Sugar dating and health & safety

[digi_7e]

Hello im getting into the sugar dating seen and im meeting someone at a hotel for our first date.
The things that scsres the shit out of me is getting an infection or something.
for sex i always use condoms with all SPs i met but for BJ i like it to be BB.

pls dont tell me to always get tested, I know this but the problem here is that tests will only show when shit hits the fan and its too late

 

[digi_7e]

Ok, and? You know the obvious answers and obvious actions. I assume you’re looking for support and affirmation?

BTW, the wankers who think sugaring is somehow safer are whacked. Many SBs have multiple SDs and/or boyfriends so multiple points of infections also exist. OF course they’re not going to tell you either.

I dont think its safer or anything, i just wanted to try it out maybe i can find a good lady who i can keep for long thats all

 

[The Options Menu]

Either live with the (small but non-zero) risk of an errant BBBJ blowing up your life, go with CBJ, avoid sexual contact with your SO for the incubation and testing period, be monogamous, or find an open relationship.

Those are your options.

 

[spacyfoil]

Also, remember, there are different categories of STDs. Some can be cured, others like Herpes are for life. If she in infected in mouth, it can go on your dick and stay there forever. Good luck.

 

[digi_7e]

Get married then. I really doubt Sugaring is any safer. There’s this mindset on Reddit that there’s no issues with going bare because SBs are “like girlfriends” and they’re “low volume”. That’s just whacked. Given their knowledge and paranoia, I’d say escorts are generally safer than SBs.

I am married

 

[tastingyou]

Hello im getting into the sugar dating seen and im meeting someone at a hotel for our first date.
The things that scsres the shit out of me is getting an infection or something.
for sex i always use condoms with all SPs i met but for BJ i like it to be BB.

pls dont tell me to always get tested, I know this but the problem here is that tests will only show when shit hits the fan and its too late

After 15 years of having fun and a few hundred BBBJ with maybe 100 different providers I am still fortunate enough to be dodging the lightning bolt. I wake up in a cold sweat every night wondering if my luck has run out, lol. If you are this nervous you should be sticking to CBJ or maybe not straying outside of your marriage at all.

 

[Sonic Temple]

This hobby is not safe - period. All we can do is hope to meet a SP who cares about their health and safety as we do. Weed out the good ones and see those SP - the SB thing imho is not worth it - just go and enjoy the variety that GTA has to offer and get tested regularly.

 

[shack]

Hello im getting into the sugar dating seen and im meeting someone at a hotel for our first date.
The things that scsres the shit out of me is getting an infection or something.
for sex i always use condoms with all SPs i met but for BJ i like it to be BB.

pls dont tell me to always get tested, I know this but the problem here is that tests will only show when shit hits the fan and its too late

Does the search function no longer work? There must be 50 threads on this topic. Is there a sticky thread or something that newbies must read before being able to post or read reviews?

 

[digi_7e]

After 15 years of having fun and a few hundred BBBJ with maybe 100 different providers I am still fortunate enough to be dodging the lightning bolt. I wake up in a cold sweat every night wondering if my luck has run out, lol. If you are this nervous you should be sticking to CBJ or maybe not straying outside of your marriage at all.

Lucky you.

 

[digi_7e]

Btw guys, she is a nurse. I think i should be less worried

 

[Ahri]

The nurse memes are true

 

[digi_7e]

The nurse memes are true

As in cheaters or something else??

 

[onomatopoeia]

I dont think its safer or anything, i just wanted to try it out maybe i can find a good lady who i can keep for long thats all

 

[shack]

Btw guys, she is a nurse. I think i should be less worried

That's worse. They come into contact with tons of microbes everyday and some of them very virulent and contagious. You should cancel.

 

[Patron]

ahahahahahahahahahah.

Everyone lies but most of all we lie to ourselves. Hey, you lie to your wife, why wouldn't this nurse lie to you? You do know nurses have a LOT of one-of sex at work right?

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Disappointing that the author of this moralistic nonsense article has a photo indicating that she is hot.

Sometimes the idealism of the young takes an unfortunate turn.

Doctors and nurses have a lot of sex because many of them deal with death every single day, and they realize you only live once and that life (and sex) should be enjoyed.

And as had been stated endless times, STD transmission via unprotected oral sex is rare enough to simply be ignored as a risk issue, unless it is done with someone from the lowest rungs of socioeconomic classes.

 

[Ahri]

Question to the guys who have a SB in your experience what’s the difference between having a SB vs seeing a SP?

is it because SB have less “milage”?

 

[Patron]

Question to the guys who have a SB in your experience what’s the difference between having a SB vs seeing a SP?

is it because SB have less “milage”?

Aren’t you just giving people the opportunity to perpetuate an invalid stereotype?

Children are indoctrinated early in life to be prejudiced against women who have a lot of sex partners, especially with the belief that their vaginas become looser as a result of a lot of sex (which is simply not true).

A guy having sex with someone who has had only a very few sex partners is taught to feel superior to the guy having sex with someone who has had many sex partners. The principle unfortunately is never-ending. Somehow the guy fucking a girl who has had sex with 50 partners feels superior to the guy who is with someone whose “body count” is 500. It is nonsensical, and just a SA/SD marketing strategy. It is made funny, however, in Clerks.

 

[Patron]

Speaking of, "moralistic nonsense"....

It takes a lot for me to double-take but your opinion on who actually gets STIs is "hilarious".

It isn’t as bad in Canada as it is is the U.S., since Canada gives healthcare to most everyone, but throughout the world if you really delve into the statistics, there are more STIs among the lower classes, and among the lowest-priced sex workers. I would strongly argue you are much more likely to get an STI from a sex worker on LeoList than from a Toronto independent or Toronto agency lady. In the U.S., the scene is rather segregated and there is one big website directed toward the $500 an hour or more scene, and the $300 an hour or less scene, and discussions of STIs and drugs are prevalent on one, and nonexistent on the other. Obviously, you can guess which.

 

[digi_7e]

Question to the guys who have a SB in your experience what’s the difference between having a SB vs seeing a SP?

is it because SB have less “milage”?

Omg where have you been. Wish i found you earlier, you look amazing

 

[Patron]

I am certainly not MAGA, though many seem to enjoy accusing any American poster of being one.

I did a quick google search of STI by socioeconomic class and found the scientific articles to in fact support what I said.

I expanded it with the word Canada and found at least one study in Montreal based on neighborhoods that came to the same conclusion but was unfortunately rather racially biased. Certainly Universal Healthcare, which many Americans (including me) wish we had more of would decrease the prevalence of STIs in poorer communities.