A question for all

[ycghiydvo]

Okay, we all know that everyone looks at their first sexual experience with fondness, whether it was good, bad, whatever. And we also know that that experience has a tendency to influence how and why you do things sexually now.

My question to the hobbyists first--

Do you remember the first SP you were with and does that influence how you see them now? Do you do things based upon what was done the first time with them?

For SP's

Do you remember your first client and does that influence how you do things now? Do look at them with fondness, or do you look at them with disdain?

Just trying to get a gauge on this ...

 

[luv4lust]

i remember him well and there is no doubt he remembers me i think he is a sweetheart

i have been influenced by every one of my friends, and i wouldn't change anything about them or my experiences.


hugs and kisses to you all
you know who you are

 

[Quirt]

First time memories

My first SP provided the most posative time for me.
I was really luckey to have seen a very lovely, understanding young girl who spent an inordinate amount of time making it a memory that I've cherished for over 20 years.

Because of this I've always had a soft spot for all SPs, and a great desire to find the ones with whom I "click"

My only down side is just thinking of all that money I've blow
(on other things)

 

[Jaman50]

Hobbyist's Perspective

Yes I remember the first SP I was with … I am only an occasional hobbyist.

Am I influenced by that first experience? .. No .. I look at every new encounter as a new chapter?? no ... more like a new book in the library of life.

Everyone is different and so depending on the mood & personality of the person you are with … things can be very different.

Respect for fellow human beings ... especially of the opposite sex … is very important to me, as is the exchange that is necessary to find those “magic buttons” .. mental and physical that are critical to a good FUN time together. I feel strongly that both parties must share in the pleasures for the experience to be worthwhile.
“YOU NO HAVE FUN = ME NO HAVE FUN”
Hence , a ½ hr or 1hr meeting doesn’t work for me.

So to your question on do you do things based on that first time?? … no every time is different cause everyone is different and that’s what keeps life interesting.
“Vive le difference”

 

[zydeco]

Sad to say - but I have no recollection whatsoever. Actually I'm not sure if thats good or bad!

 

[dickydoem]

I thnk it would be difficult for me to duplicate that first time, certainly not for the cost anyway.

I started "hobbying" a number of years ago now, didn't even know it was a hobby. My first was with (think this was the polite term then) a "call girl" from Buffalo. Not sure where I even got her number, but might have been from "The Key". Was well before the internet and places like this and newspapers wouldn't run any kind of sex related ad.

Anyway was living near Hamilton and she drove over and we met at a restaurant and had dinner. We then went back to my place and she produced a camera and asked if I would like her to pose. Said yes , of course. So she stripped and I took a number of nude shots of her. (She took the film with her , had it developed and sent me the pictures). She was quite attractive with long hair down to her ass.

We then went to bed and had several sexual encounters. She spent the night and we had a morning session as well. Showered together, made her some breakfast and she left. Definitely a GFE.

Altogether spent about 14-16 hours together and I think it was $175 US and our dollar was closer to theirs then so was maybe around $200 CDN. Back then that was a much greater amount than now but was still a bargain.

For various reasons, never did see her again , but might be interesting if I were able to see her again now, although she was somewhat older than me and would be over 50 now.

Had a number of encounters since then but none of the overnight variety and probably few, if any, that were as good.

 

[ycghiydvo]

I have had few, but enough to see that I want the GFE, quality over quantity. More hours, better rooms, etc.

 

[MuffinMuncher]

My first SP was an independent in New York City who got rave reviews on the old alt.sex.prostitution newsgroup (predecessor to the TBD and other review boards). She was patient, interested in me having a great time, and attractive in a plain unassuming way. Set the standard for minimal expected enjoyment from that point forward.