OK, can I tell a quick story? Some people get annoyed with my stories...do you mind? OK, f***it, here goes.
I was about 21 or so and coming off breakup. A friend sets me up with her cousin and we end up at the town make-out spot (the same place I'd taking my ex many times to do the deed in the back seat). My date is all over me, kissing furiously. She says she wants it now. Me, thinking my last relationship started with sex before courting and that contributed to the failure of the relationship, try to dissuade her. She's pressing and I joke "No, you won't respect me in the morning." She says in my ear "I already don't respect you."
I stuck to my guns and didn't give in. She would not return my calls.
Ahhh, sweet regrets.