Two small points:
1) The discussion was based on condoms vaginal, and BBBJ so why tell us about the low risk for bacterial transfer with condoms?
I was making the point that you are generally at low risk for bacteria/gonorrhea acquired via oral route if you use condoms consistently for vaginal intercourse. There is still the possibility of acquiring genital gonorrhea via pharyngitis (due to colonization with
N. gonorrhea), but condoms offer fairly good protection for these infections. Moreover, most SP's do STI testing which would catch such infections. So as long as you aren't talking about street-walkers who don't access medical care, the risk is fairly low given the behavior.
Chances of getting HIV are very low for condoms with vaginal intercourse.
Risk of herpes (HSV1/HSV2) is significant. If one partner is asymptotically shedding herpes, the risk is quite high. It is even higher with active outbreak. A single encounter has significant risk if there is shedding. Condoms offer incomplete protection. Also, due to high number of partners, most SPs are infected with HSV1/HSV2.
Risk of HPV (which can cause genital warts and cervical cancer) is significant given that condoms offer almost no protection because HPV is transmitted by skin-to-skin and doesn't necessarily require mucosa (e.g. vaginal tissue, foreskin, glans of penis, etc.). You often diagnose it in these areas though. People always say they have never had a sexually-transmitted infection. In fact, HPV infections are very common, they clear up pretty quickly, and they generally cause no disease (no warts, no symptoms). Sometimes, however, if infected with the right strain, it
may cause disease. If your partner has warts (which can be concealed inside the vagina) the transmission risk is much higher (as high as 50% from a single encounter.
Syphilis is possible, but generally the background rates are very low within Canada (except for gay men).
There are other infections we haven't discussed like trichomoniasis, shigella, etc. I have also seen strep throat (which is caused by bacteria
S. pyogenes) on the penis, so there are a number of other possibilities that STD Risk Calculator is not addressing.