wtf! i think i'm on a roll on Plentyoffish

[fuji]

When I was looking for a sugar baby on a dating site I set up my profile pics to be images of expensive designer handbags and women's watches.

I got tons of replies including from some that had never thought about doing it before (and seemed believable).

The downside is often the never before's would get cold feet. When you meet a girl who put herself out there as a sugarbabe she is much more likely to follow through.

It was time consuming but fun. Don't know if I would do it again. I wound up with a girl I kept about two years who got the sugarbabe idea from my profile.

A big advantage of the handbag pic is that my face isn't there for my wife's friends to find.

 

[fuji]

On talking sexual in online dating --

I wonder what other people do, it would be fascinating to be working for one of those companies and watch the messages going back and forth, see who gets a response, and what they said.

I basically NEVER talk about sex until there is a more real connection, in person, on the phone, and even then it's most like flirting. I will throw out a ton of compliments, how beautiful you are, how sexy your pics are (if they are posed as sexy) etc., but I mean, I figure everyone knows why they are there. Sex is assumed. You don't have to say it, or at least that's my thought.

I push to make connections through other channels as fast as possible, facebook, phone, skype, anything other than chat on the dating site, because I figure as long as you are on the dating site you are still part of the numbers game and there's a really high chance she just won't reply to your next message, each time you send one. It's only really when I can speak and chat voice, that I will start in on the sex topic, and only in a half joking way then, just to keep an edge going to make sure I don't wind up in "friend zone". The goal becomes to get out of the online comms and into a real world meeting, even if it's just coffee for 10 minutes.

 

[Anbarandy]

On talking sexual in online dating --

I wonder what other people do, it would be fascinating to be working for one of those companies and watch the messages going back and forth, see who gets a response, and what they said.

I basically NEVER talk about sex until there is a more real connection, in person, on the phone, and even then it's most like flirting. I will throw out a ton of compliments, how beautiful you are, how sexy your pics are (if they are posed as sexy) etc., but I mean, I figure everyone knows why they are there. Sex is assumed. You don't have to say it, or at least that's my thought.

I push to make connections through other channels as fast as possible, facebook, phone, skype, anything other than chat on the dating site, because I figure as long as you are on the dating site you are still part of the numbers game and there's a really high chance she just won't reply to your next message, each time you send one. It's only really when I can speak and chat voice, that I will start in on the sex topic, and only in a half joking way then, just to keep an edge going to make sure I don't wind up in "friend zone". The goal becomes to get out of the online comms and into a real world meeting, even if it's just coffee for 10 minutes.

I believe we are safe to assume that when you finally yet quite implausibly, get a gal to engage in flirty sexual banter you also begin to emphasize your prodiguous, prolific and awesome role on Terb with such sexual innuendos as:

1) Hey babe, your such a babe, babe you should check out my post #s 25,647 to 28,375 on Terb.....where I comment on the role of the SCOTUS as it relates interstate commerce of widgets.

2) Ya babe, I'm quite hot but let's both read together my post numbers #31,233 to 31,245 where I endlessly debate the timing of traffic signals at the intersection of Main & Fleet streets.

3) No babe, no I'm not married babe. I'm vigorously fondling myself thinking about you and how I can weasel out of paying my property tax.

4) So hows about we meet for a triple latte cappociuno at the Trendy Cafe babe? I'll be the undernourished, pasty guy with my Terb 'fuji' badge prominently dislayed on my lapel. What babe, you have to wash your hair? How about tomorrow then? Your doing your fingernails? Okay, can you call me later? What, your phone will be in the shop? Can you call me after that? Please, call me...please, please, please.....click.

 

[wangbang]

damn.. some women on POF are such nice eye candy.

Ohhh, my next sugarbaby.

 

[sexhungry]

Despite how much I would love to forget about SP's and have a real relationship again I am beginning to think that it is no longer realistic for me with my average looks.

I hear you man. I'm in the same boat. It seems like if you aren't tall, physically attractive, have a "charming" personality (whatever that means), or just plain filthy rich, you just won't stand a chance with any of the attractive and desirable girls.

 

[afterhours]

this was actually in a profile xD and she's from Brampton

reminded me how my friend referred to women from Brampton as being G.U.
according to him GU stands for "geographically undesirable" which regards to all women who live outside of Toronto proper

 

[Curious36]

I hear you man. I'm in the same boat. It seems like if you aren't tall, physically attractive, have a "charming" personality (whatever that means), or just plain filthy rich, you just won't stand a chance with any of the attractive and desirable girls.

Its a numbers game plain and simple. If you are half expecting women to chase you down (unless you are a rich dead-ringer for Brad Pitt) you WILL be disappointed. Send a simple sincere message to as many women as you find attractive/interesting. If you send 150 messages and get only one response well thats one person you werent conversing with earlier. Now you have a possible connection. I looked at it like a game when I was active on POF and it paid off very well. I am happily married now BUT I do miss the chase that POF afforded me. Wasnt the only site I was on, but had great fun none-the-less. Just be yourself, dont pretend to be someone whom you arent, be modest (yet confident), and speak to them like you care about them. Sex will come later if you do necessary steps. Look at it this way. Did you tell your prom date "listen we are going out, and I'm going to feed you booze and lessen your inhibitions. Then we are going to get in the back of my car and start making out. I will then attempt to touch your breasts and if you are receptive attempt to play with your pussy. If that works out I will have sex with you"? Of course not.....you played the game till you got the end result you were looking to recieve......
BTW im not tall, ok looks, not rich and dont drive a fancy car.......I just understood early on how the game is played.....

 

[wangbang]

I hear you man. I'm in the same boat. It seems like if you aren't tall, physically attractive, have a "charming" personality (whatever that means), or just plain filthy rich, you just won't stand a chance with any of the attractive and desirable girls.

I personally know three hot women who have been on POF for at least 10 years. Each has told me what they are looking and I would suggest they are basically fishing in a thimble. Their desires basically don't exist other than in fantasy land. Each of them has prolly received thousands of messages from guys who have no chance 'cuz the unicorn doesn't exist.

 

[LKD]

I personally know three hot women who have been on POF for at least 10 years. Each has told me what they are looking and I would suggest they are basically fishing in a thimble. Their desires basically don't exist other than in fantasy land. Each of them has prolly received thousands of messages from guys who have no chance 'cuz the unicorn doesn't exist.

I'd message them and go "wow! what are you still doing on here after 10 years

 

[wangbang]

I'd message them and go "wow! what are you still doing on here after 10 years

I know the three quite well. They all are amazed they can't find their unicorn.

 

[sexhungry]

Its a numbers game plain and simple. If you are half expecting women to chase you down (unless you are a rich dead-ringer for Brad Pitt) you WILL be disappointed. Send a simple sincere message to as many women as you find attractive/interesting. If you send 150 messages and get only one response well thats one person you werent conversing with earlier. Now you have a possible connection. I looked at it like a game when I was active on POF and it paid off very well. I am happily married now BUT I do miss the chase that POF afforded me. Wasnt the only site I was on, but had great fun none-the-less. Just be yourself, dont pretend to be someone whom you arent, be modest (yet confident), and speak to them like you care about them. Sex will come later if you do necessary steps. Look at it this way. Did you tell your prom date "listen we are going out, and I'm going to feed you booze and lessen your inhibitions. Then we are going to get in the back of my car and start making out. I will then attempt to touch your breasts and if you are receptive attempt to play with your pussy. If that works out I will have sex with you"? Of course not.....you played the game till you got the end result you were looking to recieve......
BTW im not tall, ok looks, not rich and dont drive a fancy car.......I just understood early on how the game is played.....

Easy for you to say when you're not 5'4" in height. This by itself is a tough barrier to overcome. Not to mention being the "wrong" ethnic/cultural background doesn't help either.

 

[wetnose]

I hear you man. I'm in the same boat. It seems like if you aren't tall, physically attractive, have a "charming" personality (whatever that means), or just plain filthy rich, you just won't stand a chance with any of the attractive and desirable girls.

Fishing in the wrong pool, my friend. Don't take it personally. Unfortunately there is a cultural preference toward height in North America. There was some study that reported that most women would prefer to date a tall criminal than a short CEO. That's the way things are.

Getting upset over it is like getting upset over the fact that the sky is blue. Move on.

If you bring flyfishing equipment to the Caribbean and expect to catch marlin, then don't expect results. I really suggest you visit another country (asia is a good start) where you'll be better appreciated.

 

[Terminator2000]

I know the three quite well. They all are amazed they can't find their Moby Dick.

*fixed it for you

 

[wangbang]

*fixed it for you

Hehe, that's good.

 

[Terminator2000]

Hehe, that's good.

lol but i actually really meant the fictional whale. The pun reference to penis was completely unintentional. i swear. (and for you female pervs on terb...im not making a reference to whale penis either. sheeeeeesh.)

 

[wangbang]

lol but i actually really meant the fictional whale. The pun reference to penis was completely unintentional. i swear.

I knew what you meant but I couldn't miss the pun either.

 

[realthing69]

Tineye...not only a great tool for backpage BS/fakes but for POF!

 

[GameBoy27]

Fishing in the wrong pool, my friend. Don't take it personally. Unfortunately there is a cultural preference toward height in North America. There was some study that reported that most women would prefer to date a tall criminal than a short CEO. That's the way things are.

Are you saying women are shallow?

 

[jetfuel]

I personally know three hot women who have been on POF for at least 10 years. Each has told me what they are looking and I would suggest they are basically fishing in a thimble. Their desires basically don't exist other than in fantasy land. Each of them has prolly received thousands of messages from guys who have no chance 'cuz the unicorn doesn't exist.

So what exactly are they looking for?

C'mon man expose them so we can troll them. Women in this city are crazy and over-value themselves.

 

[night ride]

POF is a numbers game. If you are articulate like many people on terb, then your odds go up. If you can cut and paste initial approaches, you can work a lot of potential dates.