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SPs I visited say they climax with me

He he... I try to never speak for a provider or her genitals. I'm pleased when a provider tries to please me with her 'pleasure'. I also think it's great when a provider (or any woman) provides clear directions in that regard. Every woman, and vagina, is different. Is that pleasure real, and did she really cum? Well, it's great if it is, and she did, but if not I can appreciate a provider's sincere effort to make me happy by simulating pleasure. Well, as long as a provider doesn't go too far over the top.

 

[lomotil]

During the pandemic when her workplace spa was closed I was able to connect with a lady a few times and her orgasms where not contrived like in her work place where she had to “ fake climax “ on the clock. She let her bush grow out fully during the lockdown even.

 

[Charlotte Maeve]

It’s not all that unusual and can occur for all sorts of reasons. There’s the obvious lack of knowledge/skill a sexual partner could have as well psychological and mental factors, but there can also be medical reasons. Some medications can make it more difficult to achieve orgasms. Either way, at the end of the day I think it’s important to recognize that absence of orgasm doesn’t necessarily mean absence of pleasure. Orgasm isn’t or shouldn’t be looked at as the main goal. It’s the journey, not the destination that matters!

 

[GuySmiley]

If I ever climaxed with someone its because I got myself off. You have to think that you chose them, they didnt choose you. Meeting a strange man to get paid for sex isn't sexy unless your brain is broken.

I cum now with someone experienced. But its not lost on me how pathetic it is that I spent so much time having shitty sex with people that had no idea what they were doing.

So many people were convinced they were studs from seeing prostitutes all the time I wondered how regular women even tolerated them. I guess if regular women could tolerate them they wouldn't have to pay for it. So in essence the worse someone is at sex the more likely they would be a long term customer. You can pretty much count on their money every week or every month.

Sadia Khan talks about the same thing in her interviews and podcasts. Men who see SW's almost invariably end up as the worst lovers. It's one-way/non-feedback sex. Because the client enters with the mindset of, "I paid YOU, now service ME". Clearly, this isn't a hard and fast rule and maybe some SW's happen upon clients who know the Kama Sutra backwards and forwards but I'm quite sure they are incredibly rare because of this consumerist mentality.

The nicest thing my 'regular' said to me before I quit was 'I feel like you service me'. It could have been a blatant lie but, in the moment, it was nice to hear. Achievement unlocked and felt I couldn't level up past this point.

 

[massman]

Sadia Khan talks about the same thing in her interviews and podcasts. Men who see SW's almost invariably end up as the worst lovers. It's one-way/non-feedback sex. Because the client enters with the mindset of, "I paid YOU, now service ME". Clearly, this isn't a hard and fast rule and maybe some SW's happen upon clients who know the Kama Sutra backwards and forwards but I'm quite sure they are incredibly rare because of this consumerist mentality.

The nicest thing my 'regular' said to me before I quit was 'I feel like you service me'. It could have been a blatant lie but, in the moment, it was nice to hear. Achievement unlocked and felt I couldn't level up past this point.

Major over generalization here.

 

[GuySmiley]

Major over generalization here.

A fair generalization based on my conversations with various SW's and my experience.

You're free to disagree and post the screenshot of where she's handing you the cash back

 

[TauCeti]

She has obviously never had a client from Terb. 100% of the reviews from Terb members the woman has 2-3 mind blowing orgasms 100% of the time.
You will find it extremely difficult to find a review where a Terb member doesn’t give his date multiple amazing O’s!

 

[massman]

A fair generalization based on my conversations with various SW's and my experience.

You're free to disagree and post the screenshot of where she's handing you the cash back

The part / generalization I’m disagreeing with is “men who see SWs almost invariably end up the worst lovers”. This is probably about
As accurate as saying “men who see SW are invariably ugly” or “men who see SW are invariably misogynistic “ … I could go on.

 

[GuySmiley]

The part / generalization I’m disagreeing with is “men who see SWs almost invariably end up the worst lovers”. This is probably about
As accurate as saying “men who see SW are invariably ugly” or “men who see SW are invariably misogynistic “ … I could go on.

There's exceptions to everything. Of course not all Johns are misogynists and I never implied that's the case.

The bad lovers knock is real to me, sorry. Engaging in 'non-feedback sex' (oh, I made her moan, she loved it, etc.....Um, of course she did. She's putting on a performance for $$$). And before you say, 'I make all my regulars cum'. Good for you. Amazing that she's excited to see her 10th dick of the day that is yours and you're magically making her squirt. Bravo.

Just enjoy the performance.

What I can tell you is that every time I was at allure or premier (and this is hundreds of visits) I regularly saw other clients who were not exactly GQ material to put it lightly. Common thread is old/fat/ugly/out of shape/etc. A lot were all of the above. Not physically attractive in the least. Maybe they had incredibly charming personalities and treated the girls really, really well but they were all 5's and under in the looks department. Sorry, that's the facts. Pretty sure most SW's will agree.

Better yet, when I went to the Sensa Grand opening spa last May and got to see all the other clients my regulars serviced. This is NOT a good looking demographic by any means. But that's a major reason why sex work exists - to service that demographic.

 

[massman]

There's exceptions to everything. Of course not all Johns are misogynists and I never implied that's the case.

The bad lovers knock is real to me, sorry. Engaging in 'non-feedback sex' (oh, I made her moan, she loved it, etc.....Um, of course she did. She's putting on a performance for $$$). And before you say, 'I make all my regulars cum'. Good for you. Amazing that she's excited to see her 10th dick of the day that is yours and you're magically making her squirt. Bravo.

Just enjoy the performance.

What I can tell you is that every time I was at allure or premier (and this is hundreds of visits) I regularly saw other clients who were not exactly GQ material to put it lightly. Common thread is old/fat/ugly/out of shape/etc. A lot were all of the above. Not physically attractive in the least. Maybe they had incredibly charming personalities and treated the girls really, really well but they were all 5's and under in the looks department. Sorry, that's the facts. Pretty sure most SW's will agree.

Better yet, when I went to the Sensa Grand opening spa last May and got to see all the other clients my regulars serviced. This is NOT a good looking demographic by any means. But that's a major reason why sex work exists - to service that demographic.

Fair enough. I wouldn’t argue the point that a significant proportion of the population who uses the services of SW does so because they struggle to attract regular women for a variety of factors (appearance, personality, confidence, status etc). There are many reasons why guys see SW tho, not all of them relating to being unattractive.

And I’m not claiming that all of the SW I see have orgasms with me every time. Some occasionally do, often they don’t. Of course I’m ok with that. With familiar regulars, we have talked about that. But I don’t think it is inevitable that guys who see SWs will become lousy lovers. In some cases (mine included) experience with a variety of different women can expand your sexual skill set. Personally my ability to please women certainly has improved with experience, a lot of it via this industry. Tho I don’t have the “I pay you so you service me attitude” either, as I generally look for a more “two way” experience (or at least the illusion of one ).

 

[GuySmiley]

Fair enough. I wouldn’t argue the point that a significant proportion of the population who uses the services of SW does so because they struggle to attract regular women for a variety of factors (appearance, personality, confidence, status etc). There are many reasons why guys see SW tho, not all of them relating to being unattractive.

And I’m not claiming that all of the SW I see have orgasms with me every time. Some occasionally do, often they don’t. Of course I’m ok with that. With familiar regulars, we have talked about that. But I don’t think it is inevitable that guys who see SWs will become lousy lovers. In some cases (mine included) experience with a variety of different women can expand your sexual skill set. Personally my ability to please women certainly has improved with experience, a lot of it via this industry. Tho I don’t have the “I pay you so you service me attitude” either, as I generally look for a more “two way” experience (or at least the illusion of one ).

If you don't have the "I pay you, now service me" attitude, there's no doubt you'll have an infinitely better experience because you actually care about the SW's experience with you. She'll see you try and the John will likely connect with better with her. Absolutely. But your attitude there is absolutely in the minority; from the 5-6 regulars I knew pretty well, that was *not* the consensus from them when they'd talk about their regulars.

And I'm not saying you will learn NOTHING from SW experiences but that can't be the end all and be all of your sexual experience....if I'm talking to a friend and he tells me his body count with SW's, and humble brags about his skill set there.....I just have to laugh...What did the comic Natasha Leggero say - bragging about how often and how many SW's you've banged is like bragging about how many drinks you got from the vending machine.

 

[massman]

If you don't have the "I pay you, now service me" attitude, there's no doubt you'll have an infinitely better experience because you actually care about the SW's experience with you. She'll see you try and the John will likely connect with better with her. Absolutely. But your attitude there is absolutely in the minority; from the 5-6 regulars I knew pretty well, that was *not* the consensus from them when they'd talk about their regulars.

And I'm not saying you will learn NOTHING from SW experiences but that can't be the end all and be all of your sexual experience....if I'm talking to a friend and he tells me his body count with SW's, and humble brags about his skill set there.....I just have to laugh...What did the comic Natasha Leggero say - bragging about how often and how many SW's you've banged is like bragging about how many drinks you got from the vending machine.

agree. We all need to keep in mind that time with a SW is not the real world. It’s a treat, an indulgence and a fantasy. If your only experience with women is with SWs, it is quite likely you will have a warped idea of what sex is / should be like in the real world.