A Female Friend Of Mine Wants To Be An Escort. What Should I tell her?
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Actually there wasn't a single dig in my post at all. But some chick's get really sensitive when they find out thousands of girls make more per hour in parlors than they do escorting. Don't believe me? Look at the rates. Look at what girls pull home. Look at what is changing/shifting in the industry. Pay attention beyond your sector folks.
I didn't say "tell her to work at Muse". Again, assuming makes you the ass. I said to email me. After 15yrs in this business, I happen to know how to navigate thru what can be a totally daunting industry. I mentioned training because it's critical Vs trial-and-error. That goes for any job.
But I have learned that some chick's here get their panties in a bunch when I say certain truths. That's ok. That's their issue.
To the guy calling me, a female, a douchbag, fuck you.**
I encourage you to keep searching your resources to "prove" my existence. Clearly, you're no Dick Tracey. I happen to have a real name, I don't walk around fighting the government as "MPAsquared". Not the sharpest pencil are you??
I'm glad some of u hobby for fs. Great! Awesome! What does that have to do with a newbie interested in working? Maybe she, like many, would be thrilled to learn they can make $250/hr and not have sex. Maybe learning that what owners of sc's or agency's say about spas "getting busted" isn't true. Maybe she'd find a happier path by working in an environment of her choosing.**
But that's ok, I get it, some folks equate dick-in-vag to equal quality service. Cuz you know, penetration is everything. That's why everyone loves sex w/their wives. Good old penetration. There's nothing else to life or hobbying without it. Your penis, and your experience, will be totally ruined if you don't get to penetrate something. *rolling my eyes***
Step outside the proverbial box, there's a whole world out here!
Half of the ladies that work at our agency worked at high end massage parlors and basically said it's not for them. They prefer doing the full service and find that there is more money in escorting. I have no clue why in every post you make full service sound like it's a bad thing. Terb is not a place to judge. A lot of times doing body slides and massage requires alot more work then doing full service so not sure why some ladies would get more sensetive over that. I know alot more ladies that started as Mps and became Sps rather than the other way around.Actually there wasn't a single dig in my post at all. But some chick's get really sensitive when they find out thousands of girls make more per hour in parlors than they do escorting. Don't believe me? Look at the rates. Look at what girls pull home. Look at what is changing/shifting in the industry. Pay attention beyond your sector folks.
I didn't say "tell her to work at Muse". Again, assuming makes you the ass. I said to email me. After 15yrs in this business, I happen to know how to navigate thru what can be a totally daunting industry. I mentioned training because it's critical Vs trial-and-error. That goes for any job.
But I have learned that some chick's here get their panties in a bunch when I say certain truths. That's ok. That's their issue.
To the guy calling me, a female, a douchbag, fuck you.**
I encourage you to keep searching your resources to "prove" my existence. Clearly, you're no Dick Tracey. I happen to have a real name, I don't walk around fighting the government as "MPAsquared". Not the sharpest pencil are you??
I'm glad some of u hobby for fs. Great! Awesome! What does that have to do with a newbie interested in working? Maybe she, like many, would be thrilled to learn they can make $250/hr and not have sex. Maybe learning that what owners of sc's or agency's say about spas "getting busted" isn't true. Maybe she'd find a happier path by working in an environment of her choosing.**
But that's ok, I get it, some folks equate dick-in-vag to equal quality service. Cuz you know, penetration is everything. That's why everyone loves sex w/their wives. Good old penetration. There's nothing else to life or hobbying without it. Your penis, and your experience, will be totally ruined if you don't get to penetrate something. *rolling my eyes***
Step outside the proverbial box, there's a whole world out here!
Just my two cents.
But this is, by far the, best advice in here. Someone close the thread
"A Female Friend Of Mine Wants To Be An Escort. What Should I tell her?"
Start to save her saliva. She needs a lot.
Start to save her saliva. She needs a lot.
First of all, I have never been to a MP... Although Bella has almost got me there!Actually there wasn't a single dig in my post at all. But some chick's get really sensitive when they find out thousands of girls make more per hour in parlors than they do escorting. Don't believe me? Look at the rates. Look at what girls pull home. Look at what is changing/shifting in the industry. Pay attention beyond your sector folks.
I didn't say "tell her to work at Muse". Again, assuming makes you the ass. I said to email me. After 15yrs in this business, I happen to know how to navigate thru what can be a totally daunting industry. I mentioned training because it's critical Vs trial-and-error. That goes for any job.
But I have learned that some chick's here get their panties in a bunch when I say certain truths. That's ok. That's their issue.
To the guy calling me, a female, a douchbag, fuck you.**
I encourage you to keep searching your resources to "prove" my existence. Clearly, you're no Dick Tracey. I happen to have a real name, I don't walk around fighting the government as "MPAsquared". Not the sharpest pencil are you??
I'm glad some of u hobby for fs. Great! Awesome! What does that have to do with a newbie interested in working? Maybe she, like many, would be thrilled to learn they can make $250/hr and not have sex. Maybe learning that what owners of sc's or agency's say about spas "getting busted" isn't true. Maybe she'd find a happier path by working in an environment of her choosing.**
But that's ok, I get it, some folks equate dick-in-vag to equal quality service. Cuz you know, penetration is everything. That's why everyone loves sex w/their wives. Good old penetration. There's nothing else to life or hobbying without it. Your penis, and your experience, will be totally ruined if you don't get to penetrate something. *rolling my eyes***
Step outside the proverbial box, there's a whole world out here!
Anyway, over the top posts like this hurt your credibility.
Thousands of MPAs make more than SPs. That would imply more than a thousand... You have 43 girls on your roster... Are there really that many ladies working as MPAs in the city? And they are all pulling down more than even the best SPs? You can't be right
Make more than 250/hr. Just checked ur rates, $240/hr $80 door fee, $160 to the attendant. Does that mean that the typical client is a $91 or better tipper? Again, you have to be wrong there... And again.. Compare that to some Indy's who charge $300+/hr and not sure how your first assertion jives with your second.
I am sure there are som MPAs who are booked solid and have some guys who are great tippers and they walk away at the end of each shift very well compensated.
I'm sure there are some bp girls working as SPs who some nights barely cover their costs.
But to say either of those is the norm for the collective group of MPAs or SPs has got to be exaggeration and factually incorrect.
Also makes me wish Bella would move to a different organization... Because te thought of giving you any of my money doesn't sit well...
Not once have I said fs is bad. Again, just your bias speaking. Yes, being an mpa is harder in terms of skill/physical labor. That's the exchange for no fs. Ya'll so conveniently ignore that most mp's are fs. Muse is unique. Mp's also killed the sc biz. And just a much as girls switch from mpa to sp, they switch the other way too. I have 5 former sp's on staff. All switched because their bodies couldn't handle the fs anymore.
I love that you start off with "ive never been to an mp" then say "you have no credibility". Lmfao!
Actually, pay starts @160/hr. If you knew about mp's and girls pay, you'd know that.
Yes. We have 43. We are 1 spa. Toronto alone has 25 body rubs + over 1000 holistic spas. If you want to try to compare top sp's earning with amp's that's not a comparison. There's plenty of slow sp's out there. A top mpa and a top sp probably earn the same, or the mpa more. I recently saw agencies at price-points of 220/hr. That's much less that a top mp for the hour. The industry is shifting ya'll. You can ignore it or call me names or tell me I'm terrible for speaking the truth. And that's cool, that's your angst. Doesn't change the facts folks. I haven't said a thing that was mean or judgmental. Just voiced the mp side of things.
Bella is team-muse all the way! And she is as happy as she is because muse is amazing! And so is she!
Tell your friend to stay away from the industry, if she REALLY insists then give her a few good contacts.
It is all too easy to advise someone against going into a potentially
hideous job with good intention. But think what other options
you can suggest. If the person you want to help is driven into
the sex industry by difficult financial situation what can you do
to help her out?
hideous job with good intention. But think what other options
you can suggest. If the person you want to help is driven into
the sex industry by difficult financial situation what can you do
to help her out?
I would happily break her in. Nothing like trying it to understand the experience. Even better than 3rd party verbal account from other SPs. You don't know until you try it.
I'm with oil&gas on what the first response should be, that is - before she jumps into a career choice that can have a strong emotional impact on her life - what is the motivation ? If she has a belief that intimacy with a lover is inseparable with sexual activity - I question that paid sexual encounters with men she is not even mildly attracted to will not create huge intimacy problems long term. This isn't a dig on erotic service providers - it's just that we all have different maturity / objective ways of dealing with love and sex.
I didn't take the mpa reference as an insult as many did but I would recommend a gradual wading into the sexual entertainment field instead of jumping into the deep end. Ex: having a naked stranger in front of you that you must service while realising you don't want to do it - a situation that could be as traumatic as a date rape.
Why not ask her just to sign in as a an independent SC dancer first. Few expectations and there isn't any situation that she cannot say 'No' and simply walk out. I was in Loco one evening when I talked to young dancer and took her into the VIP. She was really nervous and I found out I was her first customer on her first day. She was going to do it for a few weeks to make some money. I let her sit on my lap for two songs as I gave her a few suggestions about keeping count of songs with a customer, if she felt intimidated - tell the customer she has to get ready for the stage, etc. She left the club soon after a few VIP trips never to return. If this girl felt uncomfortable with VIP visits, I can't imagine what FS would have been like.
If she is a friend - I'd recommend helping her find a gradual method of discovering if she is emotionally suited to the life of an escort.
