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Mandala

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Picked this random vid because it is short.
Who wants to listen to a 20 minute vid that makes a few points ?

She makes 2 points and both are solid

1 Women have an intuituive sense men do not.
If you are thinking sexual thoughts you will scare her off as she will know it somehow.

2 If she shows no interest then leave as she will just blab to her girlfriends
that you would not leave her alone


 
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xix

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La la land
I wouldn't approach her because of her tattoos who is the Biker that owns her?

Creepy? Her yes but the men? of course to her /or them.

Clothing or style I can't pay for some one else High End void clothing.

Thinking Sex us men? not as much as women are thinking $$$$$. ( We have to think sex in order to get it up and hard.)

Walk away??? I run for the mountains. - I have a boyfriend !!!! RESPONSE - how long have you had that problem for?

Anything else? of course there are more.

I like this comment for YB channel:

@beeeb7747
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How about a video titled "How to Live Life Without Needing to Feed Your Fragile, Over-inflated Ego by Intentionally Exposing Half or More of Your Boobs in Public." Good luck!


AI Troll.
 

jalimon

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I wouldn't approach her because of her tattoos who is the Biker that owns her?

Creepy? Her yes but the men? of course to her /or them.

Clothing or style I can't pay for some one else High End void clothing.

Thinking Sex us men? not as much as women are thinking $$$$$. ( We have to think sex in order to get it up and hard.)

Walk away??? I run for the mountains. - I have a boyfriend !!!! RESPONSE - how long have you had that problem for?

Anything else? of course there are more.

I like this comment for YB channel:

@beeeb7747
7 months ago
How about a video titled "How to Live Life Without Needing to Feed Your Fragile, Over-inflated Ego by Intentionally Exposing Half or More of Your Boobs in Public." Good luck!


AI Troll.
I much prefer hotties showing half their boobs in public then overweight Karen walking in yoga pants!!!!
 

kherg007

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No, they don't. That's why we have an epidemic of single mothers.



Facts.
You'll love this tune buck - The late Comedian Bill Hicks wrote and sang this pretty funky tune called "Chick's dig jerks"
Skip first 20 seconds (ps he's being ironic for those who don't get it)
 

kherg007

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Walk into a grocery store with your dick out and say "This sausage is on sale ladies" that should get you a few numbers.
Porn logic!
Pizza delivery guys, dryer repair guys, and step brothers have it made in porn world!
 

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While I agree she makes some good pointers, she just kinda scratched the surface of what to look out for when approaching women. Although I will say that the no sexual thoughts thing is right- it’s ok to think sexually when you first notice her (totally normal, that’s how men are wired when all we have to base on is just looks) try to not have any sexual thoughts when in conversation with her. This will make the conversation more natural and friendly. After women, ;especially really hot ones ) all wish to find a guy that can look past their appearance and actually be interested in who they are as a person.
 
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yessir235

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Also, Men’s Influencer Courtney Ryan has another great video on this topic. Her advice is usually simple, straight to the point and effective

 
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Used to be expected that a man would approach a woman cold. Showed courage. Now not so much. Now the implication is that you are just a pest. Plenty of stuff on you tube about "don't chase women" It used to work for me sometimes. Now I don't even try. However, last Sunday I was on the wrong side of town, sort of, heading to a Value Village when two middle aged women openly checked me out. Made eye contact and said hello. I breezily ignored them. Sort of. Maybe gave them a polite half smile. They weren't bad or anything. Just not what I was looking for. I guess I still got it. By trailer trash sort of standards.
 

Mandala

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bump
 

Big Rig

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It is a delicate play.
You first need to guage if they have mutual interest. Approach softly and casually while looking them in eye with a easy smile. Give them an easy way out to not express interest. You may decide you are not interested after small talk so you are also giving yourself a way out.
 

Sonic Temple

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Thinking Sex us men? not as much as women are thinking $$$$$. ( We have to think sex in order to get it up and hard.)
Good point actually - never though it that way tbh. Not all women think $$$$$, but I do see what you mean.
 
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Sonic Temple

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Used to be expected that a man would approach a woman cold. Showed courage. Now not so much. Now the implication is that you are just a pest. Plenty of stuff on you tube about "don't chase women" It used to work for me sometimes. Now I don't even try. However, last Sunday I was on the wrong side of town, sort of, heading to a Value Village when two middle aged women openly checked me out. Made eye contact and said hello. I breezily ignored them. Sort of. Maybe gave them a polite half smile. They weren't bad or anything. Just not what I was looking for. I guess I still got it. By trailer trash sort of standards.
Nothing wrong with trailer trash mate - experience is experience :D .
 
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Big Rig

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These are my thoughts. I do not claim to be a pick up artist (PUA) nor do I desire to be, but these three points make sense

1 Approach with confidence.

This does not mean you will win everyone over but those who might be interested you are more likely to win over

2 Approach without sexual intent. Not because women do not want sex but because you have not built trust. Women will sense it and you will scare them away.

3 Everything can change with individual women and cultures.

For example, the net says it is not uncommon for women to be the aggressor in Iceland as women are very liberated in that culture and to have slept around is a sign of strong independence and they are not shy of expressing sexual desires. Men from other countries take this the wrong way and will actually fly there to have a sex vacation. It is not like that.

First, Iceland women also have the choice to be very conservative and private in their sexual desires and I would assume most women from Iceland do. Second, the stars have to align as she still has to trust you and like you and be available etc. Very few women will have sex with someone until they become friends and can trust you and find you attractive.

In my travels, I find women that I thought were above me and would have no interest in me but some do and it is always a surprise when they do.

Sometimes attraction happens but sometimes it takes a while.

You have to get to know and like each other and break through the stranger barrier and this is the rub. You have not broke through the stranger barrier with a stranger. When attraction happens right away, on her part, then she is willing to lower the barrier. That is not the way barriers are normally broken, it is the exception.

Even if a woman is attracted right away the barrier is still up as she still needs to get to know you and chatting up women who have not signalled interest is what a PUA tries to do.
 
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