you’ve at least seen one picture of this woman. She’s really quite stunning. Curves that are begging to be touched, wrapped in modern pinup chic. Eyes that you can’t look away from, just rich welcoming pools. A great laugh - one that she shares freely and isn’t afraid to use against herself.
She really is the full package.
We talked for hours. I’d booked a multi-hour stay, and we had a great time just talking, laughing, getting to know each other. Mental foreplay. I told her honestly at one point that if I’d left after just our conversation I would have left more than satisfied. She’s smart, funny, open about herself without sharing unnecessary or inappropriate details, inquisitive without being intrusive, actually listens to what you have to say, and actually thinks about her answers when posed with debate.
A large portion of our conversation was about sex, particularly kink and bdsm. Part of why I’d chosen to meet with Aeris was for her pro-somme services - I’m a top in my private life, but enjoy playing with dommes and switches professionally when I have the opportunity. In my experience, especially when it comes to pro kink sessions, the more your partner is interested in figuring out your kinks, experiences, fantasies, and limits, the better the actual session will be. Aeris was a sponge - drawing out every detail that I was willing and able to share, and pouring back into me with her thoughts, interests, and questions about how our play could possibly go. Aeris understands that kink is all about sharing, headspace, and consent and is eager to put in the work to make and share a great experience with her partner.
I could have happily talked to Aeris all night, and told her honestly that I needed help transitioning from the great time we were having to a more physical space - and she knew how to, exactly. Aeris encouraged me to get up, and lead me on a tour of the rest of the apartment. When we found ourselves in the large well appointed bathroom - shower is big enough for AT LEAST two, need to remember that for next time - she started to help me get undressed and encouraged me to take a shower, giving her time and space to get things ready for the rest of the evening.
From here, I’m not sure what to share. American review sites are all about the explicit details - many, if not most venues won’t accept reviews that aren’t blatant about acts performed, etc. Or it least that was the case, pre-FOSTA/SESTA. But in the little bit of skimming I did prior to my visit to Ottawa, I noticed that that doesn’t seem to be that case on lots of Canadian boards. Is it a legislative difference? Or due to the inherent/stereotypical politeness of Canadians, creating a culture where women are better respected and not treated as objects? Dunno.
Since this was a BDSM-centric session and it’s generally safer to talk about kink vs vanilla sex, I can share a few broad details. There was impact play a plenty, primarily spanking. Toy play. Some light humiliation. Slinky lingerie and fairly high heels (anyone into taller women or amazon/giantess fantasies, Aeris should be on your call list). Some rough body play. Ultimately, a wonderful time was had by all. (Understatement. Obviously.)
After play time, we talked, cuddled, and sadly became all too aware of the time. It had been hours and we’d gone over our time. I helped Aeris clean up, made sure I had my things, and lingered on that goodbye kiss.
Looking back now, my experience with Aeris was gamechanging. I’ve seen high end providers, I’ve done multi hour sessions, but this was the definitive girl friend experience. I’ve never had a session with a provider feel so much like a date, like getting to know another person that is willing to be open and present and vulnerable. Even providers that I’ve seen multiple times, that I’ve considered friends, I don’t know if I’ve ever felt as safe, seen, or respected with a provider as I did during that evening with Aeris. She’s become one of my all time favorites, the standard by which I’ll judge other experiences, and honestly, I’m not sure how whomever I see next will be able to compare.
Negatives or concerns? Absolutely none. If I was going to offer anything resembling criticism, it would be this : toys and music. Aeris could do with upping her toy game. She didn't have any canes or anything really thuddy for impact play. More importantly, she could do with investing in a good cordless high power vibe. She had the original hitachi on hand - it's a great tool but not really suited to the kind of roaming improvisational play that I like. And of course that's IMO - she had plenty of other items to tease torture and delight, but there's certain things that I like and consider standards. As for music, I'm a snob, and even something as basic as a portable Bluetooth speaker would've helped. But really, I'm reaching here, the evening, the company, the entire experience was impeccable.
The one thing I would've done differently personally is the parking. The location that Aeris recommended was absolutely fine, and I'd have no hesitation parking there again IF I knew our session was going to end before 10 or 11pm. Our date went well after midnight and I felt fairly conspicuous - a large part of that was due to my foreign plates, something that probably wouldn't be an issue for most of you.
So as long as you're cool - respectful of time limits and boundaries, comfortable being screened, the basics - I really wouldn't hesitate to recommend Aeris to anyone. We all have our types, but Aeris seems versatile enough for anyone who knows what they like but still has an open mind. She's practically the holy grail. Good, giving, and game for pretty much anything and just all around cool. I really can't imagine a better experience - except for whatever she and I manage to craft together next time.
And there will be a next time… we’re already in discussion for another multi hour date on my next visit to Canada. I can’t wait.
Have fun out there. Play safe.
PS. Sorry the US is fucking things up for all of us. Our bad.
I discovered Aeris via a hashtag, probably #ottawaescort or #ottawakink. Her web persona is definitely iconoclastic - the betty page curves and suicide girl tattoos vs posts about vegan cuisine and catmomming - but also felt immediately welcoming and even familiar. Those impressions were amplified when we met in person.
Before contacting her, I quickly did my research. Read the reviews I could find, watched her videos (sadly, it looks like most of those are casualties of the new legislatively reality), devoured as much of her twitter feed as possible, and felt positive that Aeris and I would have a good time together. I’ve always been appreciative of providers that are open and active on the web, in whatever form that may take, even more so now. Advertising or no, it can offer a glimpse of who you’re going to meet and often paint a better and/or more intriguing picture than reviews or photoshopped pics. But the one thing I always look for when searching for a provider - and I won’t see providers that don’t meet this standard - is a great smile. I’m amazed at how many providers will post countless pics without including a single one featuring an honest to goodness smile. Aeris had plenty of pics of her fabulous smile, framed by those rapturous eyes - not to mention the rest of her body - so I had to reach out.
Aeris was great at communication, before and after the session. Everything was done by email. She responded promptly and completely when she had the time, and made a point of letting me know when she wouldn’t be available or there might be a delay in her response. Professional and friendly - but also flirting and outright teasing once the formalities of screening were out of the way. Helpful as well - offering recs on parking and transit since I didn’t know the area, and helping me navigate some of the differences between how things work in CA vs the US.
Outcall and a number of different incall options were offered. Since I don’t know the area, didn’t have any neighborhood preference, and didn't know anyone to worry about seeing me, I told Aeris to choose her favorite incall spot. I was directed to a neighborhood outside of the city center. Nice. Upper middle class. Quiet but not desolate. Entirely inconspicuous. The apartment was in a modern high rise with floor to ceiling windows and views of the city. (Supposedly. I was too busy looking at Aeris all night to care about anything going on outside of our bubble, but the ambiance was nice.) All-around swanky set up - as nice, nicer really, than most of the incalls I’ve visited in some of the poshest parts of NYC.
I’m always nervous when I see a provider, doesn’t matter who they are, the service(s) they provide, even whether or not I’ve seen them before. That’s just me, not exactly a people person. Aeris was able to put me at ease almost right away. Before we’d even made it to the couch we were joking with each other, she seemed genuinely touched by my impromptu birthday gift, and had obviously spent time, thought, and energy preparing for our evening together. Of course, she looked incredible - if you’ve read this much of my ramblings, I’m sure you’ve at least seen one picture of this woman. She’s really quite stunning. Curves that are begging to be touched, wrapped in modern pinup chic. Eyes that you can’t look away from, just rich welcoming pools. A great laugh - one that she shares freely and isn’t afraid to use against herself.
She really is the full package.
We talked for hours. I’d booked a multi-hour stay, and we had a great time just talking, laughing, getting to know each other. Mental foreplay. I told her honestly at one point that if I’d left after just our conversation I would have left more than satisfied. She’s smart, funny, open about herself without sharing unnecessary or inappropriate details, inquisitive without being intrusive, actually listens to what you have to say, and actually thinks about her answers when posed with debate.
A large portion of our conversation was about sex, particularly kink and bdsm. Part of why I’d chosen to meet with Aeris was for her pro-somme services - I’m a top in my private life, but enjoy playing with dommes and switches professionally when I have the opportunity. In my experience, especially when it comes to pro kink sessions, the more your partner is interested in figuring out your kinks, experiences, fantasies, and limits, the better the actual session will be. Aeris was a sponge - drawing out every detail that I was willing and able to share, and pouring back into me with her thoughts, interests, and questions about how our play could possibly go. Aeris understands that kink is all about sharing, headspace, and consent and is eager to put in the work to make and share a great experience with her partner.
I could have happily talked to Aeris all night, and told her honestly that I needed help transitioning from the great time we were having to a more physical space - and she knew how to, exactly. Aeris encouraged me to get up, and lead me on a tour of the rest of the apartment. When we found ourselves in the large well appointed bathroom - shower is big enough for AT LEAST two, need to remember that for next time - she started to help me get undressed and encouraged me to take a shower, giving her time and space to get things ready for the rest of the evening.
From here, I’m not sure what to share. American review sites are all about the explicit details - many, if not most venues won’t accept reviews that aren’t blatant about acts performed, etc. Or it least that was the case, pre-FOSTA/SESTA. But in the little bit of skimming I did prior to my visit to Ottawa, I noticed that that doesn’t seem to be that case on lots of Canadian boards. Is it a legislative difference? Or due to the inherent/stereotypical politeness of Canadians, creating a culture where women are better respected and not treated as objects? Dunno.
Since this was a BDSM-centric session and it’s generally safer to talk about kink vs vanilla sex, I can share a few broad details. There was impact play a plenty, primarily spanking. Toy play. Some light humiliation. Slinky lingerie and fairly high heels (anyone into taller women or amazon/giantess fantasies, Aeris should be on your call list). Some rough body play. Ultimately, a wonderful time was had by all. (Understatement. Obviously.)
After play time, we talked, cuddled, and sadly became all too aware of the time. It had been hours and we’d gone over our time. I helped Aeris clean up, made sure I had my things, and lingered on that goodbye kiss.
Looking back now, my experience with Aeris was gamechanging. I’ve seen high end providers, I’ve done multi hour sessions, but this was the definitive girl friend experience. I’ve never had a session with a provider feel so much like a date, like getting to know another person that is willing to be open and present and vulnerable. Even providers that I’ve seen multiple times, that I’ve considered friends, I don’t know if I’ve ever felt as safe, seen, or respected with a provider as I did during that evening with Aeris. She’s become one of my all time favorites, the standard by which I’ll judge other experiences, and honestly, I’m not sure how whomever I see next will be able to compare.
Negatives or concerns? Absolutely none. If I was going to offer anything resembling criticism, it would be this : toys and music. Aeris could do with upping her toy game. She didn't have any canes or anything really thuddy for impact play. More importantly, she could do with investing in a good cordless high power vibe. She had the original hitachi on hand - it's a great tool but not really suited to the kind of roaming improvisational play that I like. And of course that's IMO - she had plenty of other items to tease torture and delight, but there's certain things that I like and consider standards. As for music, I'm a snob, and even something as basic as a portable Bluetooth speaker would've helped. But really, I'm reaching here, the evening, the company, the entire experience was impeccable.
The one thing I would've done differently personally is the parking. The location that Aeris recommended was absolutely fine, and I'd have no hesitation parking there again IF I knew our session was going to end before 10 or 11pm. Our date went well after midnight and I felt fairly conspicuous - a large part of that was due to my foreign plates, something that probably wouldn't be an issue for most of you.
So as long as you're cool - respectful of time limits and boundaries, comfortable being screened, the basics - I really wouldn't hesitate to recommend Aeris to anyone. We all have our types, but Aeris seems versatile enough for anyone who knows what they like but still has an open mind. She's practically the holy grail. Good, giving, and game for pretty much anything and just all around cool. I really can't imagine a better experience - except for whatever she and I manage to craft together next time.
And there will be a next time… we’re already in discussion for another multi hour date on my next visit to Canada. I can’t wait.
Have fun out there. Play safe.
PS. Sorry the US is fucking things up for all of us. Our bad.
