How do SP integrate back into society?

houseoverhype said:

escort have a transactional mindset. it's almost toxic outside of the bedroom. Their brains have been reprogramed.

I remember i was out to lunch with one and she told me "ill never let a guy fuck unless he pays"


yea...what a life smh

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wiskey bravo said:

Service providers who plan to transition from escorting into other careers should begin laying the groundwork early. Waiting until 40 or 50 to start fresh makes the path much harder. By then, most professionals already have 10–20 years of experience and are established at a mature stage in their careers. Entering the job market at that point without a track record often means starting from scratch.

That said, it’s not impossible — but it does require foresight and strategy. Building part-time experience, pursuing certifications, networking, or freelancing alongside escorting can create a portfolio of skills and references. This way, when the time comes to exit, the transition is less about “starting over” and more about stepping into a second career with some momentum already behind it.

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Patron said:

A great thing about the Canadian system is that it encourages part-time work. So a lady can go to school or training for other fields, and even work a few hours in the evening or on days off while she has another job. Countries that try to legalize and regulate inevitably force ladies into facilities where long work shifts are encouraged.

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Patron said:

She is probably a lesbian in private life or a bisexual who leans lesbian.

She likely has traditional romantic relationships with women who can accept her life as a sex worker. She is just being honest about guys. She probably has sex with plenty of other women for free.

A tremendously high percentage of sex workers lean that way. Sure they get wet during sex with Johns and yes they climax, albeit often with sex toys during the session. But they are likely fantasizing about other women. When they assure self-conscious older and heavier set men that they don’t care what they look like as long as they are clean, they really mean it.

When we discuss such lovely topics such as integrating them back into society, we should remember that society is not the same as it was twenty or thirty years ago.

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Patron said:

You are parroting back the general stereotypes of men and women, which are often used to condemn sex workers and generate questions like how do we integrate these wicked women back into society.

There have been plenty of threads asking the legitimate question of whether those highly favorable stereotypes about women are accurate, i.e., the theory that they are programmed for unconditional, faithful love with one man forever. Certainly that is what we are all taught, but I am doubtful.

I do genuinely believe that women are generally slightly more intelligent than men, especially during their teens and twenties, and capable of greater manipulation. I also think they are capable of more unconditional love toward their children. The female is almost always present during childrearing and able to provide life advice to female children.

Women who want children face a couple of dilemmas. The time spent during pregnancy and early child rearing significantly lessens their earning power. Not only during that period of time, but in the modern world, the lack of doing “higher-level” skilled work during that time lowers their earnings even later in life. They also face the often unmentionable dilemma that they are not as physically desirable during the last half, or at least the last third, of their lives to potential new mates.

So in the more traditional role of wife / mother, early mate selection is very important to obtain a spouse who will provide love and security and money to her for a lifetime.

Entire subsystems are present. Certainly in divorce systems that greatly favor the female mother. But also in the elaborate nature of first weddings in the church. Second weddings? Society says to just go to the fucking courthouse, and for god‘s sake, don’t wear white.

Our current system of educating women with them being able to earn enough to support themselves, coupled with the decline in marriage, throws a bit of a wrench into this stereotypical worshipping of the pure female who provides such unconditional love to her one lifelong mate as well as to her children. And it is entirely possible that there is no actual difference between women who sell sex for cash, versus those who don’t. A couple of noted singers and singing groups have explored this via song. Just don’t spoil the illusion for the Italian Catholics.

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