Recent content by @madelineklaire

I’ve actually worked for the same agency you’re referring to, so I want to give some first-hand perspective. The people running it were kind and respectful, but working under that model meant giving up autonomy over my rates and services and fitting myself into a box to meet demand. It required...

I get what you are saying and I can see why agencies can feel appealing, especially in bigger cities where the market is crowded and convenience plays a big role. I also understand why clients like the security and predictability of booking through an agency and why some providers appreciate not...

As mentioned before, it is a lot more common for bigger cities to have a stronger agency presence. I honestly think much of it comes down to people compromising or simply choosing convenience. The market in a place like Montreal is extremely competitive and often oversaturated, which makes it...

I’ll be honest, I’ve actually thought about starting an agency myself. I even worked with one for a while, and on paper it seemed appealing: someone handling the advertising, screening, and logistics, a space to work out of, and built-in clientele. But the reality was eye-opening. The trade-off...

I hear what you’re saying, and I do appreciate you sharing your perspective. I know the client side isn’t always easy, it can be frustrating sorting through ads, scams, and mixed experiences while trying to stay within a budget. I also know Ottawa isn’t Montreal or Toronto; the scene here is...

I think there’s an important difference between management trying to enforce prices and providers informally talking among themselves. If it’s management or owners setting limits, that’s tricky legally they can’t (and shouldn’t) control what someone charges or offers beyond what’s safe to...

I get why people think an agency could “fix” the scene here, but Ottawa already has agencies and collectives like OIC. So it makes me wonder why those aren’t seen as enough. I think part of it is that Ottawa’s market is smaller and less saturated, it’s often easier to go fully independent, build...

I get why it might feel like a lot of talk without a clear fix, but I also think these conversations show just how layered and complicated the whole scene really is. There isn’t one simple solution because everyone’s circumstances, comfort levels, and reasons for doing this work are so...

It’s so refreshing to read such a positive and respectful perspective. I’m really happy to hear you’ve had such great experiences and that you recognize the talent across the board, not everyone does, and it’s nice to see it appreciated. I also love what you said about pricing. Knowing what...

I’ve noticed that too. If I had to guess, it might be because running solo can be tough. Covering space, hotels, ads, screening, and trying to build trust in a scene full of scams and fake ads isn’t easy. A club or spa gives a known location, built-in traffic, and some marketing support, which...

I wouldn’t say this isn’t a good answer, I think it’s a really honest look at how things are, and I totally feel you. It’s frustrating because when I first started, I had my own preconceived ideas about sex work and the people who book, but over time I’ve seen how positive it can be when it’s...

I totally agree with your first point. It’s so frustrating and honestly both providers and clients end up getting burned by it. On your second point, I’m curious to hear more. I wouldn’t really call it a lack of social skills, but I do feel the vibe has changed a lot since I first started. It...

Hey everyone, just revisiting this thread! First, a big thank-you to all the clients and providers who shared their thoughts back in May. The insights, suggestions, and honesty were super helpful and gave a good snapshot of the Ottawa scene at the time. It’s been a while and a lot has...

Hi gentlemen, just a quick note to clarify: ✨ I’m still the same Madeline you’ve always known I’ve simply lost access to my previous number and my old X account. ✨ My TERB account has been active since 2019, and all of my reviews are still visible here for anyone who needs reassurance.