It does infuriate where you feel you can't be a decent human being without worrying it will backfire. Unfortunately there are people who seem to seek out victimhood. Once had a lady file a complaint against a co worker because she could tell by how he rested his hand on his knee that he was hitting on her. (He never said anything, nor touched her, nor looked at her or anything else). Unfortunately I had to take this report seriously- from a lady whom to me had serious psychological issues as she saw things that the other ladies in the unit said were crazy...and even these women wanted to be away from her.