Travelling with SPs

[fisherm]

I'm sure this has been discussed before, but I couldn't find a decent thread with pros and cons. I travel a lot (mostly NYC) and have often thought it would be nice to have a gorgeous lady accompany me to some of the nice restaurants, theatre, events, etc. which I sometimes go to and often alone. And of course nocturnal activities in the bedroom . I would be busy for most of the day, so they would be free to explore the city, shop, etc.

I know many high-end SPs advertise exorbitant rates for travel, which personally I can't justify, but I would be willing to pay for airfare and expenses like restaurants and of course the hotel would be included so there would be no real out of pocket expenses for the SPs.

I've asked some SPs if they would be interested in this kind of arrangement and some were agreeable. I would only consider SPs I've seen to minimize compatibility issues and discretion would be a must. So, any experiences and advice from others here travelling with SPs? Am I inviting disaster?

 

[ogibowt]

I'm sure this has been discussed before, but I couldn't find a decent thread with pros and cons. I travel a lot (mostly NYC) and have often thought it would be nice to have a gorgeous lady accompany me to some of the nice restaurants, theatre, events, etc. which I sometimes go to and often alone. And of course nocturnal activities in the bedroom . I would be busy for most of the day, so they would be free to explore the city, shop, etc.

I know many high-end SPs advertise exorbitant rates for travel, which personally I can't justify, but I would be willing to pay for airfare and expenses like restaurants and of course the hotel would be included so there would be no real out of pocket expenses for the SPs.

I've asked some SPs if they would be interested in this kind of arrangement and some were agreeable. I would only consider SPs I've seen to minimize compatibility issues and discretion would be a must. So, any experiences and advice from others here travelling with SPs? Am I inviting disaster?

they want to be paid for their time...covering expenses only, doesnt cut it....they want to make a profit, but presumably you and SP will have an on going relationship

 

[kkelso]

I've asked some SPs if they would be interested in this kind of arrangement and some were agreeable. I would only consider SPs I've seen to minimize compatibility issues and discretion would be a must. So, any experiences and advice from others here travelling with SPs? Am I inviting disaster?

What you describe is the only way I've made it work, I pay for airfare + hotel + meals + time spent together. With a big city like NYC or SF the ladies generally like to get there periodically anyway and if they can have someone else fund it then all the better. A variation on the arrangement is to let them travel with a friend so they have someone to hang out with while I am otherwise engaged.

If an SP genuinely get along with you this can be great fun. If not she starts quoting her "travel rate" and it all goes downhill from there.

Good luck - KK

 

[MissCroft]

they want to be paid for their time...covering expenses only, doesnt cut it....

This is a tough one. It is nice to have an all expenses paid trip with airfare and everything covered. But I think a small amount of daily compensation is nice for the time that she is away from home and thus not making any money and possibly turning away other bookings.

 

[kkelso]

This is a tough one. It is nice to have an all expenses paid trip with airfare and everything covered. But I think a small amount of daily compensation is nice for the time that she is away from home and thus not making any money and possibly turning away other bookings.

Agreed - opportunity costs are a factor for any lady. For me a typical two-overnight trip might include 6-8 hours of paid time, which seems to work. I've had some SPs though quote me 24-48 times their hourly for a weekend. Pity.

KK

 

[justfor]

This is a tough one. It is nice to have an all expenses paid trip with airfare and everything covered. But I think a small amount of daily compensation is nice for the time that she is away from home and thus not making any money and possibly turning away other bookings.

This is just fair - to pay her a reasonable amount of compensation daily. Due to other expenses like airfare, hotel, restaurant food and likely shopping gifts, she may not charge you her regular daily rate, but it is still justified for her to ask for a reasonable fee a day. And of course, it is highly advisable to spend an extended period like a sleepover with her first to see if you are compatible with each other before venturing out on a trip like that. This is based on personal experience.

 

[nobody123]

If you just want companionship, book a ticket for me and cover my food and lodgings. I'm great fun at social or company gatherings, and have many clever anecdotes to share. I will not look pretty on your arm, but you will earn a great deal of respect for bringing me as your date. Or puzzlement. Or something. At the very least, there's a good chance I could take anyone that says anything untoward in a fair fight.

However, if you expect me to touch your penis at any time during our trip, that's gonna cost you extra.

 

[theycallmebruce]

You should consider seekingarrangements.com better option

 

[oral.com]

You should consider seekingarrangements.com better option

+1

Sugar Baby relationship sounds perfectly suited to what you need. It just takes a little time and effort to find one you like.

 

[syours]

I travelled once with SP from Toronto for 2/3 nights to USA - warmer places.....plane+food+lodging+daily allowance. Bought her nice dresses+gifts...

It was costly at least got to do the DEED once in a lifetime.

 

[Born2Star]

I never did that but there was once that me and my fave MPA almost made it.

I'd advise that one has to be completely comfortable with each other before to do this. Payment for time should be discussed and confirmed. Also you should be in some way familiar with the lady's shopping preference. It's not about being cheap here but the range of luxury merchandise can indeed be broad.

Other than that one should book a separate room for the the lady, like the rooms with door in between.

 

[oil&gas]

Being a MP-only hobbyist hiring a SP to spend a naughty vacation is
a luxury beyond my dreams. The cost of this kind of arrangement make me
wonder about the kind of money clients spend on accomodation and flights.
Certainly no SPs want to check in a shabby hotel in NYC. Do they demand
hotels no less than 3 stars in the agreed arrangement? And do they mind
flying economy class? I imagine travelling in a cozy environment with
the SP should be essential if she was to put up with all my hanky panky
action. In that case flying 1st class seems to be a must.

 

[Chloë.]

Being a MP-only hobbyist hiring a SP to spend a naughty vacation is
a luxury beyond my dreams. The cost of this kind of arrangement make me
wonder about the kind of money clients spend on accomodation and flights.
Certainly no SPs want to check in a shabby hotel in NYC. Do they demand
hotels no less than 3 stars in the agreed arrangement? And do they mind
flying economy class? I imagine travelling in a cozy environment with
the SP should be essential if she was to put up with all my hanky panky
action. In that case flying 1st class seems to be a must.

If it's a flight longer than 5-6 hours, I personally request a minimum business class.
They either oblige or upgrade my seat to first. But that's just me.
If I'm flying 6+ hours to see someone, I reeeeeally don't want to endure a cramped seat.

Economy is fine if the flight is 4 hours or less, so most places in North/South America. Always direct. That's a quick nap and a movie.

It's when we are talking about Europe or UAE, that I'm a bit more preferential to comfort.

I don't demand a certain calibre of hotel but considering the fees that a gentleman is paying for my time, it usually comes with the territory.

 

[fisherm]

I've done this a few different ways. My suggestion would be to spend as much time with the SP as possible beforehand. One or two 1-hr "dates" isn't enough time to determine compatibility, IMO. When done right, with a good match, an all-around good time can be had.

Agreed - opportunity costs are a factor for any lady. For me a typical two-overnight trip might include 6-8 hours of paid time, which seems to work. I've had some SPs though quote me 24-48 times their hourly for a weekend. Pity.

KK

If you just want companionship, book a ticket for me and cover my food and lodgings. I'm great fun at social or company gatherings, and have many clever anecdotes to share. I will not look pretty on your arm, but you will earn a great deal of respect for bringing me as your date. Or puzzlement. Or something. At the very least, there's a good chance I could take anyone that says anything untoward in a fair fight.

However, if you expect me to touch your penis at any time during our trip, that's gonna cost you extra.

Thanks for all the good advice. Lots of positive experiences and sounds like you need to ensure you know your SP well and should budget for a per diem. And sorry nobody123, not sure if I can afford you and no penis contact would be a deal breaker :hand:. Also not interested in a sugar baby/daddy type relationship - sounds too time consuming and long term for my liking.

How about any negative experiences? I'm still a bit worried this may expose too much personal information (I'd like to keep that discrete) and what if we don't get along for whatever reason? ... The trip would only be 2-3 nights, but I can see things going downhill quickly.

 

[Titalian]

I'm still a bit worried this may expose too much personal information (I'd like to keep that discrete) and what if we don't get along for whatever reason? ... The trip would only be 2-3 nights, but I can see things going downhill quickly.

How do you expect to book these type of arrangements, if you don't share personal information?

 

[fisherm]

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How do you expect to book these type of arrangements, if you don't share personal information?

The way I've planned it so far, and I'll admit I probably haven't thought of all the angles, is to give her airfare and cab money next time I see her and tell her what hotel to meet me at. And I'll make sure I'm around to greet her when she arrives. This way she books her own transportation concealing her identity and mine. If she happens to book the same flight, all the better, I may be able to join the mile high club and cross that off the bucket list (although it would have to be a quickie since the flight to NYC is rather short)

 

[kkelso]

How about any negative experiences? I'm still a bit worried this may expose too much personal information (I'd like to keep that discrete) and what if we don't get along for whatever reason? ... The trip would only be 2-3 nights, but I can see things going downhill quickly.

I have only ever had two bad experiences out of a few dozen trips:

- A lady that I had been seeing regularly for nearly two years landed at the destination, jumped into bed with me, and in the course of natural events shared with me that she had decided to modify her service offering, downward. Now it is always a lady's prerogative to change the services she offers, but not without warning after airline tickets and hotel reservations have been expended. I never called on her again.

- Another lady that I had seen frequently for perhaps less than a year arrived at the destination and saw me the first night as scheduled. During our second scheduled evening she casually disclosed to me that she had picked up and had sex with another man in the hotel room that I had paid for her to stay in. Certainly her time off is her own, but this seemed....bizarre. She was genuinely puzzled that I was upset. I never called on her again either.


So, I always tell those two stories to anyone I propose to travel with. Aside from those two I have had some great little vacations with my SP friends.

KK

 

[Master Baiter]

I took my fav SP to Hawaii several years ago for her retirement from the scene. I paid for airfare, hotel, meals and entertainment and the odd gifts. It wasn't cheap but dang it was worth every penny. I knew her well enough that I knew she wouldn't stand me up at the airport. I'd recommend that if you plan on taking an SP on a trip, take someone you've seen and become a regular with. I wouldn't take an SP I've only seen a couple times.

 

[onthebottom]

I'm sure this has been discussed before, but I couldn't find a decent thread with pros and cons. I travel a lot (mostly NYC) and have often thought it would be nice to have a gorgeous lady accompany me to some of the nice restaurants, theatre, events, etc. which I sometimes go to and often alone. And of course nocturnal activities in the bedroom . I would be busy for most of the day, so they would be free to explore the city, shop, etc.

I know many high-end SPs advertise exorbitant rates for travel, which personally I can't justify, but I would be willing to pay for airfare and expenses like restaurants and of course the hotel would be included so there would be no real out of pocket expenses for the SPs.

I've asked some SPs if they would be interested in this kind of arrangement and some were agreeable. I would only consider SPs I've seen to minimize compatibility issues and discretion would be a must. So, any experiences and advice from others here travelling with SPs? Am I inviting disaster?

Try this....

https://www.seekingarrangement.com

 

[Rono]

I tried this several years ago and it did not work out the way I wanted. It was a weekend in NYC and we agreed upon compensation. First night was fine and we had a lot of fun. Great restaurant, hit a club, and great sex. Next day we went out to see the City and she drove me nuts with requests to buy her stuff. Sunglasses ($200), boots ($400.00), clothes, etc... non stop. She didn't hide the fact that she loved NYC and wanted to find a guy there who would pay for her to visit. She was making eye contact with this particular sucker and then chatted with him while I was getting us $25.00 drinks at the bar. During our day out on Saturday I got to know her personality very well. By the end of the day I was thinking of sending her home on an early flight. I had no interest in sex with her anymore (still got a quick bj though) and that night just watched a movie in the room and went to sleep. Couldn't wait for it to end.
I had a few visits with her prior to the trip and thought we were compatible enough to spend a weekend together.