Love that comment. So for a man who is attached and doesn't look like Brad Pitt the only other reason a girl may have to be close with him is his generosity? Am I getting it right or missing something? If that's right it leads back to the path of paying for sex, no matter it's a escort /John situation or Sugardaddy/ sugarbaby situation. Please let me know is there any other option available for an average looking guy who is still attached?
None of my PoF hookups required any real generosity...the only things that had to be paid for was the occasional day room at a hotel (I used the Days Inn a lot back then). Should be clear however...these were not models...pretty average looking hosusewives. Some that I met were categorically fugly...there was one of two hotties. With one, I kept up one arrangement for about a year when I was married, but it led to an emotional meltdown on her end (as another poster mentioned often happens), she was looking to get out of her marriage...I was not. The challenge is to look for an attached woman that really only wants an occasional booty call...can say I ever found that since pretty much all of the hookups I had had some kind of drama..hence my interest in SP's.
I was completely unsuccessful witrh single women since they do not have the same need for discretion as I did.
I also echo symbiosis' comment...it is a ton of work...yet another reason why I turned to SP's...
