Gentlemen the tide is turning

[Plan B]

The women is this article are toxic, pure and simple.
From the article it states "Megan Matthews, a charming 29-year-old public relations professional who is invited on half a dozen dates a month by men who typically disappoint."

She is invited to 6 dates a month?!!! Man, when I was dating I was lucky to get 6 dates in a year, let alone a month..So if she goes on 72 dates a year (12*6), she can't find anybody worthwhile?

Another quote from the other women is “I can’t see myself ever dating a guy who wears golf shirts.”
Give me a fucking break....these women go through guys like paper plates...they are very lucky to be asked out so often..they are looking for perfection...and blame men when things don't go their way.
Other than for sex, I can't see any appeal in these Sex and the City women.

 

[Terminator2000]

The women is this article are toxic, pure and simple.
From the article it states "Megan Matthews, a charming 29-year-old public relations professional who is invited on half a dozen dates a month by men who typically disappoint."

She is invited to 6 dates a month?!!! Man, when I was dating I was lucky to get 6 dates in a year, let alone a month..So if she goes on 72 dates a year (12*6), she can't find anybody worthwhile?

Another quote from the other women is “I can’t see myself ever dating a guy who wears golf shirts.”
Give me a fucking break....these women go through guys like paper plates...they are very lucky to be asked out so often..they are looking for perfection...and blame men when things don't go their way.
Other than for sex, I can't see any appeal in these Sex and the City women.

something tells me - these women are misled by that very television series, "Sex and the City" where they're trying to actually actualize and live out the very same drama, privileges and lifestyles of the female main characters in Sex and the City.

upon further reflection....

the female main characters in Sex and the City are actually, female pick up artists or female "players" that don't plan to commit - but love living a very anti-monogamous lifestyle.

don't quote me on this. I'm not a Sex and the City watcher. but i don't recall any of the female main characters ever getting married on that show.

 

[djk]

It is nice to see an article like this one in the Star: http://www.thestar.com/living/article/842431--three-beguiling-women-talk-dating

All of a sudden women that are approaching 30, are finally realizing that their nonny isn't made of gold and because of their standards they are being left in the cold. I don't like to hear that Toronto men are self absorbed but lets face it - when you have a plethora of young pussy available, why would you put up with bullshit from someone who is getting long in the tooth?

I used to think that dating women under 25 would be too young for me. Once I hopped over that boundary, I find that there is a buffet of young, sexually available women who are willing to do all kinds of fun things that these older women turn their noses up at. It is a man's market in Toronto for sure. Come on, one girl in the article says she wouldn't date someone who wears golf shirts. Honey, Carrie Bradshaw sold you a false dream lock stock and barrel. While she is pining for mr right to come along, we are finding that we don't have to be chained down by women's unrealistic expectations anymore.

Bravo.

At work, there's easily 10 plus women that are realizing the very same thing, Dewalt. It's amusing to watch them, flopping around like a fish out of water.

It's beautiful to see and read about more men waking up and realizing you don't need to buy the cow when you're getting the milk for free. And God bless feminism. 50 years ago, we had to marry to get regular access to some skirt. Now women are competition with each other to behave as badly as they can and out-slut each other.

It truly is a player's world.

Now if we could only get young men to embrace education and career building.

 

[cute-bald]

6 years ago I did watch Sex In The City for a few months. It is well discussed on P.O.F. Yes, that show has most definately furthered the extreem fantasy of perfection & portrayed it as a minimal normal standard. I have come to realize at this point in time under current attitudes it is impossible for me to ever have a real date or any relationship.

 

[blackrock13]

6 years ago I did watch Sex In The City for a few months. It is well discussed on P.O.F. Yes, that show has most definately furthered the extreem fantasy of perfection & portrayed it as a minimal normal standard. I have come to realize at this point in time under current attitudes it is impossible for me to ever have a real date or any relationship.

Not with that attitude. You're defeated before you step into the batters box. There is somebody out there for everyone. I'm not sure I'd use SITC as some type of monograph on the modern dating scene and the same goes for POF or even TERB.

 

[capncrunch]

At work, there's easily 10 plus women that are realizing the very same thing, Dewalt. It's amusing to watch them, flopping around like a fish out of water... It truly is a player's world.

Bingo. This is what's known as the mentality of abundance. There's a plethora of young, attractive, available women that are ripe for the picking. It's actually always been like that, but only now is it coming more visible due to demographics.

Now if we could only get young men to embrace education and career building.

It's coming, my friend. As soon as these young men realize that there's plenty of pussy available, they will do exactly that: launch themselves full-tilt-boogie into education and careers. Women will be almost (but not quite) seen as icing on the cake. And that's good for everyone, because it stops objectifying women and allows everyone to get on with their career goals without having to worry about whether or not there's a partner.

Everybody wins. And that's how it should be.

 

[afterhours]

As soon as these young men realize that there's plenty of pussy available, they will do exactly that: launch themselves full-tilt-boogie into education and careers. Women will be almost (but not quite) seen as icing on the cake. And that's good for everyone

for everyone except old men

 

[wetnose]

It's coming, my friend. As soon as these young men realize that there's plenty of pussy available, they will do exactly that: launch themselves full-tilt-boogie into education and careers. Women will be almost (but not quite) seen as icing on the cake. And that's good for everyone, because it stops objectifying women and allows everyone to get on with their career goals without having to worry about whether or not there's a partner.

Actually it's not so easy because the guys can't even get into university - look at recent graduation rates and it's lopsided.

 

[canada-man]

nobody is stopping young men from attending university

 

[afterhours]

nobody is stopping young men from attending university

what if there is too much pressure on them to make money immediately? can it push them away from school?

 

[canada-man]

where are they going to get jobs to make money if they only have a high school diploma? i never heard any cases about young men pressured to make money immediately

 

[larry]

I was at Caribana this afternoon. Every awful looking fatso had a so. men had women. women had men. the unfuckable procreate. wildly. just not with you

 

[afterhours]

where are they going to get jobs to make money if they only have a high school diploma? i never heard any cases about young men pressured to make money immediately

it's kinda either make money and fuck or not make money and masturbate type of pressure

 

[afterhours]

Every awful looking fatso had a so. men had women. women had men. the unfuckable procreate. wildly.

+100

 

[djk]

It's coming, my friend. As soon as these young men realize that there's plenty of pussy available, they will do exactly that: launch themselves full-tilt-boogie into education and careers. Women will be almost (but not quite) seen as icing on the cake.

I'm not so sure. There's two really scary trends happening as of late.

More men and fewer women performing minimum wage jobs: http://contexts.org/socimages/2010/05/22/more-men-and-fewer-women-earning-poverty-wages-1979-2007/

Less men and more women obtaining degrees from universities: http://mjperry.blogspot.com/2010/04/update-on-increasing-college-degree-gap.html

And on a personal level, another trend I've noticed among the "more confused" men that I know is hooking up with girls that are clearly meant just for booty calls and instead, shacking up with them and dropping out of school to provide for them.

Men in their teens need to hit the books, get good degrees, get into great careers to position themselves. Once they're set, it'll be much easier to be a sexual hegemon.

 

[Dewalt]

I agree, I think that Sex in the city has done more to fill women's heads with unrealistic expectations than any other show over the past 30 yrs. When girls think they "can have it all just like Carrie" they forget that all of the women wind up single in the end.

 

[GotGusto]

In 10 years when these women are still single and 40 years old, their standards will plummet because they won't be asked for dates. They'll be willing to settle rather than live alone for the rest of their lives. If you're into older women, that's when you scoop them up. It'll be too easy.

 

[GotGusto]

I'm not so sure. There's two really scary trends happening as of late.

More men and fewer women performing minimum wage jobs: http://contexts.org/socimages/2010/05/22/more-men-and-fewer-women-earning-poverty-wages-1979-2007/

Less men and more women obtaining degrees from universities: http://mjperry.blogspot.com/2010/04/update-on-increasing-college-degree-gap.html

And on a personal level, another trend I've noticed among the "more confused" men that I know is hooking up with girls that are clearly meant just for booty calls and instead, shacking up with them and dropping out of school to provide for them.

Men in their teens need to hit the books, get good degrees, get into great careers to position themselves. Once they're set, it'll be much easier to be a sexual hegemon.

This trend might continue for awhile but eventually when Liberalism and Feminism come crashing down (the writing is on the wall) things will begin to re-orient themselves into the natural order of things.

A house built by women will not stand.

 

[Dewalt]

@Gusto: "In 10 years when these women are still single and 40 years old, their standards will plummet because they won't be asked for dates. They'll be willing to settle rather than live alone for the rest of their lives. If you're into older women, that's when you scoop them up. It'll be too easy. "

I know, it is like shooting fish in a barrel. However now that I am in my 40's I am not interested in those fish. I much prefer the 20-24yr old fish that give me way more fun and less headaches than some bitter woman who is dissappointed that her life didn't work out according to the dreams put in her head by TV. I work with lots of women in their late 30's and 40's and to hear them bitch makes you wonder why anyone would ever tap them.

 

[afterhours]

@Gusto: "In 10 years when these women are still single and 40 years old, their standards will plummet because they won't be asked for dates. They'll be willing to settle rather than live alone for the rest of their lives. If you're into older women, that's when you scoop them up. It'll be too easy. "

I know, it is like shooting fish in a barrel. However now that I am in my 40's I am not interested in those fish. I much prefer the 20-24yr old fish that give me way more fun and less headaches than some bitter woman who is dissappointed that her life didn't work out according to the dreams put in her head by TV. I work with lots of women in their late 30's and 40's and to hear them bitch makes you wonder why anyone would ever tap them.

+100
if you prefer old women it's like preferring small cars or small houses...you are lucky in some sense because this shit is way cheaper and easier to get than good stuff i.e. young women and big houses