Seeking arrangements

[desert monk]

Has anyone used this website? What was your experience? I signed up recently. It basically has all the women from my area who I would like to be dating, but I can't find them/access them otherwise. Are these sugar babies mostly scammers? I read somewhere that they tend to string you along and not provide sex. I remember reading threads about this in the past, but couldn't find them. The skeptic in me is worried this would turn into a glorified version of seeing an SP, where I pay 4X the money and have to use "game" to actually get to the sex part, which would be a waste of time obviously. Edit: I have noticed many women on SA who are also on dating sites like PlentyOfFish. What is also a little weird is, many of these women are not attractive at all. It seems like this is the new way to date online?

 

[Happyhomer]

I have not used that website but the sugar daddies site. There are a ton of scammers. It was a good way to meet some like-minded ladies. I ended up in a normal civilian relationship with one and saw another for a couple of months. Good overall experience but you need to be able differentiate between the ladies and agree on what is expected.

 

[Tony2000]

I have not used that website but the sugar daddies site. There are a ton of scammers. It was a good way to meet some like-minded ladies. I ended up in a normal civilian relationship with one and saw another for a couple of months. Good overall experience but you need to be able differentiate between the ladies and agree on what is expected.

Previously, there was a lengthy thread on TERB about the SA site with the experiences of 20-30 different members. However, in their dubious wisdom, the TERB moderators decided that sugar babies were not an appropriate topic and deleted the thread (huh?). SA is a mixed bag of real students, scammers and flakes. You have to put a lot of time in to contact many women in order to find one. Sometimes you hit gold. I saw one student for more than a year and both of us had a fabulous time.

 

[yababy1]

Previously, there was a lengthy thread on TERB about the SA site with the experiences of 20-30 different members. However, in their dubious wisdom, the TERB moderators decided that sugar babies were not an appropriate topic and deleted the thread (huh?). SA is a mixed bag of real students, scammers and flakes. You have to put a lot of time in to contact many women in order to find one. Sometimes you hit gold. I saw one student for more than a year and both of us had a fabulous time.

Agreed, I have used SA numerous times but dont be fooled. Fake pics, bots, SP's etc are common. That said, there are some really cute girls who are genuine. Watch for single pic profiles, ones that look TGTBT, ones from way out of your postal code, ones who joined a day or two before they favorite you. NEVER send money before meeting, NEVER pay them for an initial meet and greet, keep your personal info to yourself until you are sure of a good fit. Take your time, meet for coffee first, you can find a good one

 

[IMBob]

Not the best time to $ign up to SeekingArr. It's @ $100/month CAD . Not many new ladies are signing up . More indicate platonic or online until pandemic is over. Black Friday promo just ended - 25% off. There have been Valentine's day promos in the past . Don't know about boxing day. The problem with the competitor, sugardaddie site - women have to pay to be members/ read and reply to messages.

 

[scouser1]

A very interesting topic, so what the majority is saying here is that there are good outcomes of this venture but it is so far and few and overall not worth it? I was thinking of trying to find an 18 to 23 year old college/university type just to hang out with once or twice a week for some fun, but I guess sticking to SP's would be better.

 

[IMBob]

I was mugged , on my way to a date via Seeking Arrangement . It happened a few years ago @ 4:30 pm , a summer afternoon, in NorthWest Brampton . 3 punks ; Tackled and another swinging a golf club. Minor scrapes and a lighter wallet. Surprisingly the first time being mugged in my life. A learning experience. But , most annoying - Seeking Arrangement wouldn't even take that profile down or a subsequent copy.

 

[IMBob]

I have never paid $400 per meet for intimacy.

 

[Leslielake]

Be very, very careful. Never transfer money online. Never. Not even a dollar. And it is very time consuming. A big headache if you sign up. And use a fake number and name.

 

[chodge]

I have never paid $400 per meet for intimacy.

All these ladies want is the $$ on SA

 

[desert monk]

I have not used that website but the sugar daddies site. There are a ton of scammers. It was a good way to meet some like-minded ladies. I ended up in a normal civilian relationship with one and saw another for a couple of months. Good overall experience but you need to be able differentiate between the ladies and agree on what is expected.

What exactly do you mean by "normal civilian relationship"? I am basically looking for a civilian girlfriend, but cannot find/otherwise get one the "normal" way at this time. The way many of these women talk, they say they want a boyfriend who has disposable income and generous, which I can provide and would be okay with. However, from what I reading ITT, I am not very hopeful.

 

[Leimonis]

All these ladies want is the $$ on SA

Oh really? That’s disappointing! I thought they actually want to suck old peoples dicks for fun. Especially in pandemic times.

 

[superstar_88]

What exactly do you mean by "normal civilian relationship"? I am basically looking for a civilian girlfriend, but cannot find/otherwise get one the "normal" way at this time. The way many of these women talk, they say they want a boyfriend who has disposable income and generous, which I can provide and would be okay with. However, from what I reading ITT, I am not very hopeful.

boyfriend is code for sugardaddy. It's not your dick they want to suck dry but rather your wallet.

 

[desert monk]

boyfriend is code for sugardaddy. It's not your dick they want to suck dry but rather your wallet.

Sounds like a waste of time and money.

 

[Tony2000]

Lots of negative comments here. However, I have found that the connection with a successful SA match is far better than an SP. If you are just looking for sex, then an SP will be much less work and time invested. But a great connection with an SA girl can be fabulous.

 

[Tony2000]

An SB can deliver great value. Pre-covid, I took my SB to Niagara for an overnight. In 24 hours, we had three rounds of bedroom fun, went for dinner at a winery, hit the casino and walked along the falls. All for $400.
Try that with an SP and you would be looking at $2,000 or more. Plus I knew my SB quite well by then and was confident that we would have a great time for the full 24 hours, not just the sex (which was amazing). With an SP, you don't know if you will enjoy their company for 24 hours.

 

[Coolsin000]

Has anyone used this website? What was your experience? I signed up recently. It basically has all the women from my area who I would like to be dating, but I can't find them/access them otherwise. Are these sugar babies mostly scammers? I read somewhere that they tend to string you along and not provide sex. I remember reading threads about this in the past, but couldn't find them. The skeptic in me is worried this would turn into a glorified version of seeing an SP, where I pay 4X the money and have to use "game" to actually get to the sex part, which would be a waste of time obviously. Edit: I have noticed many women on SA who are also on dating sites like PlentyOfFish. What is also a little weird is, many of these women are not attractive at all. It seems like this is the new way to date online?

I have never got into SA but I found this forum at TERB.CC. I hope it helps you out - https://terb.cc/xenforo/threads/seeking-arrangement-my-advice.664659/

As for SB, I always wanted to get into but now that we are in COVID-19 situation it's kind of hard to meet up with people. It will be interesting to see, what's your experience.

 

[Leslielake]

The sugar bowl is very scary when you first enter it. I would be highly guarded. There are a number of girls in the suburbs that have less restrictions due to covid. A simple coffee or lunch is the best way to meet.

If it is just sex you want. Stick with an sp. A sb also needs to be attracted to you to get the best roi. Best to start with a ppm. Don't do an allowance ever right away. The going allowance expectations are 2k or more a month.

There are alot of smart non entitled girls on there. It just takes some time.

What’s the best way to message people on SA? How do you start the convo and keep it going? You seem quite experienced in this.

I tend to be straight to point which scares off a lot of people. Just don’t wanna text non-stop which takes a lot of time.

 

[Tony2000]

What’s the best way to message people on SA? How do you start the convo and keep it going? You seem quite experienced in this.

I tend to be straight to point which scares off a lot of people. Just don’t wanna text non-stop which takes a lot of time.

Show a bit of interest in them as a person - don't propose sex right away. Engage in a conversation (four or five messages) and then ask to meet for a coffee .... just a coffee not sex. If they won't meet for coffee I would move on to the next one.

Yes, it's a bit time-consuming. That's why it's best to stick with one SB if you find one that you connect with.

If you are just looking for one night of sex you are better off going with an SP.

 

[jsanchez]

Show a bit of interest in them as a person - don't propose sex right away. Engage in a conversation (four or five messages) and then ask to meet for a coffee .... just a coffee not sex. If they won't meet for coffee I would move on to the next one.

Yes, it's a bit time-consuming. That's why it's best to stick with one SB if you find one that you connect with.

If you are just looking for one night of sex you are better off going with an SP.

Time consuming with one guarantee, lotsa fakes and bots, the conversations stopped the moment I asked for a meet-up.