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Laird

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Shyness is rarely the problem when it comes to a lack of d/s/r. If girls have never expressed interest in you, or worse been actively hostile towards you every time you tried to form a connection, it's only natural to want to avoid them. On the other hand, if girls have made themselves available to you, any innate shyness you might have would easily be overcome.

Put another way, if the OP looked like Chris Hemsworth, he wouldn't even know this site exists.
 
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CapitalGuy

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Laird said:
Put another way, if the OP looked like Chris Hemsworth, he wouldn't even know this site exists.
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Maybe he would; who knows? Lots of guys hobby for commitment-free variety, not because they can't get it for free. Even rock starts get hookers, for the convenience.
 
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letsn0twastetime

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marcobaliey said:
I've gotten a promotion already.

I'm not sure why my job has to do with this. Can you elaborate?
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Women socially and women at work are quite different, one of the many 'faces' we put on to show people. My only advise being in your similar situation once, don't give the girls "that much" credit. Don't put them on a pedestal as if you aren't good enough to talk to them. Trust their not, and the one's who think they are all "that" are still single and approaching their early 40s watching re-runs of Sex and the City. This is coming from a guy who use to go flush red when holding a girls hand for 5 mins.

After you finally do the deed, don't fall for the first girl who you think "gets" you. It's an illusion brought on by in experience. Just make sure you start going into feelings and opening up the wallet. Some chicks are cool about it and won't abuse you but there are many gold diggers out there who will take advantage of you since you're a big cash cow in their mind. Now if you were older and you were with some young chick who is clearly there only for money, well they'd call you her "sugar daddy" ...

Go luck ...
 
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NorthernBear

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Call a reputable agency such as Cupids or send them an e-mail explaining your situation. They are not unfamiliar with what you are going through and will help you any way they can.

A happy client is usually a repeat client.
 
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explorerzip

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Laird said:
Put another way, if the OP looked like Chris Hemsworth, he wouldn't even know this site exists.
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You're assuming that only looks determine success with women and that would be false. It's the whole package (confidence, personality and looks) that increase your success. Men are attracted to the same thing and looks only get you so far. Need proof: looks how many "beautiful celebrities break up after a very short time. Another way of looking at it is that a crappy car is still a crappy even with a fresh coat of paint on it.
 
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marcobaliey

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Well, thanks for all the responses. I may have been a little over dramatic in my original post. I sound a lot sadder than I'm actually am. I would consider myself to be a normal guy who's probably haven't had the chance yet. Although, I've had interest in the past from some girls, I really wasn't attracted to them. And the girls I do like, I tend to freeze up and get shy. As the years past, I've been putting it off. I decided to post on the board maybe to get some different points of view.

I'll work on a few things, I'm thinking about having my buddy be my wing man, but I think I'm going to pass on the SP thing.
 
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niveamen

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marcobaliey said:
Well, thanks for all the responses. I may have been a little over dramatic in my original post. I sound a lot sadder than I'm actually am. I would consider myself to be a normal guy who's probably haven't had the chance yet. Although, I've had interest in the past from some girls, I really wasn't attracted to them. And the girls I do like, I tend to freeze up and get shy. As the years past, I've been putting it off. I decided to post on the board maybe to get some different points of view.

I'll work on a few things, I'm thinking about having my buddy be my wing man, but I think I'm going to pass on the SP thing.
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+1 at 27, a real relationship is much more meaningful.
 
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freedom3

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Definitely don't see a SP. Sleeping with a SP will not help you with women. It is like saying you don't feel happy in life and so you are going to smoke some weed. It won't show you the path to happiness.

You need to read "pick up artist" books. Start with a book called the The Game by Neil Strauss. It will give you a good overview of what it takes to pick up women. The most important lesson: Don't be yourself. Women like a show. (Or, you can take a shortcut with $250 and a SP.)
 
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marcobaliey said:
Well, thanks for all the responses. I may have been a little over dramatic in my original post. I sound a lot sadder than I'm actually am. I would consider myself to be a normal guy who's probably haven't had the chance yet. Although, I've had interest in the past from some girls, I really wasn't attracted to them. And the girls I do like, I tend to freeze up and get shy. As the years past, I've been putting it off. I decided to post on the board maybe to get some different points of view.

I'll work on a few things, I'm thinking about having my buddy be my wing man, but I think I'm going to pass on the SP thing.
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I disagree, I think that you should just book a well reviewed GFE type SP and get it out of the way. Its like anything for the first time. You are going to be shy , nervous and it will be a bit awkward. But with an SP you have the pleasure of it being something you can discuss openly without judgement or fear. You can get some really really good tips and pointers on how to be a good lover. I think this will build your confidence with women and get the elephant out of the room. No ?
 
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rhuarc29

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Not a big deal OP. Just be open minded about it. I don't think there's anything wrong with losing your virginity of a provider, especially if you have developed a mental complex about sex. Just a couple words of caution:

1) If you aren't financially responsible and don't have a decent amount of disposable income, you should probably just make it a one-time deal. Otherwise your wallet may be in for a world of hurt.

2) Do a lot of research. Find a provider who tends to lead the session. Once you contact the provider or agency, it wouldn't hurt to explain your situation. They'll most likely accommodate you.

Have fun!
 
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marcobaliey said:
I'm thinking about finally seeing a SP but I'm afraid that it will be awkward. It probably will be. What's your guys advice? I feel so sexually frustrated all the time. Any good starter SP's to see that might help make me at easy with the whole situation?

Any advice?
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If I were in your shoes, I'd contact SPJ. I'm sure she'd look after all your needs. :)

http://sweetpetitejessica.com/home.html
 
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letsn0twastetime

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marcobaliey said:
Well, thanks for all the responses. I may have been a little over dramatic in my original post. I sound a lot sadder than I'm actually am. I would consider myself to be a normal guy who's probably haven't had the chance yet. Although, I've had interest in the past from some girls, I really wasn't attracted to them. And the girls I do like, I tend to freeze up and get shy. As the years past, I've been putting it off. I decided to post on the board maybe to get some different points of view.

I'll work on a few things, I'm thinking about having my buddy be my wing man, but I think I'm going to pass on the SP thing.
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Good for you, do what you think is right, go with your gut. Just don't go because the media or anyone else says you should go. And remember things turn as you get older, a girls "shelf life" will drop drop as she approaches early 40s and a guys will continue as he gets more financially stable and confident. So don't get a chance to get with a 20 year old now, then wait.
 
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ig-88

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Why is it 'bad' to be a virgin?

If Western society values freedom and individualism, why can't we respect someone's situation, whether by choice or circumstance, not to have sex?

Not all guys can be chick magnets, regardless of how many self-help books you read; that's just the way it is.
 
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d_jedi

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Well, I have some experience in this matter.. as I was in a situation not-unfamiliar to yours a few years ago.
My advice: Just do it!

If you're shy/nervous, maybe try seeing a MPA first. That's what I did, chose the lowest option (nude), as I was quite nervous, and then went back a couple weeks later and did a bodyslide with the same girl. Then, I went ahead and saw a SP - letting the agency know full well what the deal was, so I'd know I'd be with a girl who was comfortable with it (turns out, she told me at the end, she was quite nervous seeing me :) ).

It was an excellent experience, and I haven't looked back. No regrets.
 
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