First I am not married.
But I cannot believe some of the responses in this thread. Don't vows mean anything to anyone anymore?
I have no problem whatsoever with an open relationship as long as both parties are agreeable to that type of relationship. But to start engaging in such an activity without the others knowledge is just wrong. And it isn't a question of morals. It is one of how you are treating someone you are supposed to love.
Then there is the problems of participating in the hobby. First there is the financial aspect. Then there is at least a chance you can bring a disease home the the one you are supposed to love. And now there is a chance of arrest.
If you want to screw around then fine. But either do it with the knowledge of your spouse or just don't be married.
But I cannot believe some of the responses in this thread. Don't vows mean anything to anyone anymore?
I have no problem whatsoever with an open relationship as long as both parties are agreeable to that type of relationship. But to start engaging in such an activity without the others knowledge is just wrong. And it isn't a question of morals. It is one of how you are treating someone you are supposed to love.
Then there is the problems of participating in the hobby. First there is the financial aspect. Then there is at least a chance you can bring a disease home the the one you are supposed to love. And now there is a chance of arrest.
If you want to screw around then fine. But either do it with the knowledge of your spouse or just don't be married.