Sugar Dating Experience

[IMBob]

Another scam . This one via Whats Your Price profile states 40 - east asian - Mississauga . Profile since deleted

Sorry I don't accept cash because I have enough I only accept Apple pay gift cash has my mode of payment because I change it to crypto so if you want us to meet get me Apple pay gift card Scratch it take the pictures front and back and send it to me on where with you address and about the compensation amount we talk about it when we meet

On Tuesday, November 5, 2024, xxxxx wrote:

I'll pay cash in person. Do you have a compensation amount in mind ?


On Monday, November 4, 2024 at 10:28:29 p.m. EST, Juana wrote:xxxx





Yes I can host and we can meet tomorrow but before coming to my place you need to fix and pay me in advance through Apple pay gift card

 

[IMBob]

Scam
Gee , I'm an idiot
. Rebecca on Seeking 37 5' 6 athletic. one child Brampton .

Many messages over 4 days. Some have a Chat GPT generated tone. i got lazy . I usually do Google image searches on all images . I did on a few - no hits . So the story goes , She is a hairdresser , currently unemployed, she quit - boss was hitting on her. Couldn't call because her pre pay phone, needed topping up , so I offered $50 .... Then for the meet , she needed gas ... I offered $20 interac . she requested $50 . Then her car wouldn't start . ( It was cold overnight) Saturday . Her Mom calls a mechanic . She got hit with a double whammy . her car needs both a new battery and an alternator .... and a request for money $

This is her https://www.idcrawl.com/jessica-amaral.
https://twitter.com/jessica74465171. Jessica Amaral

https://www.instagram.com/rosinahilto_/?locale=zh_CN&hl=cs


Prominent $ tat on partial sleeve . Not much point in getting her flagged on Seeking . In my experience, nothing is done.

 

[shack]

Scam
Gee , I'm an idiot
. Rebecca on Seeking 37 5' 6 athletic. one child Brampton .

Many messages over 4 days. Some have a Chat GPT generated tone. i got lazy . I usually do Google image searches on all images . I did on a few - no hits . So the story goes , She is a hairdresser , currently unemployed, she quit - boss was hitting on her. Couldn't call because her pre pay phone, needed topping up , so I offered $50 .... Then for the meet , she needed gas ... I offered $20 interac . she requested $50 . Then her car wouldn't start . ( It was cold overnight) Saturday . Her Mom calls a mechanic . She got hit with a double whammy . her car needs both a new battery and an alternator .... and a request for money $

This is her https://www.idcrawl.com/jessica-amaral.
https://twitter.com/jessica74465171. Jessica Amaral

https://www.instagram.com/rosinahilto_/?locale=zh_CN&hl=cs


Prominent $ tat on partial sleeve . Not much point in getting her flagged on Seeking . In my experience, nothing is done.

Don't waste your time, bud.

 

[Patron]

Hopefully Terb includes the existence of these Seeking Arrangement threads into the price it charges to escorts and agencies for advertising.

This thread is the best advertising a reviewed escort could dream of.

Do you guys really enjoy all the nonsense that goes into this “game”? Is it worth it?

Most of the comparisons that Seeking enthusiasts make are between the lowest-end hookers and Seeking ladies.

Many Toronto independents do offer multi-hour packages if dinner and companionship is desired. And all the reviewed upscale escorts in the western world are capable of maintaining an intelligent conversation in the room for whatever time is booked. The longer the session, the more time to talk. Most are well-travelled and quite bright.

 

[FunInToronto2023]

Hopefully Terb includes the existence of these Seeking Arrangement threads into the price it charges to escorts and agencies for advertising.

This thread is the best advertising a reviewed escort could dream of.

Do you guys really enjoy all the nonsense that goes into this “game”? Is it worth it?

Most of the comparisons that Seeking enthusiasts make are between the lowest-end hookers and Seeking ladies.

Many Toronto independents do offer multi-hour packages if dinner and companionship is desired. And all the reviewed upscale escorts in the western world are capable of maintaining an intelligent conversation in the room for whatever time is booked. The longer the session, the more time to talk. Most are well-travelled and quite bright.

I see ads on here for things like Ashley Madison and Seeking and SDM on here so TERB is taking advantage.

I can only speak for myself on your question “Do you guys really enjoy all the nonsense that goes into this “game”? Is it worth it?” My answer so far has been yes. I’ve met many, many girls that aren’t SP’s and personally had many experiences that are similar to being in my 20s again. Lots of meet ups to see if we are into each other that turn into make out sessions and getting each other off. Or smashing super hot 21 year olds (some younger and most around 23-30). And they’re genuinely into it, don’t have a boyfriend and just need a little extra help. I’ve come across tons of girls that want a lot more support than a few hundred dollars so even though most comparisons you say are against low end SP’s, keep in mind that the SB is really into seeing you or not. I’ve also met several that are crazy nymphos and when we make out they actually want to smash in a huge way.

That's so great that many independents offer multi-hour dates as well as higher end escorts! To each their own. My experience is I’ve been able to be at a 5 star hotel, give the girl 200-400 and they stay over night, get pampered, and we have an incredible time and are totally into each other, there’s literally nothing fake about it. Many of them also do it to get spoiled, get some extra money, hook up with someone who is nice, still in great shape and makes them O multiple times because they also see the dating world right now is garbage. I’ve been told that many times. And then after if it’s a great connection, you just keep seeing each other. Whereas the SP is off with another guy or multiple guys the very next day.

It’s all relative based on the guy’s funds available, the needs and wants of the girl, the background both people are coming from and what they’re comfortable with. It’s the same for SBs as it is for SPs in many ways.

 

[Liam011]

I see ads on here for things like Ashley Madison and Seeking and SDM on here so TERB is taking advantage.

I can only speak for myself on your question “Do you guys really enjoy all the nonsense that goes into this “game”? Is it worth it?” My answer so far has been yes. I’ve met many, many girls that aren’t SP’s and personally had many experiences that are similar to being in my 20s again. Lots of meet ups to see if we are into each other that turn into make out sessions and getting each other off. Or smashing super hot 21 year olds (some younger and most around 23-30). And they’re genuinely into it, don’t have a boyfriend and just need a little extra help. I’ve come across tons of girls that want a lot more support than a few hundred dollars so even though most comparisons you say are against low end SP’s, keep in mind that the SB is really into seeing you or not. I’ve also met several that are crazy nymphos and when we make out they actually want to smash in a huge way.

That's so great that many independents offer multi-hour dates as well as higher end escorts! To each their own. My experience is I’ve been able to be at a 5 star hotel, give the girl 200-400 and they stay over night, get pampered, and we have an incredible time and are totally into each other, there’s literally nothing fake about it. Many of them also do it to get spoiled, get some extra money, hook up with someone who is nice, still in great shape and makes them O multiple times because they also see the dating world right now is garbage. I’ve been told that many times. And then after if it’s a great connection, you just keep seeing each other. Whereas the SP is off with another guy or multiple guys the very next day.

It’s all relative based on the guy’s funds available, the needs and wants of the girl, the background both people are coming from and what they’re comfortable with. It’s the same for SBs as it is for SPs in many ways.

Again, agree with everything you've written and my experiences are almost IDENTICAL. Except I tend to go for milf types in their mid-thirties to mid-forties range (I'm early 50s) and only if they host. It's a lot different than being with pros. Nothing wrong with pros (I still see Sps two or three times a month) but the heat and passion of being with an SB who wants to smash and gets off on being with YOU instead of an SP who just sees you as a walking wallet is completely different. Even the very best SP (and I've seen some great ones) doesn't really compare with being with even an average SB. And great SBs are out of this world.

But yeah, it's more work. Time and effort expended. Hassle and games sometimes. But you know... chicks be chicks. When they start on that nonsense, move on. Lots of fun to be had elsewhere.

 

[shack]

Again, agree with everything you've written and my experiences are almost IDENTICAL. Except I tend to go for milf types in their mid-thirties to mid-forties range (I'm early 50s) and only if they host. It's a lot different than being with pros. Nothing wrong with pros (I still see Sps two or three times a month) but the heat and passion of being with an SB who wants to smash and gets off on being with YOU instead of an SP who just sees you as a walking wallet is completely different. Even the very best SP (and I've seen some great ones) doesn't really compare with being with even an average SB. And great SBs are out of this world.

But yeah, it's more work. Time and effort expended. Hassle and games sometimes. But you know... chicks be chicks. When they start on that nonsense, move on. Lots of fun to be had elsewhere.

Another thing to consider is that with an SP, as long as you have the $$$, and are not in some way totally disgusting, you qualify. With any real SB, there is least some degree of her having to like you. Not quite as much as actual dating, but you still have to woo her to some degree. Your pic, profile, saying the right things and then some in-person personality. It's not a slam dunk like with an SP. So in that sense, there is some of that feeling of satisfaction in yourself.

I had great, great times with hundreds of SPs and I have the utmost respect for them, but having a great SB who you get to spend a lot of quality time with, both in and out of the bedroom, without having to watch the clock, IMO, is much more satisfying.

 

[D'arcy]

At 50 she should be paying you.

That's pretty ageist. I'm 47 and I make a good living as a sex worker. My body Rivals that of girls half my age to say that someone is 50 and they should be paying you it's just a really misogynistic comment. I'm sure it was meant as a joke but it just comes off as rude

 

[D'arcy]

What I can say about my experience sugar dating is that that's how a lot of girls start out before they get into escorting. And the reason most of them transition to escorting is they realize they're being highly taken advantage of in a sugar dating scenario

Most girls who are on sugar dating have never had an experience where there's a monetary exchange and they don't know what to ask for. They don't know the boundaries and they don't know that they're allowed to have limits.

Sugar dating in my opinion is more of a control thing for the man. He's deciding what to give the girl and how long they should spend. And the monthly allowance is never what a girl would make an escorting

I look back to how many dudes took advantage of me when I was on seeking arrangement. And it's funny because half of them still see me now that I'm an escort and my rate is double what it was there.

 

[dchoye]

What I can say about my experience sugar dating is that that's how a lot of girls start out before they get into escorting. And the reason most of them transition to escorting is they realize they're being highly taken advantage of in a sugar dating scenario

Most girls who are on sugar dating have never had an experience where there's a monetary exchange and they don't know what to ask for. They don't know the boundaries and they don't know that they're allowed to have limits.

Sugar dating in my opinion is more of a control thing for the man. He's deciding what to give the girl and how long they should spend. And the monthly allowance is never what a girl would make an escorting

I look back to how many dudes took advantage of me when I was on seeking arrangement. And it's funny because half of them still see me now that I'm an escort and my rate is double what it was there.

I think thats true for some SBs but not all. There are some older ones that have children or part time job and do SB as a side hustle and know how much they are worth and charge according. There are some that are looking for a whale to take care of them like 2nd wife, wanting a paid apartment to live and monthly stipend
Yes there are younger girls that transition from SB to escorts too. They don’t know much about monetary exchange but to say all dudes take advantage isn’t necessary true. Some dude will mentor and to help facilitate the learning process to be an escort.
Escorts tells me of worse experience with agency and MP owners who give them undesirable clients when they are new to the biz ,charge ridiculous splits and make their feel obligated/owned and try to prevent they from being Indy.
And give them bad advice that might jeopardize their life in order to make a profit out from them

 

[FunInToronto2023]

What I can say about my experience sugar dating is that that's how a lot of girls start out before they get into escorting. And the reason most of them transition to escorting is they realize they're being highly taken advantage of in a sugar dating scenario

Most girls who are on sugar dating have never had an experience where there's a monetary exchange and they don't know what to ask for. They don't know the boundaries and they don't know that they're allowed to have limits.

Sugar dating in my opinion is more of a control thing for the man. He's deciding what to give the girl and how long they should spend. And the monthly allowance is never what a girl would make an escorting

I look back to how many dudes took advantage of me when I was on seeking arrangement. And it's funny because half of them still see me now that I'm an escort and my rate is double what it was there.

That’s interesting! From my experience I would say that 95%+ of the girls I’ve met up with will never become an SP so I wouldn’t say that most of them go that route. But that’s just how I’ve vetted during conversations and the ones I haven’t vetted enough probably make up that 5%. To your point, I wouldn’t be surprised if the number is a lot higher.

I had to figure my own way around the sugar dating as far as monetary exchange and in several instances there wasn’t any exchanged or, also to your point, the amount was really low compared to compensating an SP. And lots of texting to get to know each other before meeting, then meeting and if we’re into each other it can escalate - but only if there’s actual attraction. I totally get where you’re coming from and I’ve found many girls really want to date with benefits. They’ve gone on Tinder and get smashed and dumped so now they want to be treated like a lady, meet up somewhere nice and have everything paid for at a minimum because they’re not getting that treatment anywhere else. I’m an outgoing and sensitive guy who actually cares and how much they’re given depends on them and what I can do, so I’m always above board. I get a decent pulse on their needs and (trying not to say this one out too loud) in some instances I’ve even just sent them funds with zero expectation. It’s usually happened when I’m drunk and it’s end of the month and they’re freaking about rent so I’ll send them like 500.

I always set boundaries but there is sometimes a bit of a challenge because SB relationships are, by their very nature, more personal and can be way more intense than meeting up with an SP. A couple of girls I can think of that I don’t see in person anymore I actually love. Not in a creepy way but if they needed my help, I would do my best (and have actually) to do so.

Feedback I’ve had from several girls is that there are tons of asshole guys on sugar sites and that’s not really a surprise because so many guys are really like that. Also from my experience, girls asking for ongoing help that I’ve given each month are in school or working somewhere like retail and no they won’t get what they would get from escorting but they’re only sleeping with me (and in one case she was seeing one other guy) instead of a different guy every day. So much, once again, about attraction going both ways.

Some girls I’ve met up with multiple times end up going back to regular dating and I’m absolutely thrilled for them! That this is even available is still quite crazy to me but I try not to take it for granted. I want a super hot woman to have a “normal” dating life. If she likes me and wants to temporarily hook up then it’s at least a momentary, mutually fun, way to spend time together.

 

[D'arcy]

That’s interesting! From my experience I would say that 95%+ of the girls I’ve met up with will never become an SP so I wouldn’t say that most of them go that route. But that’s just how I’ve vetted during conversations and the ones I haven’t vetted enough probably make up that 5%. To your point, I wouldn’t be surprised if the number is a lot higher.

I had to figure my own way around the sugar dating as far as monetary exchange and in several instances there wasn’t any exchanged or, also to your point, the amount was really low compared to compensating an SP. And lots of texting to get to know each other before meeting, then meeting and if we’re into each other it can escalate - but only if there’s actual attraction. I totally get where you’re coming from and I’ve found many girls really want to date with benefits. They’ve gone on Tinder and get smashed and dumped so now they want to be treated like a lady, meet up somewhere nice and have everything paid for at a minimum because they’re not getting that treatment anywhere else. I’m an outgoing and sensitive guy who actually cares and how much they’re given depends on them and what I can do, so I’m always above board. I get a decent pulse on their needs and (trying not to say this one out too loud) in some instances I’ve even just sent them funds with zero expectation. It’s usually happened when I’m drunk and it’s end of the month and they’re freaking about rent so I’ll send them like 500.

I always set boundaries but there is sometimes a bit of a challenge because SB relationships are, by their very nature, more personal and can be way more intense than meeting up with an SP. A couple of girls I can think of that I don’t see in person anymore I actually love. Not in a creepy way but if they needed my help, I would do my best (and have actually) to do so.

Feedback I’ve had from several girls is that there are tons of asshole guys on sugar sites and that’s not really a surprise because so many guys are really like that. Also from my experience, girls asking for ongoing help that I’ve given each month are in school or working somewhere like retail and no they won’t get what they would get from escorting but they’re only sleeping with me (and in one case she was seeing one other guy) instead of a different guy every day. So much, once again, about attraction going both ways.

Some girls I’ve met up with multiple times end up going back to regular dating and I’m absolutely thrilled for them! That this is even available is still quite crazy to me but I try not to take it for granted. I want a super hot woman to have a “normal” dating life. If she likes me and wants to temporarily hook up then it’s at least a momentary, mutually fun, way to spend time together.

Don't get me wrong I met you really amazing sugar daddies when I was sugar babying. I found that most of the rest of the guys were kind of like Splenda daddies. They didn't really have a whole lot of real sugar they just had a little bit of extra money but they thought they could spend on a girl

But I think as long as both parties are enjoying themselves then there's absolutely nothing wrong with it. I just found myself very quickly looking for less of a sugar daddy and more of a quick fuck. So it just made sense for me to transition into escorting. I was looking for less of a relationship and more just about getting buoyed by multiple people and stocking paper at the same time
. I mean I didn't even get into sex work until I was 39. And it was literally the best decision of my life. At 47 I'm still going strong

 

[Urbanexplorer]

So in other words, those really hot(SB) ones are fakes, don't really exist or super expensive? Maybe that's my problem, my eyes will gravitate towards the hot ones first. I don't really hobby much in the SP world either but I can understand what you mean, it's a very "in and out" kind of service. I always feel rushed like I'm missing that connection.

Absolutely not. I have met and had some unbelievably hot SBs. Hotter and younger than any SP and I’ve been hobbying for 20 years and SBing for 3. Legit 10s. And 500 for 3 hours. Shopping at PriceChopper with coupons on seniors day,

 

[FunInToronto2023]

Don't get me wrong I met you really amazing sugar daddies when I was sugar babying. I found that most of the rest of the guys were kind of like Splenda daddies. They didn't really have a whole lot of real sugar they just had a little bit of extra money but they thought they could spend on a girl

But I think as long as both parties are enjoying themselves then there's absolutely nothing wrong with it. I just found myself very quickly looking for less of a sugar daddy and more of a quick fuck. So it just made sense for me to transition into escorting. I was looking for less of a relationship and more just about getting buoyed by multiple people and stocking paper at the same time
. I mean I didn't even get into sex work until I was 39. And it was literally the best decision of my life. At 47 I'm still going strong

That’s great you were able to transition nicely and hope it’s always a great experience for you! Love that for you

 

[Mhorgan]

That’s interesting! From my experience I would say that 95%+ of the girls I’ve met up with will never become an SP so I wouldn’t say that most of them go that route. But that’s just how I’ve vetted during conversations and the ones I haven’t vetted enough probably make up that 5%. To your point, I wouldn’t be surprised if the number is a lot higher.

I had to figure my own way around the sugar dating as far as monetary exchange and in several instances there wasn’t any exchanged or, also to your point, the amount was really low compared to compensating an SP. And lots of texting to get to know each other before meeting, then meeting and if we’re into each other it can escalate - but only if there’s actual attraction. I totally get where you’re coming from and I’ve found many girls really want to date with benefits. They’ve gone on Tinder and get smashed and dumped so now they want to be treated like a lady, meet up somewhere nice and have everything paid for at a minimum because they’re not getting that treatment anywhere else. I’m an outgoing and sensitive guy who actually cares and how much they’re given depends on them and what I can do, so I’m always above board. I get a decent pulse on their needs and (trying not to say this one out too loud) in some instances I’ve even just sent them funds with zero expectation. It’s usually happened when I’m drunk and it’s end of the month and they’re freaking about rent so I’ll send them like 500.

I always set boundaries but there is sometimes a bit of a challenge because SB relationships are, by their very nature, more personal and can be way more intense than meeting up with an SP. A couple of girls I can think of that I don’t see in person anymore I actually love. Not in a creepy way but if they needed my help, I would do my best (and have actually) to do so.

Feedback I’ve had from several girls is that there are tons of asshole guys on sugar sites and that’s not really a surprise because so many guys are really like that. Also from my experience, girls asking for ongoing help that I’ve given each month are in school or working somewhere like retail and no they won’t get what they would get from escorting but they’re only sleeping with me (and in one case she was seeing one other guy) instead of a different guy every day. So much, once again, about attraction going both ways.

Some girls I’ve met up with multiple times end up going back to regular dating and I’m absolutely thrilled for them! That this is even available is still quite crazy to me but I try not to take it for granted. I want a super hot woman to have a “normal” dating life. If she likes me and wants to temporarily hook up then it’s at least a momentary, mutually fun, way to spend time together.

Yes, couldn't agree more. If you have money and expectations are different. Sometime I like to smash someone not that experience, so I am leading the session. I go see a sp at hpl and spend 320 or spend 8 hours with SB for 500 pay and 120 dayuse hotel with Uber eats. More romantic and have fun anyway you feel like.

 

[Ginomore]

That's pretty ageist. I'm 47 and I make a good living as a sex worker. My body Rivals that of girls half my age to say that someone is 50 and they should be paying you it's just a really misogynistic comment. I'm sure it was meant as a joke but it just comes off as rude

At your advanced age you should recognize humour when you see it.

 

[kinjpatel18]

Guys, has anyone used Hinge and SDM both. Can you share experience on both, which is user friendly and effective.

If you want to send DM, it is fine

 

[IMBob]

I met a few ladies via Hinge , even on a free account ( no ppm , but gifts and requests for grocery money etc. Less transactional - closer to vanilla dating ) . But lots of messages and time. I got banned this week .... smh . I wasn't harassing . No recourse. Appeal not successful . This is a common occurrence from Google search. SDM has a small female user base. I have met a few ladies on that site as well

 

[daddy88]

Is SDM starting to eclipse Seeking or is Seeking still the top?

 

[FeelsSoGood]

That’s interesting! From my experience I would say that 95%+ of the girls I’ve met up with will never become an SP I would say that 95%+ of the girls I’ve met up with will never become an SP

An escort I saw a while back had just lost her sugar daddy (I didn't ask) and was selling it through one of the larger agencies. I passed on the tempting opportunity (she was smokin' and had an engaging personality). Said she was looking for someone to pay rent.